Oct 102014
 

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Now that she’s maneuvered her hand into a handjob-type situation, Poetic shows some of the techniques for dealing with clothing and increasing both intimacy and sensation. Again, the enjoyment for both Gray and Poetic is in the touching for it’s own sake, and the feeling of connection.

Oct 052014
 

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The next part of this series focuses on the woman initiating sex from a snuggly feeling. Poetic demonstrates several erotic techniques for caressing, touching, whispering dirty talk. She is working her way towards the cock, but that is covered – and uncovered – in part 2.

Oct 022014
 

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Now that they’ve gone over the non-sexual version of cuddling, Gray and Poetic are going to show how to let cuddling be the start of a more sexual interaction. It’s based around communication, consent, and most importantly intent. This clip is about the female in the “little spoon” position.

Sep 182014
 
This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

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You don’t need to have a whole lot of props and a dungeon to be dominant, and Scotty proves it in this clip. He talks about how you can use any wall and some confident body language to convey the fantasy of control and dominance. He breaks it down step-by-step, covering position and how to hold your weight in a way that reinforces your role in the fantasy.

Sep 092014
 
This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

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Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand still available for all kinds of mischief!

Aug 282014
 
This entry is part 7 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

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When playing with the role play of power exchange, the way you interact with each other nonverbally is just as important as what you say. In this clip Scotty draws on the principles of body language, sports, and fantasy to reinforce the power dynamic between the man and the woman.

Aug 172014
 
This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

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Most people focus on the genitals and secondary areas like the nipples, according to Ducky, when they’re talking about sex. However, there are many more places that can turn you on, and she tries to get to each and every one in this clip! Starting from the pc muscles essential to everyone’s orgasm and working all the way out to the tips of the hair, Ducky talks about the many ways you and your partner can explore the intimacy of turning each other on.

Aug 102014
 
This entry is part 5 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

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Part of preparing for that hot phone sex session is making sure you’re in the right environment. Ashley Manta talks about how to set the scene not only in terms of distractions and privacy but also internally. She explains how to put yourself into the right mindset for phone sex, heightening your awareness of your body. Ashley also has some suggestions for how to heighten your lover’s awareness and anticipation of the big event.

Aug 012014
 
This entry is part 12 of 13 in the series Erotic Dancing

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In these two videos Andre shows you actual physical moves to twist and grind when performing for your partner. She covers a lot of useful “hidden” tricks, like weight balancing and how to use your partner’s body for stability. Andre also shows how to modify the moves based on your own body’s abilities.

Jul 222014
 
This entry is part 11 of 13 in the series Erotic Dancing

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In these two videos Andre shows you actual physical moves to twist and grind when performing for your partner. She covers a lot of useful “hidden” tricks, like weight balancing and how to use your partner’s body for stability. Andre also shows how to modify the moves based on your own body’s abilities.

Jun 012014
 
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Building Sexy Energy

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In this clip Rain and Mickey continue to show various techniques for creating and sustaining a sexual mood even when you’re fully clothed. Rain pays special attention to the fact that intent is the prime focus – it’s not just about the actions, it’s about the authentic desire you and your partner feel.

May 152014
 
This entry is part 5 of 7 in the series Sexy Sensations

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 Annie enjoys the soft touch of natural-fiber rope as expertly applied by Scotty in this video. He talks about how this simple object can be used all over the skin to heighten awareness and stimulate your partner, then demonstrates just how simple and powerful it can be.

May 142014
 
This entry is part 2 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

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Ducky reminds you in this clip that men aren’t from Mars, women aren’t from Venus – we’re all right here on Earth, and there are fewer differences between us than you’d think. In fact, one out of every two thousand babies is born “intersex” – with both sexual characteristics. She outlines just how similar men and women are, and also how the minor differences result in some pretty significant changes in how each sex gets aroused. Erectile tissue is the key, and Ducky talks about it in depth to give you a better understanding of the anatomy of desire.

Apr 272014
 

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Kitty Stryker continues to give examples of how common fetishes like dominance, submission, and public play can become a part of your life in this second part of the video series. She also explains how the key is getting ideas for yourself and recommends a few different ways to not only come up with ideas but communicate them to your partner in fun and sexy ways.

Apr 102014
 

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Now that they’ve covered foreplay, Mickey and Rain get their breast sex into full gear in this clip. Rain talks about her two favorite positions for having Mickey’s cock between her breasts. She also describes things like when to add lube to the fun and other details of hot sexy fun with her breasts.

Apr 082014
 
This entry is part 4 of 7 in the series Sexy Sensations

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 Scotty and Annie demonstrate the sensual potential of adding a simple length of chain to your toy collection. Scotty explains how to use both the texture and the sounds of the chain to maximum effect, gracefully combining both safety and sexuality as he uses the chain to stimulate Annie in a variety of ways.

Apr 042014
 

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Rain Degrey brings out her breasts in this clip to show, with Mickey Mod, some techniques for arousal and foreplay. After a thorough demonstration by Mickey she explains how different areas of the breast and nipple respond to his various techniques, and also describes how different people can respond. Every woman is different, and there are a wide variety of things to try from just this first video. Next up: sexing the breasts once they’re turned on!

Apr 022014
 

A massage for herThe sense of touch is one of the most visceral and direct ways to create intimacy with your partner. Talking is great, staring into each other’s eyes can be profound, but actually reaching out and having skin-to-skin contact brings both of you into the present now. When you are actually touching, for a time you are no longer two separate bodies, but one connected whole.

Massage can be a way to develop and nourish the meaning of touch between the two of you. However, with all of the books and professional services out there, it may seem a little intimidating to get your hands working on your partner. PassionateU has clips from some of the best instructors of intimate massage, and that can give you a head start when you’re wanting to try some romantic massage.

In fact, one of the best instructors, Bettie Rage, starts with the head and moves all the way down in a long series of instructional clips. One of the best parts about her work with PassionateU is that she doesn’t gloss over the sexy parts, giving very explicit explanation and demonstration of sensual massage for the genitals.

Bettie’s course is comprehensive, giving clear instructions on several different massage techniques used by professionals. She puts them into a more intimate context, however, keeping the focus on the “sensual” side of things. The purpose of the massage is to relax and focus on each other, after all, and that means that rather than worry about techniques you can focus on reading your partner, enjoying their body as much as they are enjoying your touch.

Shay and Stefanos have many videos on how to connect as couples, and part of their technique is to start slow and build intensity. They have many examples of how this technique can heat up the romance in a variety of ways, from sensual massage to making out to even having sex, but all of it helps to increase the desire between the partners.

Once the theory is put out there, though, Shay gets down to more practical skills as she demonstrates sensual massage as foreplay. She talks in this clip about how important a romantic environment can be, to take your mind out of the world and onto each other. Comfort is also essential, and Shay recommends some positions for both the giver and the receiver in massage to make sure everyone can relax. Finally she talks about various ways to touch your partner – even with some thoughts on the pros and cons various kinds of lubrication.

If you’re more interested in direct sexual contact, Yonilicious enthusiastically goes over several genital massage techniques in her series. If you don’t have time for a full-body experience, sometimes just a direct massage of the genitals can bring a couple closer. That may mean going all the way to a “happy ending”, or it may just be the pleasure of feeling intimate contact. Regardless, Yonilicious also talks about some thorough and specific techniques for massaging the bum as well – a great way to exchange massages with your partner

The renowned sex educator Jaiya has taught sensual touch to thousands of couples through her videos. Her philosophy is a great way to combine both the physical techniques of the other instructors with a psychological and emotional openness that can turn a simple touch into an amazingly profound experience. She explains how this kind of touch can not only be an amazing part of sex but also an end unto itself, helping both couples get attuned to each other in new ways.

Romantic massage is one of the best ways to re-ignite a connection between partners who may be overly familiar with each other. However, it’s important not to try and measure up to some external ideal of what the massage “should” be. Yes, it could be a deeply spiritual and mind-blowing experience – but it also might turn into a giggling ticklefest. Laughing together can be a tremendously bonding experience, as Dr. Ruthie explains in her “Dating Your Spouse” series.

One point that all of the educators emphasize is that your romantic massage should be for the two of you. It may be short, it may be hours, it may have fancy massage oils or it may just be a soft touch of a finger on your lover’s face as you drive the car. The romantic intent of connecting, of being open to feeling, that is what will make that massage special. It’s worth exploring the power of touch to bring you both closer together, and these clips have the ideas that can get you started.

Feb 232014
 

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In this very long and explicit tutorial Dylan Ryan and Mickey Mod talk about the wonders of mutual masturbation. They first talk about why they enjoy sharing this kind of sensuality and sexuality with each other, then spend some time demonstrating how you can share it intimately and enjoyably. They model communication and even pull out their favorite sex toys to keep the energy going.

Feb 142014
 

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In part 2 of their series on getting things started in bed, Dylan and Mickey talk about how to wake up your partner with a desire for sex, as well as ways that Dylan likes to use her thighs and hands to communicate her desire to her partner.

Feb 022014
 

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Dr. Heather Howard completes her series on alleviating pain during sex by covering the final two “P’s”: position and pleasure. She recommends several methods to position yourself for maximum comfort including using special “sex furniture” and then goes into ways to increase the level of arousal and find a way for the sexual needs of both partners to be met.

Jan 282014
 

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Stefanos and Shay demonstrate in this clip how you can find the hidden erogenous zones of your partner. They explain how it’s easy to get stuck in a rut with an old partner, or simply be unsure with a new one, of where their hot spots are. With sensual exploration you can discover new paths to intimacy and arousal for both of you.

Jan 232014
 

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Dylan Ryan & Mickey Mod continue to talk about the ways you can initiate sex with your partner by taking it to a more assertive level. This can just be unmistakable cues of body language or go all the way to forcefully holding hands over the head. Dylan also points out that you can use the whole body of your partner, not simply the sexual parts, for your assertive expression of affection.

Jan 192014
 

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 Scotty and Annie delve into the finer points of including the throat and neck in your consensual fantasy role-play. Starting with determining the “sensitive” spots, Scotty takes you step-by-step through different techniques with enthusiastic commentary by Annie.