Sep 272014
 
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual Trauma

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If your partner has had sexual trauma, what is the best way to support them? That’s what Ashley Manta tackles in this clip, starting with her own experience of not-so-supportive family members. She outlines more constructive strategies for giving partners what they need – no more and no less. Ashley also recommends resources such as “Allies in Healing”, a book written for the partners of trauma survivors.

Jul 152014
 

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Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.

Jun 272014
 

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As she works on her upcoming book, Miss Jaiya is living 40 days as a dominant with her partner and 40 days as a submissive. They are exploring the various skills, experiences, and lessons learned through this experience, and using it to create a new book. You can learn about some of her conclusions right here on Passionate U in the “What is Your Sexual Type?” clip, and in this one she is interviewed by Princess Kali about the journey.

May 022014
 
This entry is part 2 of 7 in the series Key Principles of Tantra

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In this clip Mark and Patricia explain an essential concept of tantra: having reverence for your partner. This kind of support and respect can help you bring pleasure to your partner and, more than that, Mark explains that the effects can go beyond your relationship into the larger world.

Feb 162014
 
This entry is part 6 of 13 in the series Spanking with Scotty

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 Scotty and Annie show the ways that spanking technique can be adjusted to the classic “bent over a chair” position. Aside from showing how the angle and control can be greater, they also cover how to deal with some of the more unexpected occurrences that can happen during a spanking scene.

Oct 242013
 

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Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.

Sep 032013
 

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 Dr. Ruthie explains in this clip that many of the same stresses you face in everyday life can impact your sex life as well. She mentions examples like career and the kind of bickering that can develop in a relationship, then suggests several techniques for overcoming these stressors with your partner.

Aug 112013
 
This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Communicationg about sex & trauma

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 Kitty Stryker discusses male sexual trauma during this three-minute video. She first comments on gender and then covers some of the common difficulties for male-bodied persons with sexual trauma history. Kitty also recommends what you can do to help your partner(s) feel safer.

Jun 252013
 

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 While the idea of “two becoming one” is romantic, Dr. Ruthie explains that it may not be the most stable way to nurture a relationship. Instead, she suggests a “triangle” made up of the two individuals and the relationship itself, with all being nurtured and supported together. This gives you a team to make it through the stressful times together, which she’ll explain further in other clips.

Jun 022013
 

 Dr. Heather Howard discusses communication about sexually transmitted infections during this six-minute video. She recognizes that the conversation may not be an easy one, but she suggests various ways to prepare for – and know when to have – it. Dr. Howard also notes some statistics, perspectives on protection and risk reduction, and methods of support.

May 042013
 

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 In this clip Kelly Shibari tackles a tricky situation: how can a couple get through the awkwardness that sometimes occurs when one partner gains significant weight? She talks about how attraction and arousal can change (or not) and brings it back around to the idea of communication and honesty being the best way to strengthen any relationship.

Mar 152013
 

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 After her first video explained how pleasure can reduce stress, here Julie Hekate goes into the actual implementation of the concept. She explains how to deliberately stimulate the senses with things that you enjoy, especially focusing on sensual or sexual touch. This method helps stimulate hormones such as oxytocin and lets you access the “calm & connect” system more easily.

Jan 242013
 
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Kitty Stryker continues her series on plus size sex during this five-minute, part-one video. With the help of Mike, Kitty shows different variations of the missionary position during this clip. She also introduces some basic tools and furniture to increase comfort during sex. Stay tuned for much more in part two.

Jan 012013
 

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Kitty Stryker and Penny Barber begin their discussion on safer sex for cunnilingus during this four-minute, part-one video. They initially highlight both personal attitudes about female genitalia and preferable anatomical terminology. Kitty and Penny recommend communication, negotiation, and awareness of the health risks of cunnilingus. Stay tuned for more in part two.

Nov 242012
 

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Penny Barber and Kitty Stryker demonstrate different positions for cunnilingus during this three-minute video. They show several sexy positions, note their benefits, and highlight variations as well.

Sep 112012
 

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Abiola Abrams discusses how to create a boudoir shoot during this five-minute video. She explains what it is and recommends how to be comfortable in doing one for yourself – from clothing to location and more. Abiola also describes her own experience of a boudoir shoot.

Aug 212012
 
This entry is part 6 of 8 in the series Receiving Blowjobs Gracefully

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GrayDancer continues his series on receiving oral sex during this six-minute video. With Naiia’s assistance, he demonstrates several positions and highlights the advantages of each. He offers tips on comfort, control, depth, tempo, intimacy, mutual stimulation, and much more. Stay tuned for communication during oral sex during Gray’s next video in this series.

Jun 222012
 

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Maggie and Ned Mayhem complete their series on sexual positions during this five-minute, part-two video. They demonstrate more positions with Maggie on top – the traditional reverse cowgirl and several variations. They show ways to increase stamina, maintain accessibility and penetration, and more.

Jun 082012
 

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Shanna Katz completes her series on sex positions during this eight-minute video. She talks about self-understanding, desires, communication, comfort, and sexiness — as well as dispels myths about size differences between partners. Shanna also offers tips on breast movement, breathing, masturbation, and more.

Jun 022012
 

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Maggie and Ned Mayhem continue their series on sexual positions during this four-minute, part-one video. They demonstrate various positions with Maggie on top and offer numerous various tips on how to control the speed and angles of penetration – as well as increase comfort, sensation, and stamina – during sexual intercourse. Maggie and Ned show the reverse cowgirl position in part two.

May 202012
 

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Shanna Katz continues her series on sex positions during this six-minute video. She focuses on a couple effective positions for paralysis and the numerous slight modifications for each. Shanna offers tips on sex toys and communication – with both your physician and your partner(s). Stay tuned for more sex positions in her upcoming clips.

Apr 272012
 
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Maggie and Ned Mayhem continue their series on sexual positions with this five-minute video. They show the many slight variations that affect the angle and depth of penetration when one partner is lying face down. Maggie and Ned also recommend different ways to be comfortable, conserve energy, increase stamina, and more. Stay tuned for more in their upcoming clips on sexual positions.

Apr 172012
 

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Shanna Katz continues her series on sex positions with this six-minute video. She focuses on positions for those with bad backs. Shanna suggests ways to support your back (e.g., pillow placements, locations for sex, etc.) and also discusses such things as planning, pressure, accessibility, dildo play, and more. Stay tuned for more on sex positions in her upcoming clips.