Shay (with some enthusiastic manhandling help from Stefanos) explains what goes on with your body when your happy spanking, roughhousing, or just enthusiastic sex leads to contusions that mark the skin. She also shares the magic of RICE for curing what ails you, and encourages you to be careful but not stop the fun!
Do you like the word “moist”? How about your partner? Better figure it out before you have that hot phone sex session! Ashley talks in this clip about how important it can be to make sure you’re both aware of what kind of words, ideas, and fantasies turn you both on. She goes over several different areas, from the kinds of acts you want to talk about to the kind of grammar you’re going to be using, so that when you pick up the phone you are ready to keep things on the sexy side.
Scotty and Alex make their spanking demo even more intense by bringing in some toys that can keep a scene going when the hands start to give out. Paddles, hairbrushes, and other toys give a variety of sensations, and Scotty shows how the technique of the hand can translate into the tool as well.
Scotty and Alex cool down after all the spanking action of the previous clips by talking about the physiology of this kind of impact play. There are a lot of things that can go on, from reddening of the skin to the “leathery” feeling from a lot of spanks. Alex gives her perspective and her favorite methods while Scotty reminds us that everybody’s different and that there’s no telling how a certain skin type will react – so do what’s right for you.
Scotty and Annie demonstrate how the thrill of spanking isn’t limited to stingy hard smacks. Using simple tools like a soft car mitt, a leather paddle, and more, they show techniques that compliment a spanking and are every bit as hot.
Scotty shows how to ramp things up in a spanking scene in this clip with the enthusiastic bottoming skills of Alex. They demonstrate how both sides improve the connection between spanker and spankee using variations in tempo, pressure, and impact. With all the work of teaching, both his hand and her ass are quite red, and in the next clip Scotty will explain how best to solve at least one of those.
Scotty and Annie continue to demonstrate the classic kink, OTK spanking, in this clip. Annie gives some feedback on why her position is just right for her arousal, while Scotty illustrates the ways that variations in tempo and intensity can add a lot to the experience. They also touch on the “sweet spot” – literally – and give a thorough exploration of this kind of OTK spanking.
Scotty and Annie show the ways that spanking technique can be adjusted to the classic “bent over a chair” position. Aside from showing how the angle and control can be greater, they also cover how to deal with some of the more unexpected occurrences that can happen during a spanking scene.
Jacq Jones from “Sugar the Shop” in Baltimore talks about the nuts and bolts of making a kinky “scene” work. Not surprisingly, honest communication is key, but the way you express yourself can be important as well. Whether it’s using colors like “red” and “green” or simply adjusting the way you’re doing a role play or even using your safeword, Jacq lays out just how to make sure you both get to your happy place as you explore your kink.
Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to add a little kink to your sexy times with each other.
Scotty and Alex get “hands-on” in this next segment in their Spanking series. The “Over the Knee” or “OTK” spanking is great for giving full support and making the skin available for a wide range of sensations. Scotty and Alex demonstrate several techniques as well as talking about how to combine the spanking with other sensual techniques.
Scotty and Annie show how the simple inclusion of counting can up the intensity of a basic spanking scene. It increases focus for both the spanker and the spankee and provides a framework where you can play with things like intensity, tempo, and role-playing scenarios. Annie enthusiastically demonstrates her counting skills as Scotty turns her ass pleasantly pink in this excellent addition to the sensual domination series.
Scotty and Alex explore another spanking position, with her on all fours with her ass up in the air. Alex talks about why the position makes her feel more “manhandled” while Scotty demonstrates the ergonomic flexibility available.
Alice in Bondageland continues her series on anal play with this seven-minute video. She first discusses prostate play; Alice then explains how to remove a butt pug, introduces how to wear a strap-on harness, and demonstrates how to insert a strap-on dildo. She continues her series by showing additional anal play positions in her next video.
Shanna Katz takes her series on sensation play to a sharper level in this segment. Experiencing a variety of implements, Aidan Starr enjoys the feeling of everything from plastic clothespins to credit cards with a few surprises in between. Shanna also goes into the psychology behind using edges for this kind of play and includes practical tips for adapting to real life and variations in bodies and skin. Plenty of safety tips are included, making this a great resource for your own sharp sensation play adventure.
Sinnamon Love explains how you don’t have to break the budget to have a great selection of toys for female domination. Hardware stores and other common neighborhood household supply outlets have all sorts of items for spanking, tying, and other fun activities. Sinnamon talks about considerations to keep in mind so that you can get just the sensation you want, as well as recommending tools like safety scissors to keep any problems from coming up.
Jacq addresses the one key ingredient that differentiates 50 Shades-type sex from abuse, and that is consent. She talks about how consent is created through negotiation and how it can change as people experience things together. She recommends working towards “radical consent”, that whole-hearted enthusiastic “yes!” to trying out this kind of play in the bedroom.
Alice in Bondageland instructs her submissive to ride her strap-on during this seven-minute video. She has him demonstrate two particular positions, and she discusses the value of the various angles of penetration too. Alice also adds vibration to increase the pleasure for both herself and her submissive. Stay tuned for more in her next video.
Scotty and Alex get “hands-on” in this next segment in their Sensual Spanking series. The “Over the Knee” or “OTK” spanking is great for giving full support and making the skin available for a wide range of sensations. Scotty and Alex demonstrate several techniques as well as talking about how to combine the spanking with other sensual techniques.
Jacq Jones begins a series that explores the various sexual techniques used in the wildly popular “50 Shades” series with the most important question: What parts of the book should stay fantasy, and what can become a real part of your sex life? Jacq describes how to evaluate your own desires and also the best way to start a safe and sexy exploration of the erotic fiction.
Alice in Bondageland offers yet another position for strap-on play during this six-minute video. She shows how to adapt your own couch for great angles of penetration and how to maximize your thrusting power even while using minimal energy. Alice offers a host of tips on power, tempo, connection, experimentation, and much more.
Sinnamon Love explains how female domination doesn’t have to be all about “in your face” aggression. There’s a place for more sensual and gentle-but-firm play, too. Sinnamon talks about various techniques and body parts – both on you and your partner – that can energize a domination scene with sensuous pleasure.
Scotty, Alex, and Annie giggle together as they talk about common myths around spanking. From the stereotypes of porn to the idea of letting go of ideas such as “punishment”, they clearly explain what is and isn’t true, along with some recommendations on how to get to the truth of your own spanking experience and make it a wonderful part of your relationship.
Scotty begins a series of videos on the fantasy of male domination and female submission with an overview of just what it is that makes this kind of play attractive. Whether it’s the feeling of release or the fun scary tension of giving up control, he assures you that there are ways to keep it consensual, fun, and still hot.