Jul 152014
 

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Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.

Jul 052014
 

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Anita Wagner continues her series on sex addiction and compulsion with this part-three, eight-minute video. In this video she provides a straightforward reflection on what it is like to be the partner of a sex addict/compulsive. Anita discusses the many ways that a partner may respond to the difficulties, and she suggests ways that may lead to healing. She also includes helps for recovery for the person with the addiction/compulsive. Anita finishes with an emphasis on what not to do.

Jun 282014
 

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When you’re seeking a non-traditional relationship it can be difficult to get involved in the dating scene. In this clip, Marcia B gives some tips on various groups in cities large and small that tend to attract alternative types, from gamers to dancers to volunteers. She also provides some tips on how to behave within the groups so as to make the best impression and have the best luck attracting someone compatible with your particular kind of “different”.

Jun 062014
 
This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Slut Tips with Reid Mihalko

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Reid Mihalko begins his discussion on tips for sluts – to help reduce emotional drama and upset – during this six-minute, part-one video. He suggests group sexual activities, carefully designed one-on-one experiences, clear communication, and more. Stay tuned for additional insights in Reid’s upcoming clips.

Mar 252014
 

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 Kitty Stryker covers aftercare during this four-minute video. She discusses various aspects of aftercare: the logistics, different desires, necessities, communication/negotiation, and more. Kitty offers many practical tips to help improve your post-sexual experiences with your partner(s).

Mar 142014
 

A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love

Partners in Passion by Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels is the definitive book on how to build and sustain incredible sex and deep emotional connection for a lifetime.

Partners in Passion themselves, authors Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson provide readers with a fun step-by-step guide to creating a lasting, loving, erotic relationship. Partners in Passion is highly original and provocative, drawing on a variety of sources: cutting-edge science, psychology, the authors’ background in Tantra, and their personal experiences. It features interviews with couples from diverse backgrounds, relationship styles, and orientations and includes an extensive resource guide that covers everything from health to erotica to the best in contemporary sex education.

Oct 242013
 

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Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.

Sep 142013
 

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Having covered what not to do in a previous video, Kitty Stryker now suggests ways to talk with your partner about your kink during this nine-minute video. She covers approach, attitude, honesty, exploration, and compromise; as well as the many options available to experience your fantasies.

Aug 112013
 
This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Communicationg about sex & trauma

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 Kitty Stryker discusses male sexual trauma during this three-minute video. She first comments on gender and then covers some of the common difficulties for male-bodied persons with sexual trauma history. Kitty also recommends what you can do to help your partner(s) feel safer.

Jun 022013
 

 Dr. Heather Howard discusses communication about sexually transmitted infections during this six-minute video. She recognizes that the conversation may not be an easy one, but she suggests various ways to prepare for – and know when to have – it. Dr. Howard also notes some statistics, perspectives on protection and risk reduction, and methods of support.

Apr 202013
 

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 Kelly Shibari goes deeper into the language and feelings of plus-size sexuality. She focuses on the ways that larger people can communicate their comfort levels and desires with their partners, and how to give constructive feedback when a correction might be needed. Her friendly and open style of teaching makes this touchy subject accessible for everyone.

Apr 042013
 

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 Dr. Patti Britton discusses unhealthy sexual activities during this five-minute video. She first covers activities related to consent and then notes unprotected sexual behaviors. Dr. Britton also addresses sexual compulsivity – what it may look/feel like, its signs, and ways to manage it too.

Mar 212013
 

Kelly Shibari explains how the language you use in relationships with plus-size women (and, to some extent, men) can be triggering if done poorly. Some people are fine with words like “fat” and “chubby”, but not everyone. She recommends some alternatives (like the comedic “fluffy”) and also stresses that it’s important to interact with people based on who they are, not what they are.

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Mar 122013
 

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 Julian Wolf continues her series on fantasy fulfillment during this six-minute video. Recognizing that role plays are not always easy, she suggests various tips to help you have fun and be believable in your play. Julian discusses attitude, research, posture, details, and much more. She shares additional reflections in her upcoming clips as well.

Mar 082013
 

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 Reid Mihalko discusses erotic integrity, emotional release, and the minimization of upset during this six-minute video. He acknowledges the natural and even necessary upset that results from playing with intense sexual energy and suggests various ways to process it.

Feb 052013
 

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Will Fredericks of NamingDesire.com builds on the previous “Relationship Skills” videos to begin to show how you can use a “Desire/Intimacy/Sex” matrix as a tool to improve your own connections, romantic or not.

Jan 242013
 
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Kitty Stryker continues her series on plus size sex during this five-minute, part-one video. With the help of Mike, Kitty shows different variations of the missionary position during this clip. She also introduces some basic tools and furniture to increase comfort during sex. Stay tuned for much more in part two.

Dec 312012
 

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Dr. Heather Howard discusses the reduction of sexual pain during this four-minute video. She outlines the various professionals – as well as other resources (e.g., downloadable forms on her website) – available to assist those with pelvic pain. Dr. Howard also considers the effects of sexual pain on emotions, relationships, and more. Stay tuned for her upcoming clips during which she offers specific techniques to reduce sexual pain.

Dec 312012
 

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Will Fredericks explains why desire can be one of the key qualities to develop in your relationship. He acknowledges that finding what your desire is, what your partner desires, and then letting that fuel the passion between you is not always easy, but it is essential. Will shows you some ways to accomplish it.

Dec 072012
 

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Dr. Patti Britton finishes her discussion on sexual and gender identity during this three-minute, part-two video. She acknowledges the fluidity of identities and promotes the importance of self-identification (and not labeling others). Dr. Britton also covers past and current ways of understanding both the gender identity spectrum and sexual orientation.

Nov 252012
 

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Joan Price continues her series on senior sex during this seven-minute video. She discusses the importance of masturbation – the positive effects on sexual, relational, and general health – as well as recommends how frequently you should self-pleasure. Joan also shares a moving story and offers some helpful tips.

Nov 252012
 

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Betty Rage covers the last bit of prep before getting hands-on in Sensual Massage, comfort. She goes over the many factors of the environment, the headspace, and the physical condition of your partner that will make the sensual massage that much better for both of you.