Ducky starts this video by explaining that only about 20% of women can have an orgasm from penetration alone. At the same time it is one of the most common questions women ask her. She gives several suggestions about muscle control and exercises that can increase your pleasure and the chances of an orgasm. Ducky reminds us, though, that if penetration feels good it is worth exploring whether you orgasm or not.
Are you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal is “to feel good” and “to be close with my partner” it can take a lot of pressure off both people. It also prevents the temptation to “fake” anything, which doesn’t do anyone any good in the long run.
Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand still available for all kinds of mischief!
Scotty shows how to ramp things up in a spanking scene in this clip with the enthusiastic bottoming skills of Alex. They demonstrate how both sides improve the connection between spanker and spankee using variations in tempo, pressure, and impact. With all the work of teaching, both his hand and her ass are quite red, and in the next clip Scotty will explain how best to solve at least one of those.
In the final segment in this series Sadie Lune has some advice for the partners of pregnant women. With all the changes going on in both what is possible and what is preferred for sex, it is essential that the partner stay flexible and open to the variations. It’s also very important to maintain a positive and nurturing attitude throughout and enjoy the range of stimuli whether it’s rough sex or warm snuggles.
Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.
Having covered what not to do in a previous video, Kitty Stryker now suggests ways to talk with your partner about your kink during this nine-minute video. She covers approach, attitude, honesty, exploration, and compromise; as well as the many options available to experience your fantasies.
Dr. Jenn has talked about how mindfulness can help your sexuality, but how do you start becoming more present? In this video she gives you some practical and easy methods such as “the Stoplight” and “the Mindfulness Bell” which can quickly and easily begin the process of developing your ability to be present.
Fingering a clit is a fine art, and Miss Jaiya has a great technique for figuring out exactly what will bring your woman closer to orgasm. Give her choices – “this or that?” and bit by bit you’ll both figure out the best moves for maximum pleasure.
Scotty and Ammre go over some of the nicer ways to arouse and stimulate your partner’s nipples. He brings up some of the mistakes eager lovers sometimes make in their enthusiasm for nipples and suggests ways to use other parts of the hand and arm to make the sensation simultaneously pleasant and hot. More than just “how-to”, this video helps you take a wider view of why the way you play with nipples can change your love life for the better.
Alice in Bondageland continues her series on anal play with this seven-minute video. She first discusses prostate play; Alice then explains how to remove a butt pug, introduces how to wear a strap-on harness, and demonstrates how to insert a strap-on dildo. She continues her series by showing additional anal play positions in her next video.
Kitty Stryker discusses male sexual trauma during this three-minute video. She first comments on gender and then covers some of the common difficulties for male-bodied persons with sexual trauma history. Kitty also recommends what you can do to help your partner(s) feel safer.
Shanna Katz takes her series on sensation play to a sharper level in this segment. Experiencing a variety of implements, Aidan Starr enjoys the feeling of everything from plastic clothespins to credit cards with a few surprises in between. Shanna also goes into the psychology behind using edges for this kind of play and includes practical tips for adapting to real life and variations in bodies and skin. Plenty of safety tips are included, making this a great resource for your own sharp sensation play adventure.
Bettie Rage continues up the body and shows the best way to transition from massaging the shoulders to the neck, and what to avoid in that area. She then demonstrates the gentler strokes and many parts of the head that can become part of a sensual massage.
Shoulders, biceps, forearms, palms and fingers are all targeted in this clip by the skilled hands of Bettie Rage. She engages in the various strokes that apply to each section of the arms and teaches some new techniques for the fingers and palm.
Evöe Thorne puts Harold Henry under their Trample Table for this video to show how feet can be used for some amazing cock and ball stimulation. She covers accessories like lube as well as showing various techniques for stroking, applying pressure, and (judging from Harold’s face) generally having a lot of fun teasing with soles, heels, and toes.
Alice in Bondageland instructs her submissive to ride her strap-on during this seven-minute video. She has him demonstrate two particular positions, and she discusses the value of the various angles of penetration too. Alice also adds vibration to increase the pleasure for both herself and her submissive. Stay tuned for more in her next video.
Ned Mayhem continues his series on male masturbation during this nine-minute video. He introduces butt play by first addressing some misconceptions and commenting on the value and pleasure of body exploration. Ned then takes you through the process of anal penetration with your finger – and he discusses lubrication, duration, depth, cleanliness, prostate stimulation, orgasm, and much more. Stay tuned for Ned’s next clip on male masturbation.
In part 2 of his series on sexually dominant kissing, Scotty explains how to take the sensual nibbling from part 1 to a new level. He shows how some simple negotiation with Annie helps them determine the “sweet spot” for more intense biting, then shows how it can turn a sexy scene into an even hotter experience.
Bettie Rage continues to work her way sensually up the body. She shows various strokes for the sensitive skin of the belly along with special techniques for breast tissue. The shoulders and upper arms are usually more tense, and Bettie’s hands demonstrate some firmer massage to help them relax.
After her first video explained how pleasure can reduce stress, here Julie Hekate goes into the actual implementation of the concept. She explains how to deliberately stimulate the senses with things that you enjoy, especially focusing on sensual or sexual touch. This method helps stimulate hormones such as oxytocin and lets you access the “calm & connect” system more easily.
Danarama continues his demonstration of rough sex during this four-minute video. He shows how to use your fingers and hands during sex to heighten the experience of rough sex. Among other things, he suggests various ways to increase the woman’s experience of fullness during sex and also how to continue intercourse even after the man’s orgasm.
Bettie Rage starts to work her way up the front of the body, sensually massaging her partner’s calves, shins, and thighs. She builds on the techniques taught in the previous clips and adds in some sensual touching of the genitals as well to increase the intimacy of the experience.
Bettie Rage demonstrates the sensual delight of gluteal massage for both the giver and receiver in this clip. She thoroughly demonstrates the proper technique for strokes while talking about how this can be a great warm up for more intimate anal play.