Jacq Jones lays it out for straight men in terms of the best way to please their partner: learn to communicate. More than size, technique, or any fancy toys, learning how your partner is aroused and sexually satisfied is the one sure way to a better love life. Jacq recommends several ways to do this, and also goes into the other side: telling your partner what you like so that both of you can benefit.
Worried about pain during intercourse? Dr. Heather Howard explains in this clip some of the possible reasons the vagina may seem too “tight” before and during intercourse. Beyond explaining the “why”, she offers several suggestions for dealing with it such as increasing arousal and using lubrication. Dr. Howard also explains that there are medical conditions that can also cause this phenomenon, and when it would be a good idea to consult a sexual health professional.
Graydancer and Naiia flip things around in this video and show how frottage works with the man on top. Again you get to see both the practical side of how to do this kind of subtle lovemaking as well as the very real effects for Naiia.
In this clip Sadie expands on the idea of “self-care” in terms of sexuality while pregnant. She recommends combining the imperative of comfort with the fun of sexy in terms of lingerie, underwear, and clothing, as well as enjoying other forms of “luxury” like prenatal massage, manicures, and the like. She emphasizes that you shouldn’t look at this kind of thing as frivolous because a happy mother is going to make a healthier baby.
This clip helps cover two subjects that Ducky commonly talks to women about. First is the idea that how wet a woman is indicates how aroused she is (short answer: sometimes, not always). Second is about various kinds of lubricants that are good to have on hand to help make sex more fun and easy. She also talks about some safety and hygiene concerns to keep in mind for a happy pussy.
In this clip Mark and Patricia invite you to embrace a more “expansive” definition of heterosexual coupling. They explain the method of “karezza” (“soft embrace”) which can give couples a new insight into intimacy and pleasure. The technique was developed by a female gynecologist in the U.S. but has similarities to Taoist and tantric practices as well.
In this clip, Miss Jaiya explains that there are four common reasons why that latest Cosmo tip isn’t working. She covers biochemistry, biomechanics, your psyche, and also scar tissue from past trauma. Aside from examples, she also describes ways to turn these obstacles into pathways to greater pleasure.
Lady Cheeky does a thorough overview of sex toys in this clip with a particular focus: these are toys that have particularly helped women over 40 find more sexual satisfaction. She goes over g-spot stimulators, vibrators, dildos, vaginal and anal and lubricants, with plenty of tips for how to integrate these into your sex life whether you’re with a partner or not.
Dylan Ryan and Mickey Mod talk about one of their favorite things: fingering a pussy! In this clip they explain some of the reasons this is an underrated means of intimacy, closeness, and pleasure, as well as some of the prep that you can do beforehand to make it better (hint: wash your hands & have lube!). They demonstrate some of the fun ways the vulva can be stimulated on the outside; in part 2, they’ll discuss more positions and penetration.
Lady Cheeky & Kelly Shibari are happy to continue their exploration of the sensual body by discussing nipple stimulation. The arousal factor of the nipple can change a lot as a body changes due to age, and you can go from orgasming from breast stimulation alone to not wanting any touch there at all, or vice versa. Kelly does some hands-on and vibe-on demonstration as well.
Alice in Bondageland continues her series on anal play with this seven-minute video. She first discusses prostate play; Alice then explains how to remove a butt pug, introduces how to wear a strap-on harness, and demonstrates how to insert a strap-on dildo. She continues her series by showing additional anal play positions in her next video.
Dr. Derek Andelloux shares his expertise about various medications that can have side effects for your sex life. He talks in-depth about the various classes of medications known to have certain sexually-related results and describes some of the solutions to cope with them. Dr. Andelloux’s clear and friendly style help take the sting out of the medicine that sometimes hinders while it helps.
Sadie Lune knows about being sexy while pregnant. In this series of three videos, she demystifies the changes in a woman’s body during each trimester. She talks about the changes in both physical and mental ways and gives tips on how to maintain and enjoy the pregnant sexy body.
Ducky Doolittle says there are about 4000 different handjob techniques on the web, but it really boils down to a few key principles. According to her, the most important is lube and she gives a great overview of how to choose the best one for your man’s cock. She then explains two key techniques that she’s found to work on almost every man, with clear demonstrations of both.
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
Dr. Charlie Glickman has three magic words for you: Relaxation, Lubrication, and Communication. Watch this clip to learn how these three things can lead to fantastic anal sex for you and your partner. Charlie outlines techniques, makes recommendations of products, and explains why it’s worth it to explore this erotic activity.
Alice in Bondageland instructs her submissive to ride her strap-on during this seven-minute video. She has him demonstrate two particular positions, and she discusses the value of the various angles of penetration too. Alice also adds vibration to increase the pleasure for both herself and her submissive. Stay tuned for more in her next video.
Ned Mayhem continues his series on male masturbation during this nine-minute video. He introduces butt play by first addressing some misconceptions and commenting on the value and pleasure of body exploration. Ned then takes you through the process of anal penetration with your finger – and he discusses lubrication, duration, depth, cleanliness, prostate stimulation, orgasm, and much more. Stay tuned for Ned’s next clip on male masturbation.
Danarama continues his demonstration of rough sex during this four-minute video. He shows how to use your fingers and hands during sex to heighten the experience of rough sex. Among other things, he suggests various ways to increase the woman’s experience of fullness during sex and also how to continue intercourse even after the man’s orgasm.
Alice in Bondageland demonstrates how to insert butt plugs during this five-minute video. She starts with lubrication and then introduces different types of plugs especially designed for prostate play. Alice explains the process of insertion, recommends ways to increase comfort and aid clean-up, and offers various tips on everything from safety to public play. She continues her anal play series with strap-on play during her upcoming video.
Kitty Stryker and Penny Barber continue their series on safer sex for cunnilingus during this five-minute, part-two video. They describe various practical safer sex methods for oral sex as well as harm reduction strategies for those who cannot or do not want to use barriers. Be sure to view Kitty and Penny’s cunnilingus demonstrations too.