Jacq Jones lays it out for straight men in terms of the best way to please their partner: learn to communicate. More than size, technique, or any fancy toys, learning how your partner is aroused and sexually satisfied is the one sure way to a better love life. Jacq recommends several ways to do this, and also goes into the other side: telling your partner what you like so that both of you can benefit.
Phone sex can be hard work! Ashley goes over some of the items you might want to have on hand when you’re getting it on with someone from a distance. She starts with practical things – a hands-free headset, a charged phone, water to keep your moans hydrated – but also goes into more esoteric things like toys, dildos, and even kinky items to spice up your fantasy.
In the final long and explicit clip in the series Miss Ali first talks about the various ways she “reads” her partner’s body so she can give him pleasure. This is a lot more than just watching his cock, and she also talks about the satisfaction that can be gotten from just giving. In the second half she continues to show various ways of using the Tenga including having Gray hold it, using it on his balls, and other nifty tricks with this fun sex toy. She also covers cleanup after the pleasure is done.
In Part 2 Miss Ali demonstrates several techniques for warming up both the egg and her partner. Once it’s on, she uses various stroking techniques to give the special kind of handjob this sex toy can produce. Gray also talks about the sensation and the ways that different cocks might respond to this kind of touch.
This series by Bay Area sex educator Miss Ali shows how to use the popular “Tenga Egg” sex toy. Designed for male masturbation, it can also be fun to share with your partner in a hand-job fashion. In this clip Ali talks about opening up the packaging and how to use what’s inside – as well as what you might want to bring along.
In Part 3 it’s Graydancer’s turn to focus on his pleasure. He shows how a little lube and Naiia laying face-down can lead to some really enjoyable sliding of his cock between her ass cheeks. Naiia talks about the pleasure she gets out of it (more than you’d expect!) and they talk about how to integrate this kind of technique into your other sexy fun.
Rain DeGrey uses Mickey Mod’s cock as a demonstration piece to show how to bring your partner pleasure by stroking with hand and lube. She not only talks about why she likes it but also shares some of her favorite tips and tricks. Mickey chimes in with suggestions and comments about pacing, technique, and communicating with your partner. As Rain says, it’s a “win-win” situation!
Kitty Stryker continues to give examples of how common fetishes like dominance, submission, and public play can become a part of your life in this second part of the video series. She also explains how the key is getting ideas for yourself and recommends a few different ways to not only come up with ideas but communicate them to your partner in fun and sexy ways.
Mark and Patricia talk in this clip about how exploring your own sexuality can be a path to self-awareness. Drawing parallels with other spiritual disciplines, they give several examples for self-discovery. Part of the fun is changing things up and trying new things – new positions, new lubes, whatever seems right. This can help give you new tools for improving your relationships with others, too!
Graydancer and Naiia begin a series on anal play for couples by starting small – using a soft silicone version of . Gray begins with some soft sensation play, drawing on some of the techniques described by Ducky Doolittle and Jaiya here in other clips on PassionateU. Naiia takes the plug into her when she’s ready and wanting it, and you get to see some of the sexy fun possible with this kind of toy.
Now that they’ve covered foreplay, Mickey and Rain get their breast sex into full gear in this clip. Rain talks about her two favorite positions for having Mickey’s cock between her breasts. She also describes things like when to add lube to the fun and other details of hot sexy fun with her breasts.
This clip helps cover two subjects that Ducky commonly talks to women about. First is the idea that how wet a woman is indicates how aroused she is (short answer: sometimes, not always). Second is about various kinds of lubricants that are good to have on hand to help make sex more fun and easy. She also talks about some safety and hygiene concerns to keep in mind for a happy pussy.
For many years Kim Airs, along with many other sex educators, has cautioned against the use of glycerine-based sexual lubricants. The thought was that glycerine was a sugar, and sugars cause all kinds of upset in the vagina. In this clip Kim lays out some science that might call that idea into question. What do you think?
In part 2 of this series, Mickey and Dylan talk more about the technique of fingering in the right place, at the right pace, and in the right direction to drive your partner wild with pleasure. Dylan gives some additional tricks using the other hand, and they also share a new position or two so that you can find the right fingering method that works for you.
Lady Cheeky does a thorough overview of sex toys in this clip with a particular focus: these are toys that have particularly helped women over 40 find more sexual satisfaction. She goes over g-spot stimulators, vibrators, dildos, vaginal and anal and lubricants, with plenty of tips for how to integrate these into your sex life whether you’re with a partner or not.
Dylan Ryan and Mickey Mod talk about one of their favorite things: fingering a pussy! In this clip they explain some of the reasons this is an underrated means of intimacy, closeness, and pleasure, as well as some of the prep that you can do beforehand to make it better (hint: wash your hands & have lube!). They demonstrate some of the fun ways the vulva can be stimulated on the outside; in part 2, they’ll discuss more positions and penetration.
Lady Cheeky & Kelly Shibari are happy to continue their exploration of the sensual body by discussing nipple stimulation. The arousal factor of the nipple can change a lot as a body changes due to age, and you can go from orgasming from breast stimulation alone to not wanting any touch there at all, or vice versa. Kelly does some hands-on and vibe-on demonstration as well.
In this super-sized and super-hot clip Rain DeGrey shows exactly how hot anal sex can be done with a strap-on. She starts with lube and ends with happy orgasmic sounds from her partner. The clip can be summarized in three steps: Relax, Go Slow, Lots of Lube! But it’s worth the almost ten minutes just to see the truly spectacular (and educational) finish.
Alice in Bondageland continues her series on anal play with this seven-minute video. She first discusses prostate play; Alice then explains how to remove a butt pug, introduces how to wear a strap-on harness, and demonstrates how to insert a strap-on dildo. She continues her series by showing additional anal play positions in her next video.
Naiia takes the lead in this fun continuation of safer sex practices as they apply to 69. She shows how to turn a condom into a dental dam, and then they both show some tricks that makes it even more useful for all kinds of 69 fun. Closing out with some quick information about risk awareness, they’re ready to get on with the next clip where things really get moving!
Lady Cheeky, with the help of Kelly Shibari, talks about exploring your own body surfaces to discover what kinds of sensations you like. She recommends several oils, lubes, as well as sex toys of various kinds to really get into a variety of pleasurable feelings. This practice can help you communicate with your partner later and give you a head start on amazing touch.
Dr. Charlie Glickman provides a road map of how to locate the pleasure center of your man’s prostate. He explains how the gland can change depending on the state of arousal, plus what kinds of signals both you and he can feel to let you know you’re on the right track to mind-blowing prostate massage.
Gray and Naiia talk about a more serious subject in this clip: safer sex practices in 69. They cover several of the ways to negotiate what you’re comfortable with, including choosing what kinds of supplies to try. Gray even shows a “sexy” way to put a condom on that he learned right here on PassionateU!
Ducky Doolittle says there are about 4000 different handjob techniques on the web, but it really boils down to a few key principles. According to her, the most important is lube and she gives a great overview of how to choose the best one for your man’s cock. She then explains two key techniques that she’s found to work on almost every man, with clear demonstrations of both.