Jacq Jones lays it out for straight men in terms of the best way to please their partner: learn to communicate. More than size, technique, or any fancy toys, learning how your partner is aroused and sexually satisfied is the one sure way to a better love life. Jacq recommends several ways to do this, and also goes into the other side: telling your partner what you like so that both of you can benefit.
If your partner has had sexual trauma, what is the best way to support them? That’s what Ashley Manta tackles in this clip, starting with her own experience of not-so-supportive family members. She outlines more constructive strategies for giving partners what they need – no more and no less. Ashley also recommends resources such as “Allies in Healing”, a book written for the partners of trauma survivors.
Jacq Jones dispels the myth that porn watching is an unhealthy sign in a relationship. While there may be some concerns – such as when it hinders communication or fosters secrecy – pornography can also simply be a healthy part of a person’s fantasy and masturbatory life. Jacq also has some suggestions for how to find good porn, both in quality and production.