When one goes to a car dealership, it is helpful to know whether you are looking for a sports car, an SUV, or a family van. It is even more important to know what you’re looking for in a poly relationship. Mim Chapman devotes this 6 ½-minute video to two prevalent models of poly: “Me” Poly, where one person has multiple partners to meet their needs, and “We” Poly, where multiple partners share in a synergistic loving family.
Sex has so many possible definitions, from a sensual back massage or a stroke on the cheek to flogging to oral sex or penetration. It can be challenging to figure out just what feels sexual to you and to communicate with your partner, especially if you or your partner has one or more disabilities. In this six-minute video, Shanna Katz talks about how to have sex, how to talk about sex, and how to be sexual when disabilities are part of the picture.
No one should have to live with pelvic pain. But, because doctors often will not bring up sexual issues, it is up to you to be an advocate for your own health. In this 5 ½-minute video, Megan Andelloux shares some tips on identifying what hurts and effectively communicating with your doctor so they can treat your pain effectively.
Shanna Katz shares a wealth of tips for unconventional kink on the cheap in this 6-minute video! Shanna shares her favorite shopping destinations, including the dollar store, hardware store and Ikea, where you can get everything in every color! Shanna pulls out some surprising low cost items and uses them on a giggly Aiden Fire!
This video focuses on soft sensations that don’t have to leave marks, though some of them sure can. Stay tuned, because next time, Shana’s going to be pulling out (mwaahahaha) sharp things!
Part 2 of Madison Young’s “Introduction to Oral Pleasure” puts further intimate male anatomy, the frenulum and perineum on a serving platter. Using her hands, fingers and (of course) mouth, Madison shares tricks that will definitely expand your arsenal of pleasurable maneuvers.
Did you know that leather wallets and glove compartments could destroy your condoms? Megan Andelloux drops many pearls of wisdom such as checking your expiration date before playtime and the squeeze test in this must see 4-minute safety segment.
In this video, Madison Young talks oral pleasure, fellatio, and deep throating. In part 1, Madison touches the “sweet spots” and offers suggestions in finding a silicone practice prop.
Ms. Savannah Sly helps us get into gear with this 10 minute clip on anal play preparation. Savannah provides a short checklist of the essentials: lube, safer sex supplies, and a handy Bend Over Beginner Kit from Trinity Romance. Savannah opens the kit to explain the components of a basic strap-on harness, then proceeds to put it on and go over some positional considerations. This clip will give you the tools you need to jump start your first strap-on experience. Bend Over Beginner Kit available at trinityromance.com.
Having recently demonstrated some seriously sexy squirting, Dylan Ryan and Aiden Fyre are back to discuss the experience of squirting in this 2 part series of conversational videos. They discuss what it is (it ain’t urine!), how it happens, what it feels like, how to do/control it, its relation to orgasm, its frequency, suggestions for preparation and clean-up, and more!
Having recently demonstrated some seriously sexy squirting, Dylan Ryan and Aiden Fyre are back to discuss the experience of squirting in this 2 part series of conversational videos. They share personal accounts and preferences before moving onto the what’s, how’s and why’s in part 2.
Dylan Ryan and Aiden Fyre continue their G-spot play and demonstrate squirting in this 6-minute video. Dylan explains the process – highlighting communication as well as various tips on stimulation, toy placement, and body contact – and Aiden enjoys a phenomenal orgasm!
This 5-minute conversation with Kali focuses on the many styles of dominance: strict, motherly, cold, warm, bratty, teasing – and more! Kali, who draws from her personal experience throughout the video, summarily asks: What is it that makes you feel powerful?
Joe Winn, a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker and Certified Sex Therapist, introduces the topic of sexual addiction and compulsivity in this 8-minute video. He discusses 4 different models – addiction, compulsivity, hyper-sexuality, and the sex-disaster industry – by identifying the key thinkers, providing brief overviews, and noting the positives and negatives of these constructs. He completes this clip with a brief word on intervention by asking three important questions about sexual behavior.
Princess Kali thoroughly demonstrates hand spanking techniques on Miss Coral in this 9-minute video. Kali highlights how to maximize the top’s energy and the bottom’s pleasure through various tips on form, movement, placement, etc. Enjoy, and spread the love!
In this 3 minute wrap up of their discussion of slutty sex Dan and Dawn remind you that sharing your ‘slutty’ fantasies is a key component of being able to explore sexual adventures. Finishing up with recommendations for some special kinds of aftercare they encourage you to enjoy the kinds of secret passions that light your fire!
Dan and Dawn continue their discussion on slutty sex in a real relationship in this , third-part video. In the first two parts they highlighted the planning and doing of slutty sex, and now they emphasize the processing of their experiences. Honesty, openness, vulnerability, compromise, respect, fidelity, and aftercare are all vital to quality processing. Enjoy the process – and processing of slutty sex!
Tess Danesi emphasizes safety and non-intimidation in this 8-minute introduction to sensual dominance. She offers examples of soft restraint (e.g., silk scarves, Velcro gags), suggests ways to experiment and build confidence (e.g., massage, nipple pressure, erotic biting), and recommends slow pacing and rhythm variance during play.
Makael Newby shares great wisdom during this 6-minute reflection on pitfalls of non-monogamy. She discusses 5 such pitfalls — new relationship energy, lying and withholding information, crossing boundaries, pushing your own agenda, and blaming – by identifying, providing several real-life examples of, and suggesting how to deal with each one.
Makael Newby distinguishes between emotional and physical non-monogamy and applies the distinction to the lifestyles of swinging and polyamory during this 8-minute video. She defines a multitude of terms (swinging, swingles, unicorns; polyamory, triads, poly family, etc.) and gives plenty of examples. Makael suggests a variety of resources for further consideration as well.
Six minutes of slutty sex talk awaits you! Dan and Dawn continue their honest reflections during this second part of their video series. They identify 3 main points: the planning, the doing, and the processing; and they underscore important issues such as unpredictability, feelings of jealousy, etc. Stay tuned for their third segment as well.
To open or not to open a monogamous relationship? That is the question Anita Wagner addresses in this 10-minute video that completes her 3-part series on poly-mono relationships. She directs you to an abundance of resources as you and your partner(s) find the best ways to love each other.
Dr. Ruthie builds on her previous three clips during this 10-minute video. She encourages you to develop your fantasies by starting with what is great about you and your partner. Enhance the positive! Utilize your real-life experiences, catch your brief moments of arousal, consider your taboos, and give yourself time to fantasize. A great video for fantasy development and relationship building!
Arthur Hate uses the lovely hair of his demo model to demonstrate hair play in this 6-minute video. He shows good and bad grips, explains the biology and psychology of hair-play sensation, and identifies the many uses of hair play. Watch this video and learn why a bald person can enjoy hair play too!
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