Jacq Jones begins a series that explores the various sexual techniques used in the wildly popular “50 Shades” series with the most important question: What parts of the book should stay fantasy, and what can become a real part of your sex life? Jacq describes how to evaluate your own desires and also the best way to start a safe and sexy exploration of the erotic fiction.
Will Fredericks explains why desire can be one of the key qualities to develop in your relationship. He acknowledges that finding what your desire is, what your partner desires, and then letting that fuel the passion between you is not always easy, but it is essential. Will shows you some ways to accomplish it.
Scotty and Annie continue to demonstrate the fine art of a dominant male sensually disrobing a submissive female in this next clip. He tackles the sometimes-awkward task of removing the pants, talking about how body mechanics can really change it from a fumbling mess to a powerful and sensuous experience for both. He even shows how the pants can be used to integrate some “instant bondage” into your play.
Will from Naming Desire begins a series on improving your relationships with this clip. He describes how three key elements – desire, intimacy, and sex – can be examined and dealt with separately to improve the overall quality of your connection with your partners.
Scotty and Ammre show how to sensually and playfully use a riding crop in the bedroom. Popularized by 50 Shades, this equestrian tool can be a great way to focus attention and energy to erogenous zones and bring an element of spice to your sex life. Communication and consent are essential, of course, but they show how even a little role play can be worked in to a riding crop play session.
Scotty, Alex, and Annie giggle together as they talk about common myths around spanking. From the stereotypes of porn to the idea of letting go of ideas such as “punishment”, they clearly explain what is and isn’t true, along with some recommendations on how to get to the truth of your own spanking experience and make it a wonderful part of your relationship.
Sometimes the hardest part of fulfilling fantasies is just being able to express them to your partner. Julian Wolf provides some simple and useful techniques for getting past the shyness and embarrassment to the hot and sexy times. Using amusing stories and building on the previous videos in the Fantasy Fulfillment series Julian helps you get that much closer to your innermost desires.
Scotty begins a series of videos on the fantasy of male domination and female submission with an overview of just what it is that makes this kind of play attractive. Whether it’s the feeling of release or the fun scary tension of giving up control, he assures you that there are ways to keep it consensual, fun, and still hot.
Joan Price goes further into how to spice up your sex life in the later years of life using one of the most powerful erotic tools: communication. She talks frankly about how the embarrassment and awkwardness of talking about sex with your partner or anyone else can keep you from really reaching your happy potential. Then Joan goes over very practical techniques for bridging that gap and bringing your fantasies and concerns about sex to your partner in a constructive and non-threatening way. Finally she shares some things not to do when communicating and suggests you try her books for even more ideas.
Sinnamon Love brings her knowledge as a relationship columnist and sexpert to some advice directed specifically at the ladies. While she assures us that the advice she gave the guys is worth listening to as well, Sinnamon outlines some of the concerns that may come up for women when trying to find sexual fulfillment – issues like mutual respect, embarrassment, and more. Every person has a right to sexual fulfillment, she explains, but you have to communicate what you want before you can get it – and Sinnamon Love gives you the tools you need to do it.
Scotty teams up with Annie and Alex to talk about why they all enjoy spanking in the first video in a new series. Starting with the idea of the fantasy of power exchange, the three of them discuss the physical and psychological fun that can be had when one person is bent over another’s knee. Scotty draws on his knowledge of physiological processes to go deeper into the “why.” The smiles on everyone’s faces leave no doubt that this is a subject they are truly enthusiastic about.
In the second clip on monogamy Jacq Jones walks you through defining the terms of your monogamy. She identifies several areas that couples need to communicate and formulate acceptable compromises around, such as ex-lovers, porn, masturbation, alone time, and even when it’s ok to answer the phone! Jacq emphasizes that well-negotiated monogamy can be a celebration of who you are as a sexual and romantic being, reinforcing your hot and beautiful relationship.
Scotty teaches the safe, sane, consensual and hot way to enjoy physical dominance with your partner. In a world where Fifty Shades has captured the erotic imagination, these simple techniques can help you create your own “bodice-ripper” fantasy. Scotty not only covers the body mechanics involved but also covers some of the things that can go wrong and how to avoid them. Finally he incorporates other physical play techniques such as hair pulling into your sexy role-play of dominance and submission.
Abiola Abrams discusses how to create a boudoir shoot during this five-minute video. She explains what it is and recommends how to be comfortable in doing one for yourself – from clothing to location and more. Abiola also describes her own experience of a boudoir shoot.