Sep 072014
 
This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

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Once the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here – tell them what words turned you on, what ones didn’t, and listen to their own descriptions. Of course, this needs to be in a positive tone, and Ashley explains how to give and receive constructive and honest criticism. She also notes that it’s a skill that will serve you well in-person, too!

Mar 252014
 

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 Kitty Stryker covers aftercare during this four-minute video. She discusses various aspects of aftercare: the logistics, different desires, necessities, communication/negotiation, and more. Kitty offers many practical tips to help improve your post-sexual experiences with your partner(s).

Nov 242013
 

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In this clip Dr. Jenn explains how the mindfulness she’s outlined before can be directly applied to communicating with your partner. It helps you identify automatic patterns, both in yourself and them. It can also give you the tools of presence and attention that can change the way you interact for the better.

Oct 242013
 

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Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.

Sep 142013
 

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Having covered what not to do in a previous video, Kitty Stryker now suggests ways to talk with your partner about your kink during this nine-minute video. She covers approach, attitude, honesty, exploration, and compromise; as well as the many options available to experience your fantasies.

Apr 202013
 

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 Kelly Shibari goes deeper into the language and feelings of plus-size sexuality. She focuses on the ways that larger people can communicate their comfort levels and desires with their partners, and how to give constructive feedback when a correction might be needed. Her friendly and open style of teaching makes this touchy subject accessible for everyone.

Mar 212013
 

Kelly Shibari explains how the language you use in relationships with plus-size women (and, to some extent, men) can be triggering if done poorly. Some people are fine with words like “fat” and “chubby”, but not everyone. She recommends some alternatives (like the comedic “fluffy”) and also stresses that it’s important to interact with people based on who they are, not what they are.

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Mar 082013
 

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 Reid Mihalko discusses erotic integrity, emotional release, and the minimization of upset during this six-minute video. He acknowledges the natural and even necessary upset that results from playing with intense sexual energy and suggests various ways to process it.

Dec 132012
 

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Dr. Ruthie explains how it may not be enough just to make time to date your spouse: you need to come at the situation with a whole new attitude. She suggests several ways to help you see each other in entirely new ways to rekindle attraction and helps you use that as material to fuel the desire between you.

Aug 242012
 

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Dan and Dawn Williams continue their reflections on flirting during this six-minute, part-two video. They share more tips on how to flirt: questions to engage others, ways to listen well, nonverbal suggestions and much more. Stay tuned for Dan and Dawn’s additional recommendations in part three.

Jun 262012
 

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Pink and Dannika discuss pregnant and postpartum sex life during this four-minute video. They discuss the various physical, hormonal, and life changes as a result of child bearing and birth; and they share very practical tips to have a great sex life during pregnancy, postpartum, and beyond.

Jun 232012
 
This entry is part 1 of 8 in the series Receiving Blowjobs Gracefully

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GrayDancer begins his series on blowjobs during this six-minute video. He first introduces the various topics that he’ll discuss and demonstrate during this video series; he also talks about such things as hygiene, grooming, and more. Gray and Naiia then negotiate their oral sex scene. Stay tuned for much more on the art of receiving blowjobs gracefully.

Jun 172012
 
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Communicationg about sex & trauma

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Kitty Stryker discusses important considerations for the partner of a person with a sexual trauma history during this seven-minute video. Among other things, she covers consent, expectations, and communication (methods, locations, etc.) as well as nonverbal signs of problems and potential ways to engage your partner(s) safely and sensually.

Jun 152012
 

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Abiola Abrams discusses the basics of body language and flirting during this four-minute video. She highlights the most important factor in flirting and then offers many tips on authenticity, posture, success, failure, and more.

May 202012
 

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Shanna Katz continues her series on sex positions during this six-minute video. She focuses on a couple effective positions for paralysis and the numerous slight modifications for each. Shanna offers tips on sex toys and communication – with both your physician and your partner(s). Stay tuned for more sex positions in her upcoming clips.

May 012012
 

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Reid Mihalko discusses how to initiate difficult conversations during this four-minute video. He suggests using a script based on your answers to four specific questions (that he asks and explains). This tool not only helps ease the difficulty of certain conversations, but it also helps strengthen your relationship(s).

Apr 142012
 

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Marcia B. explains and then demonstrates one particular type of negotiation game during this four-minute video. She first outlines the essentials of the 100% game, and then she and her partner provide an example. Marcia offers some helpful tips as well – to help you get as much as you desire in your relationship(s). Stay tuned for additional games in her next clip.

Apr 122012
 

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Abiola Abrams recommends various ways to get over a break up during this four-minute video. She recognizes the horrible feelings that can result from the end of relationships and then offers suggestions for closure and learning so that you grow and improve for your own sake – and for any future relationship(s).

Mar 312012
 
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Reid Mihalko discusses New Relationship Energy (NRE) during this four-minute video. He reflects on NRE from the vantage points of those who are falling in love and also of those who are witnessing others fall in love. Reid covers brain chemistry, emotions, communication and more as he offers various tips for all persons touched by NRE.

Mar 092012
 
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Marcia B continues her discussion on asking for what you want during this five-minute, part-two video. Having explained her first two categories of things to ask for in part one (a new activity and a variation), she covers her next three types of things: a specific outcome, a particular feeling, and permission. Marcia gives numerous examples of and identifies many helpful approaches and tips for each one.

Mar 042012
 
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Dr. Patti Britton continues her reflections on intimacy and sexuality during this three-minute video. She starts with what intimacy is not; she then discusses the essentials of intimacy – and why intimacy is important in a sexual relationship.

Feb 142012
 
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Dr. Patti Britton begins her discussion on intimacy with this three-minute, part-one video. She opens with an insight on sex and intimacy and then both defines intimacy and shares ideas on how to foster intimacy in your relationships. Stay tuned for more on intimacy in part two.

Jan 282012
 
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Chloe Camilla and Juliette March continue their series on foot fetish with this six-minute video. Chloe demonstrates several ways both to tease another with your feet and also to have another worship your feet. In a future video, Chloe shows how to use your feet to pleasure your partner(s).