Andre Shakti finishes up her long series on erotic dance with a quick overview of the subject so far and then some ideas for continuing your exploration. Dance can be part of foreplay, it can be an intimate experience in and of itself – but most of all, it doesn’t have to be something that only happens once.
Do you like the word “moist”? How about your partner? Better figure it out before you have that hot phone sex session! Ashley talks in this clip about how important it can be to make sure you’re both aware of what kind of words, ideas, and fantasies turn you both on. She goes over several different areas, from the kinds of acts you want to talk about to the kind of grammar you’re going to be using, so that when you pick up the phone you are ready to keep things on the sexy side.
What happens when the outside partner’s arm is “trapped”? In this clip Gray demonstrates how some strategic pillowing can make for a more comfortable snuggle. He and Poetic also talk about how the finer details of the body position and hands can make all the difference.
Graydancer and Poetic Desires demonstrate some of the finer points of cuddling when it’s for intimacy, not sex. Sometimes the closeness of cuddling gets overshadowed by awkward body mechanics, tiny discomforts, and even the idea that you might be “doing it wrong.” This series helps dispel the mystery so that you can relax into each other and enjoy snuggling like a pro.
Once you know that you want to have some hot phone sex, it can still be embarrassing to tell your partner. Ashley talks about some of the preconceptions and shame that can come along with the idea of phone sex, but she also talks about how to overcome them. She gives you some concrete examples of how to ask for what you want in a way that will establish boundaries, consent, and sexiness with your partner.
Approaching your partner about the potential for an intimate sexy dance can be intimidating. In this clip Andre Shakti models some ways you can bring up the subject, including the famous “I saw it in a movie” technique. She also covers various topics to bring up such as clothing, music, and how to integrate your partner’s fantasy with your own.
In this long clip Andre talks more about how to set up your perfect dance environment by wearing clothing that is sexy and comfortable. She goes over many of the possible pitfalls so that you can avoid them, and also goes in-depth into what kinds of shoes are best for your erotic dance.
In the final segment, Kim Airs of Grand Opening talks about various strategies you can use when you want to take your sex from inside the car to the outdoors. Of course the environment is the most important thing to consider in terms of both legal and physical danger, but there are definite advantages to using both the inside and the outside of the car as your very own sex toy!
Kitty Stryker covers aftercare during this four-minute video. She discusses various aspects of aftercare: the logistics, different desires, necessities, communication/negotiation, and more. Kitty offers many practical tips to help improve your post-sexual experiences with your partner(s).
Ducky takes a moment in this clip to talk about the relatively uncommon experience of having someone pay a compliment to your pussy. She describes how various women in the workshops have reacted to this, and uses it as an example of the importance of loving communication between partners.
Andre Shakti shows you how to take a stand and show off your sexy side. She emphasizes the necessity to “do what feels natural” when working on poses for your shoot, because if you don’t feel sexy it will show. She also has practical advice for how to stand so as to accentuate your strong points and create the mood and image you want when standing for the camera.
In this clip Dr. Jenn explains how the mindfulness she’s outlined before can be directly applied to communicating with your partner. It helps you identify automatic patterns, both in yourself and them. It can also give you the tools of presence and attention that can change the way you interact for the better.
Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan address the issue of “Now what?” in this clip – that is, after you’ve had the conversation about porn with your partner, how do you go about finding the porn that best suits both your needs? They come up with several resources such as feminist sex stores around the U.S. They also caution you from “pushing” past the comfort zone of either partner, and counsel on ways to improve the experience of not only choosing but also enjoying porn together.
Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.
Scotty and Ammre go into the finer points of using the hair as a sensual part of your sexual life in this first of two clips. With her hair up in a bun, Ammre has provided a secure focus of control for Scotty’s grip, and the two of them talk about both the physical technique and the psychological effects of doing this kind of play.
Alice in Bondageland continues her series on anal play with this seven-minute video. She first discusses prostate play; Alice then explains how to remove a butt pug, introduces how to wear a strap-on harness, and demonstrates how to insert a strap-on dildo. She continues her series by showing additional anal play positions in her next video.
Andre Shakti explains how to pick out the right accessories for your personal sexy boudoir shoot. While that may include the “standard” items like stockings and corsets, it could be anything, as long as it makes you hot. This clip can help you figure out exactly what will bring out your inner pinup.
Lady Cheeky helps plus-sized women get better in touch with their “pleasure zones” in this video. She talks about how you can learn to feel more positively about your body, to the point of being able to walk around naked and have your lover enjoy all of you as a whole individual. Lady Cheeky explains how this kind of personal empowerment can make your sex life much more fulfilling.
Bettie Rage continues up the body and shows the best way to transition from massaging the shoulders to the neck, and what to avoid in that area. She then demonstrates the gentler strokes and many parts of the head that can become part of a sensual massage.
Julian Wolf completes her demonstration of quick restraint during this two-minute, part-two video. She shows her tying method again with a different scarf and then has her demo bottom give it a try. Julian also uses this quick restraint method to tie her bottom’s ankles.
Dr. Charlie Glickman has three magic words for you: Relaxation, Lubrication, and Communication. Watch this clip to learn how these three things can lead to fantastic anal sex for you and your partner. Charlie outlines techniques, makes recommendations of products, and explains why it’s worth it to explore this erotic activity.
Ned Mayhem continues his series on male masturbation during this nine-minute video. He introduces butt play by first addressing some misconceptions and commenting on the value and pleasure of body exploration. Ned then takes you through the process of anal penetration with your finger – and he discusses lubrication, duration, depth, cleanliness, prostate stimulation, orgasm, and much more. Stay tuned for Ned’s next clip on male masturbation.