Sep 272014
 
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual Trauma

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If your partner has had sexual trauma, what is the best way to support them? That’s what Ashley Manta tackles in this clip, starting with her own experience of not-so-supportive family members. She outlines more constructive strategies for giving partners what they need – no more and no less. Ashley also recommends resources such as “Allies in Healing”, a book written for the partners of trauma survivors.

May 302013
 

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 While it’s not unique to monogamy, cheating can be an incredibly destructive force that is all too common. Jacq Jones lays out some of the ways that the damage can be minimized. She talks about techniques of communication as well as the things to ask each other about the why and what of cheating, as well as some possible ways to successfully move beyond.

May 142013
 

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 Jacq addresses the one key ingredient that differentiates 50 Shades-type sex from abuse, and that is consent. She talks about how consent is created through negotiation and how it can change as people experience things together. She recommends working towards “radical consent”, that whole-hearted enthusiastic “yes!” to trying out this kind of play in the bedroom.

Apr 142013
 

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Alice in Bondageland instructs her submissive to ride her strap-on during this seven-minute video. She has him demonstrate two particular positions, and she discusses the value of the various angles of penetration too. Alice also adds vibration to increase the pleasure for both herself and her submissive. Stay tuned for more in her next video.

Dec 312012
 

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Julian Wolf continues her reflections on hedonism during this five-minute, part-two video. She begins by sharing definitions of hedonism, intention, and responsible hedonism. Julian then describes a few of the myriad opportunities to derive pleasure in the everyday – and open yourself up to experience even more pleasure in other ways. For more information on hedonism, visit her column on Fearless Press.

Sep 242012
 

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Jacq Jones from SugarTheShack.com introduces the finer points of monogamy in this clip. While it is often the default relationship style chosen by couples, she illustrates how making it an active choice can enrich your connection with your partner. She also goes over several different interpretations of what monogamy means, from talking to friends and ex’s to really examining your own motives for choosing this kind of one-on-one union.

Aug 042012
 

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Joan Price continues her reflections on senior sex during this six-minute video. She focuses on lubricants by differentiating between desire, arousal, and natural lubrication; and by encouraging you to include the application of a lubricant into your sexual play. Joan also discusses types of lube and suggests how to choose a lubricant. Stay tuned for much more on senior sex.

Jul 272012
 

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Julian Wolf begins her series on hedonism with this eight-minute, part-one video. She first defines hedonism and then explains how to apply it to everyday eating. In a variety of ways, Julian encourages the intentional focus of each of your five senses on the food at hand. Enjoy!

Jul 262012
 

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Kitty Stryker continues her reflections on verbal consent during this six-minute video. She suggests creative and supportive ways to have important conversations about such topics as safer sex and past sexual experience. Kitty also recommends fun ways to share desires and fantasies. More to come in her upcoming clips.

Mar 312012
 
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Reid Mihalko discusses New Relationship Energy (NRE) during this four-minute video. He reflects on NRE from the vantage points of those who are falling in love and also of those who are witnessing others fall in love. Reid covers brain chemistry, emotions, communication and more as he offers various tips for all persons touched by NRE.

Jan 072012
 
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Shanna Katz introduces the topic of sex and disability during this five-minute video. From the vantage point of different perspectives, she defines terms, cites numerous examples, and recommends helpful approaches to communicate about disability with your partner(s). Shanna also considers the coming out process for those with a disability. In a previous clip Shanna covered partnering with a person with a disability, and in her upcoming clip she reflects on kink and disability.