Do you like the word “moist”? How about your partner? Better figure it out before you have that hot phone sex session! Ashley talks in this clip about how important it can be to make sure you’re both aware of what kind of words, ideas, and fantasies turn you both on. She goes over several different areas, from the kinds of acts you want to talk about to the kind of grammar you’re going to be using, so that when you pick up the phone you are ready to keep things on the sexy side.
Once you know that you want to have some hot phone sex, it can still be embarrassing to tell your partner. Ashley talks about some of the preconceptions and shame that can come along with the idea of phone sex, but she also talks about how to overcome them. She gives you some concrete examples of how to ask for what you want in a way that will establish boundaries, consent, and sexiness with your partner.
After working as a phone sex operator, Ashley Manta is a big fan of the whole idea. Phone sex combines the hotness of intimacy with the wild abandon of imagination, all without ever having to get out of bed! She explains many of the advantages whether you’re living together or long-distance, and whets your appetite for upcoming clips!
Kelly Shibari talks about the more practical aspects of plus-size sex in this clip. She explains how once again communication is key, but this time it’s about how your body works and what it is that turns you on. Don’t like missionary position? Tell your partner! Then you can try things like doggy-style or sideways (“Great for morning sex!”) as you learn what’s right for your sex life with your partner.
Arden Leigh, the author of The New Rules of Attraction, talks in the universal language of the body in this clip. With a few simple changes in terms of colors, accessories, posture, and even how you enter a room, you can send the signals you want to potential suitors. Arden works from bottom to top and explains how your appearance talks to other people.