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Sensual Massage for Couples: the Arms and Hands

Gray Dancer — Sat, 25 May 2013 09:00:54 +0000

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Shoulders, biceps, forearms, palms and fingers are all targeted in this clip by the skilled hands of Bettie Rage. She engages in the various strokes that apply to each section of the arms and teaches some new techniques for the fingers and palm.

Techniques to Reduce Sexual Pain – Part 1

Gray Dancer — Fri, 24 May 2013 09:00:19 +0000

Dr. Heather Howard recommends ways to reduce sexual pain during this four-minute, part-one video. She outlines her series by stating the four Ps: prepare, protect, position, and pleasure. Dr. Howard focuses primarily on preparation – offering dozens of techniques – in this clip, and continues her suggestions in her upcoming clips.

The Caveman Cult: the Myth of Male Weakness

Gray Dancer — Thu, 23 May 2013 09:00:54 +0000

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Hugo Schwyzer explains in this clip that the idea that men are ruled by their sexual desire is no more true than the idea of female “hysteria” in Victorian times. He stresses how important it is to get to the truth behind arousal, lust, and the way they are viewed in culture in order to get beyond the most basic stereotypes and into reality.

Strap-On Harnesses: Leather vs. Cloth

Gray Dancer — Tue, 21 May 2013 09:00:59 +0000

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Rain DeGrey breaks down all the differences between these two materials when used for harnesses, and why she prefers one over the other. She also gives other tips for doing this kind of play which can make it more enjoyable for everyone.

Female Empowerment & Seduction

Gray Dancer — Sun, 19 May 2013 09:00:52 +0000

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Arden Leigh explains how the term “female empowerment” dovetails with her seduction method in this interview. She also gives several tips on how to use the “new rules of attraction” to empower yourself and enjoy your own seductive abilities.

Parents Having Sex: Explaining It to the Kids

Gray Dancer — Sat, 18 May 2013 09:00:24 +0000

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Just because you know it’s ok for your kids to know you have sex doesn’t make it very easy to actually communicate it. Dr. Ruthie helps you navigate the potentially awkward conversations as well as giving practical tips for maintaining boundaries and acknowledging that as parents you have multiple identities beyond simply being “mom” or “dad”.

Sensual Wax Play: Getting Started

Gray Dancer — Fri, 17 May 2013 09:00:43 +0000

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Lucky Albatross waxes-on in this clip from her sensual series. After applying a coat of oil and explaining why, she shows how a simple brush and the right kind of wax in the bath gets you started on a relaxing, intimate, and connected journey through wax play.

Foreplay & Moreplay for Rough Sex: Scratching & Spitting

Gray Dancer — Thu, 16 May 2013 09:00:45 +0000

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Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.

50 Shades of Hot Sex: Consent

Gray Dancer — Tue, 14 May 2013 09:00:17 +0000

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Jacq addresses the one key ingredient that differentiates 50 Shades-type sex from abuse, and that is consent. She talks about how consent is created through negotiation and how it can change as people experience things together. She recommends working towards “radical consent”, that whole-hearted enthusiastic “yes!” to trying out this kind of play in the bedroom.

Care and Handling of Dildos

Gray Dancer — Sun, 12 May 2013 10:00:26 +0000

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Rain DeGrey explains a great way to manage your multiple dildos (or other sex toys) after a fun and/or kinky date. She uses a food storage bag and paper-scrap system so that she always knows which of her toys are sterile and which ones need to be cleaned. This clip is full of practical advice for the bedroom and beyond.