Aug 232011
Swinging: Negotiating a Successful Playdate

M. Makael Newby discusses the importance of negotiation – and provides examples on how to negotiate (matter-of-factly and sexily) – during this four-minute video. She begins with health status and creatively covers a variety of essential negotiation points to help you have horny, healthy, and happy relationships! This clip is part of the SWINGING with […]

Jul 212011
Swinging: How to Not Be Creepy

Flirting: Natural. Groping without permission: creepy. Making eye contact: natural. Staring her down and stroking yourself: creepy. M Makael Newby dedicates this 5-minute installment of her swinging series to how not to be creepy. By respecting personal boundaries and being prepared to gracefully accept a “yes” or a “no” answer, you can enjoy all the […]

Jun 212011
Swinging: Club Etiquette

M. Makael Newby continues her Swinging series with a five minute video on first times, whether you’re meeting someone for the first time or it’s your first time going to a swingers club. When meeting someone for the first time, always in a public setting, you will find some safety protocols you can set up, […]

Apr 212011
Swinging: How to Meet People Online

Makael Newby continues her series on swinging in this 9-minute video on the ins and outs of hooking up online. Including recommendations of Makael’s favorite swinging websites, as well as tips on creating your profile, choosing a photo (to cock-bomb or not to cock-bomb,) joining forums, making contact and gracefully saying “no,” this video will help you […]

Mar 072011
Introduction to Swinging

There is no “I” in Orgy.  In this informative 6 ½-minute introduction, Mikael Newby talks about what makes swinging distinct in the poly spectrum, and goes through several reasons why people choose to swing. Stay tuned for terminology in Part 2. This clip is part of the SWINGING with M. MAKAEL NEWBY PassionPack available for standalone […]

Jun 122010
Non-Monogamy for the Novice

Makael Newby distinguishes between emotional and physical non-monogamy and applies the distinction to the lifestyles of swinging and polyamory during this 8-minute video. She defines a multitude of terms (swinging, swingles, unicorns; polyamory, triads, poly family, etc.) and gives plenty of examples. Makael suggests a variety of resources for further consideration as well.