Nov 192014
Slippery When Sexy: Using Lube

Slippery When Sexy Lube is like wine. There are many different varieties with various characteristics you might like or not, and different brands are appropriate depending on what they’re being used for. A couple might have one kind of lube for anal sex, a different one for vaginal intercourse, and still a different one for […]

Oct 072014
Amp It Up: Orgasm From Penetration Alone

Ducky starts this video by explaining that only about 20% of women can have an orgasm from penetration alone. At the same time it is one of the most common questions women ask her. She gives several suggestions about muscle control and exercises that can increase your pleasure and the chances of an orgasm. Ducky […]

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Oct 052014
Sexual Cuddling: Communicating Intent for Her, Part 1

The next part of this series focuses on the woman initiating sex from a snuggly feeling. Poetic demonstrates several erotic techniques for caressing, touching, whispering dirty talk. She is working her way towards the cock, but that is covered – and uncovered – in part 2.

Oct 032014
Amp It Up: Spontaneity & Anticipation

Anticipation and spontaneity can juice up your sex life in surprising ways. Looking forward to your lover’s touch, the sight of their body, the kinds of things you do together – that enriches what Ducky calls the “sexual imagination.” Spontaneity, on the other hand, is when you give in to your desire in unexpected ways […]

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Oct 022014
Sexual Cuddling, Part 1

Now that they’ve gone over the non-sexual version of cuddling, Gray and Poetic are going to show how to let cuddling be the start of a more sexual interaction. It’s based around communication, consent, and most importantly intent. This clip is about the female in the “little spoon” position.

Sep 282014
Sexy Hair Play, Part 2

In part 2 Graydancer and Poetic demonstrate how to play with hair when in a “blowjob position”. Aside from the enjoyable sensations of stroking, pulling the hair back can be both useful and enjoyable, whether it’s done lightly or forcefully. They go over several techniques on using hair to make sexy times even hotter.

Sep 212014
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Orgasm Every Time?

Are you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal is “to feel good” and “to be close with my partner” […]

Sep 022014
Birth Control Methods

Yonilcious introduces birth control methods from a health care perspective during this five-minute, part-one video. She covers the pros and cons of several common methods such as condoms, diaphragms, Depo-Provera, and more. She continues her discussion in part two.

Aug 292014
Double Blowjobs Part 2: Positions
This entry is part 2 of 4 in the series Double Blow Jobs

This entry is part 2 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsIn this clip Gray, Naiia, and Rita give a realistic perspective on how to try out various positions for a double blow jobs. No tricky porn-style editing – you get to see exactly how bodies move, and how communication happens. Gray also talks […]

Aug 172014
Amp It Up: Erogenous Zones

Most people focus on the genitals and secondary areas like the nipples, according to Ducky, when they’re talking about sex. However, there are many more places that can turn you on, and she tries to get to each and every one in this clip! Starting from the pc muscles essential to everyone’s orgasm and working […]

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Aug 162014
Double Blowjobs Part 1: Things to Consider
This entry is part 1 of 4 in the series Double Blow Jobs

This entry is part 1 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsGraydancer joins Naiia and Rita to explore a common fantasy: two women giving one man oral sex. Before they get into the act, though, they talk openly about some of their internal feelings about what they’re about to do. Not surprisingly communication helps […]

Aug 142014
Using the Tenga 3: Reading & Pleasuring Your Partner

In the final long and explicit clip in the series Miss Ali first talks about the various ways she “reads” her partner’s body so she can give him pleasure. This is a lot more than just watching his cock, and she also talks about the satisfaction that can be gotten from just giving. In the […]

Aug 082014
Amp It Up: Compliments

Ducky often asks her audiences if anyone has ever received a compliment on their cock, their pussy, some intimate part. The reactions are often shocked, but there are a few people…and they always say it made them feel great. Ducky suggests in this clip both the reasons and the ways to affirm for your partner […]

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Aug 072014
Vaginismus & Pelvic Pain During Intercourse

Worried about pain during intercourse? Dr. Heather Howard explains in this clip some of the possible reasons the vagina may seem too “tight” before and during intercourse. Beyond explaining the “why”, she offers several suggestions for dealing with it such as increasing arousal and using lubrication. Dr. Howard also explains that there are medical conditions […]

Aug 052014
Using the Tenga Egg, Part 2

In Part 2 Miss Ali demonstrates several techniques for warming up both the egg and her partner. Once it’s on, she uses various stroking techniques to give the special kind of handjob this sex toy can produce. Gray also talks about the sensation and the ways that different cocks might respond to this kind of […]

Jul 312014
Girlgasms Mythbusting: Simultaneous Orgasms

You know those beautiful love scenes in the movies where both partners cum at the same time and then bask in the afterglow? Ducky’s here to let you know that’s not the way it happens most of the time – and that’s ok. She also explains why you probably shouldn’t settle for “simultaneous orgasms” anyway!

Jul 292014
Amp It Up: Asking for What You Want

Communication is both one of the most essential and most difficult parts of a sexual relationship. Asking for what you want – or explaining to a partner how what you want may have changed – can be a tricky process. Ducky has some solid suggestions for how to make it easier and even fun, bringing […]

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Jul 252014
Using the Tenga Egg, Part 1: Opening & Lube

This series by Bay Area sex educator Miss Ali shows how to use the popular “Tenga Egg” sex toy. Designed for male masturbation, it can also be fun to share with your partner in a hand-job fashion. In this clip Ali talks about opening up the packaging and how to use what’s inside – as […]

Jul 202014
Slut Tips for Managing Emotional Imprinting, Part 3

In part 3 of his series on how to be an “responsible slut” (that is, someone who manages the emotional side of playing around with others sexually) Reid explains why unprotected sex is a bad idea for sluts. Outside of pregnancy and STI’s, leaving biological traces of yourself on others is a way to really […]

Jul 182014
Amp It Up: Penetration is NOT the Definition of Sex

Thinking of sex as simply penis inserted in vagina is very limiting, in Ducky’s opinion. She explains in this clip how sex is more a state of mind and an attitude. It’s all in the way you connect first with yourself and then with your partner, from the moment you wake up through all the […]

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Jul 152014
The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 4

Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.

Jul 082014
Frottage: Non-Penetrative Sex Part 2
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series FrottageGraydancer and Naiia flip things around in this video and show how frottage works with the man on top. Again you get to see both the practical side of how to do this kind of subtle lovemaking as well as the very real effects for […]

Jul 062014
Amp It Up: Oxytocin

Ducky explains about the “happy hormone”: oxytocin. She goes into how the body uses it for all sorts of things, from friendship to parenting but especially as part of sex. By understanding how oxytocin works Ducky thinks you can give yourself better orgasms and also understand the biomechanical and emotional reactions for both yourself and […]

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Jul 012014
Frottage, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series FrottageNaiia and Graydancer talk about the fine art of “frottage”-non-penetrative sex. They talk about why it can be necessary, but also why it’s just fun sometimes, and Naiia shows just how fun with an orgasmic demonstration!





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