Just because you know it’s ok for your kids to know you have sex doesn’t make it very easy to actually communicate it. Dr. Ruthie helps you navigate the potentially awkward conversations as well as giving practical tips for maintaining boundaries and acknowledging that as parents you have multiple identities beyond simply being “mom” or [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex during this four-minute video. He discusses creative and multi-purpose ways to incorporate fingernail scratching and spitting into your sexual play. Danarama also covers negotiation, marks, positions, techniques, and more. Stay tuned for additional rough sex clips as well.
Sadie Lune shows one of the most comfortable positions for sex throughout pregnancy. “Spooning” with your partner is especially helpful later in pregnancy. Sadie also covers a few tricks in terms of angle, sexy action, and pillows to make sure that you can have as much fun as you like during pregnant sex.
Sadie Lune shows more ways to use your pregnant body to add to your sexy fun. Using your belly to temporarily take your partner’s breath away or just playing with the heavier breasts can add a taste of dominance to your sensual lovemaking. You can see from the smiles that Sadie and Poetic both agree [...]
Building on the concepts of part 1, Jacq Jones illustrates how several different toys can be used specifically for male anatomy to spice up your sex. She also talks frankly about the need to share your fantasies and even the way you masturbate with each other, so that you can better understand the ways sexual [...]
Jacq Jones offers a plethora of ideas for keeping the sexy magic going strong in your long-term relationship in part one of this series. As usual, it all starts with communication, but the way you tell your lover what you want can drastically improve your chances of making it happen. With ideas like the “compliment [...]
Dr. Ruthie concludes her series on rediscovering that intimate connection with your spouse with this message: think of the children! That is, think about the example you set if you pretend that being a parent means that your sexuality is somehow shut off or absent. It’s a radical idea for today’s culture, but for most of [...]
Will Fredericks from Naming Desire works as a sacred intimate to help people achieve better sexual awareness and, through that, greater sexual pleasure both for themselves and their partners. In this series he begins to explain the concept of “Conscious Touch,” where you stay present in the moment rather than following some rote action. He [...]
Jacq Jones has some practical pleasure tips for women who like penis-in-vagina intercourse. She talks about the finer points of fucking such as the angle of penetration, using lube and other toys, and also explains how changing a position can help solve a lot of the common problems that keep intercourse from being as good [...]
Pamela Madsen explains the field of therapeutic sex work in this clip. She explains how there is a professional association of certified sexological bodyworkers who can help women achieve their personal sexual goals. Pamela not only gives several resources but also describes what happens in these safe, consensual healing spaces.
In part 2, Harold, Evoë, and Bliss continue to discuss the different ways that sounds can be inspired by sexual activity. They also come up with several ways that you can try and develop your own ability to make noise and express yourself during lovemaking. There is an exciting preview of the next clip, where [...]
Hugo Schwyzer addresses the way language designed to help some people feel more comfortable about their bodies can make others feel ashamed. Why is it, for example, that a woman with breast implants may be said to have “fake boobs” while someone with fillings isn’t said to have “fake teeth”? He questions other cultural stereotypes [...]
Danarama continues his demonstration of rough sex during this four-minute video. He shows how to use your fingers and hands during sex to heighten the experience of rough sex. Among other things, he suggests various ways to increase the woman’s experience of fullness during sex and also how to continue intercourse even after the man’s [...]
Pamela Madsen, author of Being Shameless, talks about the first of the three stages of arousal-ecstatic state-orgasm. She briefly discusses the physiology of arousal and talks about ways that women can stimulate that kind of arousal during everyday activity. She also demonstrates some actual exercises you can do right now to get your own arousal stoked [...]
Scotty concludes this three-part series on the sexy stimulation of the vulva with fingers by “going in” – actually penetrating Ammre’s vagina. He demonstrates several techniques for stimulating the g-spot and the vaginal opening while Ammre gives positive feedback. Scotty also talks about various aspects of ergonomics and body mechanics with examples.