Jul 312014
 
Girlgasms Mythbusting: Simultaneous Orgasms

You know those beautiful love scenes in the movies where both partners cum at the same time and then bask in the afterglow? Ducky’s here to let you know that’s not the way it happens most of the time – and that’s ok. She also explains why you probably shouldn’t settle for “simultaneous orgasms” anyway!

Jul 292014
 
Amp It Up: Asking for What You Want

Communication is both one of the most essential and most difficult parts of a sexual relationship. Asking for what you want – or explaining to a partner how what you want may have changed – can be a tricky process. Ducky has some solid suggestions for how to make it easier and even fun, bringing [...]

Jul 252014
 
Using the Tenga Egg, Part 1: Opening & Lube

This series by Bay Area sex educator Miss Ali shows how to use the popular “Tenga Egg” sex toy. Designed for male masturbation, it can also be fun to share with your partner in a hand-job fashion. In this clip Ali talks about opening up the packaging and how to use what’s inside – as [...]

Jul 202014
 
Slut Tips for Managing Emotional Imprinting, Part 3

In part 3 of his series on how to be an “responsible slut” (that is, someone who manages the emotional side of playing around with others sexually) Reid explains why unprotected sex is a bad idea for sluts. Outside of pregnancy and STI’s, leaving biological traces of yourself on others is a way to really [...]

Jul 182014
 
Amp It Up: Penetration is NOT the Definition of Sex

Thinking of sex as simply penis inserted in vagina is very limiting, in Ducky’s opinion. She explains in this clip how sex is more a state of mind and an attitude. It’s all in the way you connect first with yourself and then with your partner, from the moment you wake up through all the [...]

Jul 152014
 
The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 4

Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.

Jul 082014
 
Frottage: Non-Penetrative Sex Part 2
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series FrottageGraydancer and Naiia flip things around in this video and show how frottage works with the man on top. Again you get to see both the practical side of how to do this kind of subtle lovemaking as well as the very real effects for [...]

Jul 062014
 
Amp It Up: Oxytocin

Ducky explains about the “happy hormone”: oxytocin. She goes into how the body uses it for all sorts of things, from friendship to parenting but especially as part of sex. By understanding how oxytocin works Ducky thinks you can give yourself better orgasms and also understand the biomechanical and emotional reactions for both yourself and [...]

Jul 012014
 
Frottage, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series FrottageNaiia and Graydancer talk about the fine art of “frottage”-non-penetrative sex. They talk about why it can be necessary, but also why it’s just fun sometimes, and Naiia shows just how fun with an orgasmic demonstration!

Jun 262014
 
Amp It Up: Monthly Cycles

Menstruation is often considered a taboo subject. Ducky doesn’t think it should be – and she uses this clip to explain how a good understanding of a woman’s monthly cycle can augment your sex life and give both partners more pleasure.

Jun 242014
 
Living with an STI: Talking with a Prospective Partner

One of the hardest parts of dealing with sexually transmitted infections is telling your partner about it. Ashley Manta tells about the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of communicating this vital information with her partners. She also lays out a solid plan for a “script” that can help make it easier, along with [...]

Jun 222014
 
Slut Tips for Managing Emotional Imprinting, Part 2

Reid is back with more suggestions for how to manage the emotions that can come along with being a “slut” – that is, unashamedly enthusiastic about sex. Just because you’re a slut doesn’t mean that you are immune to the same kinds of brain chemistry that everyone else has. However, he gives some suggestions about [...]

Jun 202014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Female Sexual Dysfunction

Now that she’s covered so many useful terms, Ducky uses this clip to talk about one that’s just made up: Female Sexual Dysfunction. She explains how this phrase has been created by pharmaceutical companies as a way to market pills. Ducky, on the other hand, is with the rest of the experts here at PassionateU [...]

Jun 142014
 
Amp It Up: Sex Drive

In a hyper-connected and “quantified self” society it’s easy to try and judge our own sex drives by what we think other people are doing. Ducky’s here to say that’s not a good idea. Averages do not give a realistic picture of what is actually going on in everyday life, and every person’s libido goes [...]

Jun 022014
 
Sex in Cars, Part 5

In the final segment, Kim Airs of Grand Opening talks about various strategies you can use when you want to take your sex from inside the car to the outdoors. Of course the environment is the most important thing to consider in terms of both legal and physical danger, but there are definite advantages to [...]

May 292014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Multiple Orgasms

Ducky explains exactly what people mean when they talk about multiple orgasms in terms of physiology. The muscular contractions are basically only different in terms of rate, she says, and shares with you the results of her years of research into the subject.

May 242014
 
Sex in Cars, Part 4

“Busted!” is how Kim Airs begins this clip. What happens if you’re discovered while you’re having sex in your car? While she’s no legal expert, Kim has had the experience of being discovered by security and she tells what you should say, how you should say it, and what you shouldn’t do. She even explains [...]

May 142014
 
Amp It Up: Anatomical Differences

Ducky reminds you in this clip that men aren’t from Mars, women aren’t from Venus – we’re all right here on Earth, and there are fewer differences between us than you’d think. In fact, one out of every two thousand babies is born “intersex” – with both sexual characteristics. She outlines just how similar men [...]

May 132014
 
Giving Your Partner a Handjob

Rain DeGrey uses Mickey Mod’s cock as a demonstration piece to show how to bring your partner pleasure by stroking with hand and lube. She not only talks about why she likes it but also shares some of her favorite tips and tricks. Mickey chimes in with suggestions and comments about pacing, technique, and communicating [...]

May 112014
 
Building a Sexy Mindset While Pregnant: Part 2

 In this clip Sadie expands on the  idea of “self-care” in terms of sexuality while pregnant. She recommends combining the imperative of comfort with the fun of sexy in terms of lingerie, underwear, and clothing, as well as enjoying other forms of “luxury” like prenatal massage, manicures, and the like. She emphasizes that you shouldn’t [...]

May 102014
 
Sex in Cars, Part 3

In this segment Kim Airs of GrandOpening.com talks about parking structures. She covers everything from best parking practices to dealing with cameras. She also shares some more stories of her own “sex in a car” experiences.

May 042014
 
Amp It Up: The Rut

Next in her series Ducky tackles a common problem with long-term relationships: falling into the same old habits sexually. She explains the basic human psychology behind why we slip into a routine with our sexuality, even if that’s “tonight we’re going to do it on the chandelier again“. A rut is a rut, and if [...]

May 012014
 
Changing Position Gracefully

Sex is all fun and games until, as Rain DeGrey puts it, “someone loses an eye from a stray elbow.” In this clip she and Mickey Mod show how to mix up the ways you have sex in a way that keeps things hot and sexy. The key is communication and a few applied principles [...]

Apr 292014
 
Sex in Cars, Part 2

In part two of her series of how to fulfill your fantasy of sex in public, Kim Airs discusses how to find an appropriate place to park your car before you do the deed. She covers a lot of practical aspects of choosing your spot, but remember that in most areas sex in public even [...]

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