What happens when the outside partner’s arm is “trapped”? In this clip Gray demonstrates how some strategic pillowing can make for a more comfortable snuggle. He and Poetic also talk about how the finer details of the body position and hands can make all the difference.
This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series FrottageIn Part 3 it’s Graydancer’s turn to focus on his pleasure. He shows how a little lube and Naiia laying face-down can lead to some really enjoyable sliding of his cock between her ass cheeks. Naiia talks about the pleasure she gets out of it [...]
This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingGraydancer and Poetic Desires demonstrate some of the finer points of cuddling when it’s for intimacy, not sex. Sometimes the closeness of cuddling gets overshadowed by awkward body mechanics, tiny discomforts, and even the idea that you might be “doing it wrong.” This series [...]
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series FrottageGraydancer and Naiia flip things around in this video and show how frottage works with the man on top. Again you get to see both the practical side of how to do this kind of subtle lovemaking as well as the very real effects for [...]
Scotty and Annie share the wilder side of sexy sensation in this clip with a beautiful leather flogger. They show how it doesn’t have to be used to hit at all, but can be stroked and “dropped” against the skin for a variety of enjoyable effects. Scotty draws it up and down her body, reveling [...]
In this clip Rain and Mickey continue to show various techniques for creating and sustaining a sexual mood even when you’re fully clothed. Rain pays special attention to the fact that intent is the prime focus – it’s not just about the actions, it’s about the authentic desire you and your partner feel.
Scotty and Annie demonstrate the sensual potential of adding a simple length of chain to your toy collection. Scotty explains how to use both the texture and the sounds of the chain to maximum effect, gracefully combining both safety and sexuality as he uses the chain to stimulate Annie in a variety of ways.
Rain Degrey brings out her breasts in this clip to show, with Mickey Mod, some techniques for arousal and foreplay. After a thorough demonstration by Mickey she explains how different areas of the breast and nipple respond to his various techniques, and also describes how different people can respond. Every woman is different, and there [...]
Stefanos and Shay demonstrate in this clip how you can find the hidden erogenous zones of your partner. They explain how it’s easy to get stuck in a rut with an old partner, or simply be unsure with a new one, of where their hot spots are. With sensual exploration you can discover new paths [...]
Jaiya, author of “Red Hot Touch”, uses this clip to give a thorough introduction to the idea of touch for sensuality. She uses the massage concept of “layers of palpation” and demonstrates how each can change the mood of the touch. She gives recommendations for figuring out what your partner likes, and gets you set [...]
Want an instant way to increase your lover’s sensitivity and awareness? Scotty has the answer in this clip. He and Annie explain just what a simple blindfold can add to your sexy sensations. Annie gives a firsthand and frank account of what it feels like, and Scotty offers several suggestions for various kinds of blindfolds [...]
Scotty and Annie show how safer sex can also be hot sensations when it comes to latex and nitrile gloves. He shows how the soft, strange texture can heighten the pleasure she takes from his touch. They also show how other, less clinical materials (like leather or velvet) can make gloves a fun toy to [...]
Find yourself a comfortable spot, shut off your beeping things, and take a few minutes to join Dr. Jenn in a guided meditation. It’s designed to help you become more aware of your five senses and of your environment. Practices like this translate into more enjoyment of sex as well, but you have to start [...]
Lady Cheeky & Kelly Shibari are happy to continue their exploration of the sensual body by discussing nipple stimulation. The arousal factor of the nipple can change a lot as a body changes due to age, and you can go from orgasming from breast stimulation alone to not wanting any touch there at all, or [...]
Lady Cheeky describes how your awareness of your body and its inherent sensuality can change when you reach your forties. She explains a method that worked for her to rediscover her changing body and lead to pleasures she’d never imagined possible. This is an introduction to follow-up clips that will show the methods Lady Cheeky [...]
Evoë Thorne and Harold Henry begin a series of clips on tying up the male genitals. Evoë shows a very elegant and simple way to get the cock up and out of the way (which Harold appreciates on many levels). They both talk about the sensations and safety concerns as they prepare for the next [...]
Lady Cheeky and Kelly Shibari continue their demonstration of sensual self-touch by moving to the genitals. Kelly applies lotion generously to her legs, moving up to the vulva where she explores the pleasures she gets from touching herself there. They talk about how age, weight, and just plain differences in clitorises, labia, and other parts [...]
Scotty and Ammre go over some of the nicer ways to arouse and stimulate your partner’s nipples. He brings up some of the mistakes eager lovers sometimes make in their enthusiasm for nipples and suggests ways to use other parts of the hand and arm to make the sensation simultaneously pleasant and hot. More than [...]
Scotty and Ammre go into the finer points of using the hair as a sensual part of your sexual life in this first of two clips. With her hair up in a bun, Ammre has provided a secure focus of control for Scotty’s grip, and the two of them talk about both the physical technique [...]
Now that he’s explained the various principles and practices behind conscious touch, Will uses this clip to give a clear example of how to take it into your own bedroom through Betty Martin’s “Three-Minute Game.” Each partner gets three minutes of the kind of touch and attention they want, and also gets practice communicating that [...]
Having a busy day? That’s ok, this won’t take long. It’s just a quick sexy blog entry about one of the best ways to improve orgasms, increase intimacy, have hotter and longer sex with your partner and also help you live longer, happier, and more productive lives. Oh, so now you suddenly have time? Well, [...]
Evöe and Harold continue to show off their fun selection of toys for CBT. As they show a wide range, from simple pipe insulation and a homemade “CBT Mallet” to a barely-bearable electrical “little devil”, they talk about the sensations and safety considerations when using these kinds of sexy devices.