After working as a phone sex operator, Ashley Manta is a big fan of the whole idea. Phone sex combines the hotness of intimacy with the wild abandon of imagination, all without ever having to get out of bed! She explains many of the advantages whether you’re living together or long-distance, and whets your appetite [...]
There are a lot of stereotypes and expectations about what an erotic lapdance looks like. Andre Shakti wants you to be sure that you do the dance you want to do, in the way you want to do it for your lover (even if it’s an imaginary one!). She leads you through a visualization exercise [...]
In the final segment of her boudoir shoot series, Andre Shakti shows how to create one final iconic pinup pose while laying down. She then goes over a quick review of all of the elements covered in the series, reminding you finally that it’s all about having fun. Take the pressure off, grab a camera, [...]
Jacq Jones from “Sugar the Shop” in Baltimore talks about the nuts and bolts of making a kinky “scene” work. Not surprisingly, honest communication is key, but the way you express yourself can be important as well. Whether it’s using colors like “red” and “green” or simply adjusting the way you’re doing a role play [...]
Andre Shakti begins her series on getting your hot groove on with a simple message: you can do this! Erotic dancing can be a lot of things, but above all it is personal and fun, so Andre gives you some ways to consider what your own moves would be like? How can you incorporate this [...]
Jacq Jones from Sugar the Shop talks about how communications tech like cell phones and email can be used to heat up your sexy scenes long before you come into contact with each other. She explains some of the important factors to be aware of, though – especially that once a picture or message is [...]
Andre Shakti explains how to pick out the right accessories for your personal sexy boudoir shoot. While that may include the “standard” items like stockings and corsets, it could be anything, as long as it makes you hot. This clip can help you figure out exactly what will bring out your inner pinup.
Julian Wolf continues her series on fantasy fulfillment during this six-minute video. Recognizing that role plays are not always easy, she suggests various tips to help you have fun and be believable in your play. Julian discusses attitude, research, posture, details, and much more. She shares additional reflections in her upcoming clips as well.
Julian Wolf ties together all the previous videos in the Fantasy Fulfillment series with this clip, delivering the final tool you need: a childlike, playful attitude of “pretend.” Julian talks about how a little effort and a few props can go a long way as long as you give yourself the permission and freedom to [...]
Dr. Ruthie talks about another aspect of rekindling the romance in your lovemaking with this clip: taking a teenage attitude towards sex. She explains why the stereotypical teen seems to have an inexhaustible supply of sexual energy and why that changes when we mature in relationships. She then gives step-by-step physical and emotional steps to [...]
Julian Wolf continues her series on fantasy fulfillment during this six-minute video. She covers the many different – and cost-effective – options for costuming. Julian discusses clothes, ways to wear them; props, spots to place them; as well as lighting and particular types of play, especially gender play. Julian adds imagination and attitude to the [...]
Julian Wolf introduces her series on fantasy fulfillment during this four-minute video. She defines key terms such as fantasy and role-play and gives a litany of examples of role-play from common childhood play to the current media. In her upcoming clips Julian covers how to ask your partner to role-play and also how to enact [...]
Sabrina Morgan takes dirty talk to the next level with this four-minute video. She acknowledges the foundation necessary for more advanced dirty talk and then highlights descriptive and explicit talk throughout the clip. She offers many examples of each and suggests ways to increase the ease of using descriptions and explicitness in your play.
Danarama continues his rough sex series by emphasizing fingerbanging during this seven-minute video. He covers many important topics such as safety, cleanliness, lube, leverage, anatomy, and much more as he demonstrates various techniques for exciting finger fucking. Stay tuned for more rough sex techniques in Danarama’s upcoming clips. This text is available for purchase but [...]
Danarama continues his series on rough sex with this eight-minute video on holds and grabs. He demonstrates several ways to use a person’s clothes for restraint, and he also shows various methods to take a person down to the bed in a forceful yet safe manner. Danarama offers many tips both to increase the intensity [...]
Danarama continues his rough sex series with a focus on physical and bodily safety during this seven-minute video. He emphasizes two essentials for safe rough sex: communication and lubrication. He also discusses a multitude of medical concerns (e.g., urinary tract infections) before highlighting essential safety considerations for any breath play. Danarama’s upcoming clips begin the [...]
Danarama begins his series on rough sex with this seven-minute overview. He starts with a scientific study and then describes what rough sex is – consensual sex with abandon – and what it is not. He reviews key negotiation points – physical and mental limitations, for instance – and highlights a variety of other safety [...]