Feb 112014
Boudoir Shoot: Laying Down Poses, Part 2

In the final segment of her boudoir shoot series, Andre Shakti shows how to create one final iconic pinup pose while laying down. She then goes over a quick review of all of the elements covered in the series, reminding you finally that it’s all about having fun. Take the pressure off, grab a camera, [...]

Jan 262014
Erotic Dancing: Suggestions for the Guys

If you’re lucky enough to have a woman dancing for you, there are some positive ways to show your appreciation. You can also help reinforce her confidence through the simple acts of respect and communication. Andre lays it out for you with several specific examples to help that private dancer in your life know how [...]

Jan 242014
50 Shades of Hot Sex: Communicating During a Scene

 Jacq Jones from “Sugar the Shop” in Baltimore talks about the nuts and bolts of making a kinky “scene” work. Not surprisingly, honest communication is key, but the way you express yourself can be important as well. Whether it’s using colors like “red” and “green” or simply adjusting the way you’re doing a role play [...]

Jan 152014
Erotic Dancing is for Everyone

Andre Shakti begins her series on getting your hot groove on with a simple message: you can do this! Erotic dancing can be a lot of things, but above all it is personal and fun, so Andre gives you some ways to consider what your own moves would be like? How can you incorporate this [...]

Dec 292013
Sex in Cars, Part 1

Do you have a fetish for sex in public places? You’re not alone, and Kim Airs from GrandOpening.com has a lot of suggestions that can make it better. In this clip she talks about making sure it’s really what you want, and also about picking out the right location. Keep in mind that sex in [...]

Dec 242013
Boudoir Shoot: Standing Poses

Andre Shakti shows you how to take a stand and show off your sexy side. She emphasizes the necessity to “do what feels natural” when working on poses for your shoot, because if you don’t feel sexy it will show. She also has practical advice for how to stand so as to accentuate your strong [...]

Dec 072013
50 Shades of Hot Sex: Negotiation

 Jacq Jones helps you fulfill your 50 Shades fantasies in this clip with the help of one of the key ingredients to kinky sex: negotiation. Consent and communication are essential to any kind of power exchange or role play, and with the help of some good conversations – or this form – you can start [...]

Nov 072013
Choosing Porn Together

Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan address the issue of “Now what?” in this clip – that is, after you’ve had the conversation about porn with your partner, how do you go about finding the porn that best suits both your needs? They come up with several resources such as feminist sex stores around the U.S. [...]

Aug 132013
Boudoir Shoot: Makeup & Hair

Andre Shakti talks about the finer details of your boudoir shoot. She explains that while there are “typical” looks like “Bettie Page” pinup styles, it’s your shoot, so you get to choose the hairstyle and makeup that makes you feel sexy. Andre also gives quite a few tips on the pragmatic aspect of it – kinds of [...]

Jul 162013
Bondage Fantasy Play: Why Try It?

Scotty and Ammre open up their series on bondage fantasy with some frank discussion of exactly why this kind of play appeals to them. They bring up things like trust, intimacy, emotional headspace, as well as the good old fashioned fun of playing roles with your lover. They both emphasize that safety is as important [...]

Mar 122013
Fantasy Fulfillment: Don't Dream It, Be It

 Julian Wolf continues her series on fantasy fulfillment during this six-minute video. Recognizing that role plays are not always easy, she suggests various tips to help you have fun and be believable in your play. Julian discusses attitude, research, posture, details, and much more. She shares additional reflections in her upcoming clips as well.

Feb 232013
Fantasy Fulfillment: Imagination & Inventiveness

 Julian Wolf ties together all the previous videos in the Fantasy Fulfillment series with this clip, delivering the final tool you need: a childlike, playful attitude of “pretend.” Julian talks about how a little effort and a few props can go a long way as long as you give yourself the permission and freedom to [...]

Feb 142013
How to Discover What Your Sexual Interests Are

 Dr. Patti Britton explains in this clip how our erotic triggers for arousal are rooted in the five senses. Male or female, you can learn more about what turns you on by exploring the wealth of stimuli available, from lotions to dirty talk to erotica.

Jan 012013
50 Shades of Hot Sex: Fantasy vs. Reality

Jacq Jones begins a series that explores the various sexual techniques used in the wildly popular “50 Shades” series with the most important question: What parts of the book should stay fantasy, and what can become a real part of your sex life? Jacq describes how to evaluate your own desires and also the best [...]

Nov 132012
Fantasy Fulfillment: Communicating With Your Partner

Sometimes the hardest part of fulfilling fantasies is just being able to express them to your partner. Julian Wolf provides some simple and useful techniques for getting past the shyness and embarrassment to the hot and sexy times. Using amusing stories and building on the previous videos in the Fantasy Fulfillment series Julian helps you [...]

Nov 112012
Dominant & Submissive Fantasies

Scotty begins a series of videos on the fantasy of male domination and female submission with an overview of just what it is that makes this kind of play attractive. Whether it’s the feeling of release or the fun scary tension of giving up control, he assures you that there are ways to keep it [...]

Sep 282012
Rediscovering Lovemaking: Finding the Mood Again

In the first clip of a new series, Dr. Ruthie identifies one of the key difficulties facing couples: getting back “in the mood” after a relationship has cooled off from the romantic excitement for whatever reason. Starting with You are not alone! she goes through several of the causes for this, including medical ones. In future [...]

May 222012
Fantasy Fulfillment: Costuming

Julian Wolf continues her series on fantasy fulfillment during this six-minute video. She covers the many different – and cost-effective – options for costuming. Julian discusses clothes, ways to wear them; props, spots to place them; as well as lighting and particular types of play, especially gender play. Julian adds imagination and attitude to the [...]

Mar 032012
Fantasy Fulfillment: Setting the Scene

Julian Wolf continues her series on fantasy fulfillment during this four-minute video. She discusses the sights, sounds, and sensations of some creative – and cost effective (or free!) – scene sets and costumes. In her next fantasy fulfillment clip Julian discusses attitude, imagination, and inventiveness.

Feb 282012
Is Pornography Healthy or Bad for Me?

Dr. Heather Howard discusses explicit media during this five-minute video. She answers the oft-put question to her: Is porn bad for me? Dr. Howard defines pornography and notes both its value and limitations. Throughout the clip she comments on sexual fantasy and sexual education – underscoring the reality of a very broad spectrum of healthy [...]

Jan 132012
Introduction to Fantasy Fulfillment

Julian Wolf introduces her series on fantasy fulfillment during this four-minute video. She defines key terms such as fantasy and role-play and gives a litany of examples of role-play from common childhood play to the current media. In her upcoming clips Julian covers how to ask your partner to role-play and also how to enact [...]

Jul 232010
Fantasy Worksheet

In under 10 minutes, Dr Ruthie describes a home-made ‘fantasy worksheet’ to help you “plot out your fantasies”.  Thinking about what you want and what works for you is the focus of this worksheet, though she also suggestions having each partner do one individually and then bring them together to learn about each other. The [...]

May 242010
Developing Your Fantasies

Dr. Ruthie builds on her previous three clips during this 10-minute video. She encourages you to develop your fantasies by starting with what is great about you and your partner. Enhance the positive! Utilize your real-life experiences, catch your brief moments of arousal, consider your taboos, and give yourself time to fantasize. A great video for fantasy development and relationship building!





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