Sep 072014
Phone Sex: After the Call

Once the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here – tell them what words turned you on, what ones didn’t, and listen to [...]

Aug 302014
Phone Sex: What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say

Ashley says it’s the most common thing she hears from people: “What if I don’t know what to say?” Luckily, she’s got a few different tactics for overcoming that kind of shyness. The first one involves masturbating, in fact! By the end of the video you’ll have no more fear of running out of things [...]

Aug 192014
Phone Sex: Tone of Voice

In this clip Ashley coaches you through one of the most important parts of phone sex: how you sound. She demonstrates how what you look like can affect how you sound (so you should smile!). Ashley also gives a few other tricks to use when you’re having your hot phone call.

Aug 102014
Phone Sex: Setting the Scene

Part of preparing for that hot phone sex session is making sure you’re in the right environment. Ashley Manta talks about how to set the scene not only in terms of distractions and privacy but also internally. She explains how to put yourself into the right mindset for phone sex, heightening your awareness of your [...]

Aug 012014
Erotic Dancing: Some Simple Moves, Part 2

In these two videos Andre shows you actual physical moves to twist and grind when performing for your partner. She covers a lot of useful “hidden” tricks, like weight balancing and how to use your partner’s body for stability. Andre also shows how to modify the moves based on your own body’s abilities.

Jul 272014
Phone Sex: Establishing Boundaries

Do you like the word “moist”? How about your partner? Better figure it out before you have that hot phone sex session! Ashley talks in this clip about how important it can be to make sure you’re both aware of what kind of words, ideas, and fantasies turn you both on. She goes over several [...]

Jul 222014
Erotic Dancing: Some Simple Moves, Part 1

In these two videos Andre shows you actual physical moves to twist and grind when performing for your partner. She covers a lot of useful “hidden” tricks, like weight balancing and how to use your partner’s body for stability. Andre also shows how to modify the moves based on your own body’s abilities.

Jul 102014
Phone Sex: Telling Your Partner You Want It

Once you know that you want to have some hot phone sex, it can still be embarrassing to tell your partner. Ashley talks about some of the preconceptions and shame that can come along with the idea of phone sex, but she also talks about how to overcome them. She gives you some concrete examples [...]

Jun 292014
Phone Sex: Don't Be Afraid to Try It!

After working as a phone sex operator, Ashley Manta is a big fan of the whole idea. Phone sex combines the hotness of intimacy with the wild abandon of imagination, all without ever having to get out of bed! She explains many of the advantages whether you’re living together or long-distance, and whets your appetite [...]

May 082014
Building Sexy Energy: With Clothes On, Part 1

In this clip Rain and Mickey talk about everyday arousal: how can you keep things hot during the times that your clothes need to stay on? Rain talks about various kinds of flirtations, “making out” with the erogenous zones not covered by clothes, and even some tricks to use when you’re out shopping. This is [...]

Feb 252014
Talking Dirty: Getting Started

Kim Airs (of and is very enthusiastic about dirty talk – but she understands that different people have different definitions of what “dirty” means. In this clip she talks about how to find out where that fun place is for you and your lover, using practice and reading erotica and other techniques. She [...]

Jan 112014
50 Shades of Hot Sex: Technology as Foreplay

 Jacq Jones from Sugar the Shop talks about how communications tech like cell phones and email can be used to heat up your sexy scenes long before you come into contact with each other. She explains some of the important factors to be aware of, though – especially that once a picture or message is [...]

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Dec 222013
Dirty Talk Demonstration

Want to heat up your sex with some sweet and sexy talk? Shay & Stefanos model some truly hot combinations of sex and words, both from the person receiving and the person giving sexual attention. They also talk about how to not worry about sounding silly or repetitive, as well as how to be considerate [...]

Nov 292013
Talking Dirty: Phone Sex

Kim Airs of shares her passion for good old-fashioned phone sex in this clip. She extols the virtues of getting comfortable with just a handset and the other hand free to…do other things while exploring your fantasies with your lover. She also has a rather unusual technique for adding sound effects to your conversation [...]

Dec 222012
Making Noises in Bed: Examples, pt. 2

In part 2, Bliss starts out by discussing ways in which the noises you and your lover make can change their meaning over time. The trio also talk about how you may want to take your environment (such as neighbors) into consideration, and the ways that sounds can be integrated into the afterglow of a [...]

Apr 292012
Dirty Talk 101

Abiola Abrams introduces dirty talk during this four-minute video. She suggests a positive five-step plan to initiate dirty talk with your partner(s). Abiola shares specific examples with each step and also recommends a few very helpful resources. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Login & Purchase

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Dec 262011
Rough Sex: Dirty Talk

Danarama continues his series on rough sex by talking dirty during this six-minute video. He first dispels myths and accentuates the value of communication and negotiation. He then suggests and demonstrates some of the myriad ways you can talk dirty during sex: using commands, observations, vulgarity, and much more. Stay tuned for more rough sex [...]

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Oct 252011
Dirty Talk: Techniques

Sabrina Morgan discusses a wide range of techniques for dirty talk during this ten-minute video. She first acknowledges the power of dirty talk, and then she suggests various ways to get started. Sabrina offers tips on timing, feedback, and negotiation, as well as increasing comfort levels and integrating sexy communication in your relationships. Enjoy vocalizing [...]

Oct 062011
Dirty Talk: Exploration

Tina Horn explores dirty talk during this six-minute video. She acknowledges the fears and hesitations that many have about talking dirty, so she suggests many ways to practice dirty talk – by yourself and with your partner(s). Lots of sexy homework awaits you!

Sep 062011
Dirty Talk: Past, Present, & Future

Tina Horn begins her series on dirty talk with this six-minute video. In this clip she offers one very flexible technique that capitalizes on three natural time periods: future (anticipation), present (narration), and past (remembrance). Tina peppers the video with tips as she helps you heighten your sexual experiences. Stay tuned for her upcoming clips [...]

Jun 262011
Dirty Talk for the Shy

It’s easy to feel put on the spot when you’re in the moment and your partner says “I want you to talk dirty to me,” especially if you’re a little bit shy. Sabrina Morgan is here to share a little secret with you…shyness combined with dirty talk can be powerfully erotic. This 5-minute video will [...]

Feb 242011
The Art of Dirty Talk

Amy Jo Goddard discusses the art of dirty talk during this 6-minute clip. Dirty talk can greatly enhance your sex life, especially when you identify where you are on the dirty talk continuum (romantic, naughty, dirty, kinky) and you develop the skill of dirty talk through practice (e.g., deepen the register and play with the [...]

Jan 052011
Sexy Language

Shanna Katz gives a quick, fun talk on what to call “it,” whichever “it” it might be. Rattling off from her extensive store of dirty monikers, Shanna emphasizes the importance of being on the same page with your partner about your erotic vocabulary, and gives some tips for opening communication.

Jan 052010
Reading Erotica – Part 1

In the first of this 2 part video series, Tess Danesi invites you into the erotic for a very sexy story-telling time . She reads an example of erotica and then underscores certain aspects of the story so as to prepare you and your partner for dirty talk. Enjoy the story, the analysis, and then your own reading and dirty talk!





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