Apr 132015
 
Both Sides of the Blowjob Equation

Oral sex is a strange part of the sexual landscape; it’s both the punchline for jokes and the holy grail of intimacy. It can be a great way to have a quickie, a part of foreplay before other sex, or a long and sensual end unto itself. If there’s one thing you can get from […]

Dec 312014
 
Sex & Disability: Accommodations & Substitutions
This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Sex & Disability

This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Sex & DisabilityIn this clip Wintersong discusses various ways to get the same feeling of an activity with a partner without adverse effects by carefully selecting the right equipment. They give several examples of ways that creative exploration can work around the limitations of a […]

Dec 312014
 
Sex & Disability: Explaining Your Circumstances
This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series Sex & Disability

This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series Sex & DisabilityIn a previous clip Wintersong talked about various questions for a partner to ask a potential playmate with a disability. But what should the person with the disability be prepared to discuss? This clip covers how to address some of the specifics as […]

Oct 142014
 
Sexual Cuddling: Slow Oral

Gray and Poetic talk more in this clip about how cuddling can lead directly into sexual contact such as fellatio. They emphasize that communication and consent are essential, and also that there is no rush when you’re cudding. Whether it’s just an afternoon of stroking your partner or the beginning of some wild 69, cuddling […]

Oct 112014
 
Phone Sex: Your Survival Kit
This entry is part 4 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 4 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaPhone sex can be hard work! Ashley goes over some of the items you might want to have on hand when you’re getting it on with someone from a distance. She starts with practical things – a hands-free headset, a charged […]

Oct 102014
 
Sexual Cuddling: Communicating Intent for Her, Part 2

Now that she’s maneuvered her hand into a handjob-type situation, Poetic shows some of the techniques for dealing with clothing and increasing both intimacy and sensation. Again, the enjoyment for both Gray and Poetic is in the touching for it’s own sake, and the feeling of connection.

Oct 052014
 
Sexual Cuddling: Communicating Intent for Her, Part 1

The next part of this series focuses on the woman initiating sex from a snuggly feeling. Poetic demonstrates several erotic techniques for caressing, touching, whispering dirty talk. She is working her way towards the cock, but that is covered – and uncovered – in part 2.

Oct 032014
 
Amp It Up: Spontaneity & Anticipation
This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it UpAnticipation and spontaneity can juice up your sex life in surprising ways. Looking forward to your lover’s touch, the sight of their body, the kinds of things you do together – that enriches what Ducky calls the “sexual imagination.” Spontaneity, on the other […]

Oct 022014
 
Sexual Cuddling, Part 1

Now that they’ve gone over the non-sexual version of cuddling, Gray and Poetic are going to show how to let cuddling be the start of a more sexual interaction. It’s based around communication, consent, and most importantly intent. This clip is about the female in the “little spoon” position.

Sep 282014
 
Sexy Hair Play, Part 2

In part 2 Graydancer and Poetic demonstrate how to play with hair when in a “blowjob position”. Aside from the enjoyable sensations of stroking, pulling the hair back can be both useful and enjoyable, whether it’s done lightly or forcefully. They go over several techniques on using hair to make sexy times even hotter.

Sep 262014
 
Non-Sexual Cuddling, Part 4: On Top
This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual Cuddling

This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingIn the final clip about non-sexual cuddling Gray and Poetic talk about how to enjoy one of the most intimate positions, with one partner or the other on top. They show how you can adjust your body weight and also some of the advantages […]

Sep 192014
 
Body Image Part 3: What We Like About Each Other

This clip takes the body image topic in a more positive direction, as Graydancer and Poetic tell each other what parts of each other’s bodies they find sexy and beautiful. They are surprised by some of the results, and talk about how it feels to be this open and vulnerable with each other.

Sep 112014
 
Non-Sexual Cuddling, part 3: the Little Spoon
This entry is part 3 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual Cuddling

This entry is part 3 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingIn this short clip Gray and Poetic demonstrate what it’s like when the larger partner is the “little spoon.” They also talk about communicating intent (sexual vs. non-sexual) and how to adjust your bodies for maximum intimacy and comfort.

Sep 072014
 
Phone Sex: After the Call
This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaOnce the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here […]

Aug 302014
 
Phone Sex: What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say
This entry is part 7 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 7 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaAshley says it’s the most common thing she hears from people: “What if I don’t know what to say?” Luckily, she’s got a few different tactics for overcoming that kind of shyness. The first one involves masturbating, in fact! By the […]

Aug 192014
 
Phone Sex: Tone of Voice
This entry is part 6 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 6 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaIn this clip Ashley coaches you through one of the most important parts of phone sex: how you sound. She demonstrates how what you look like can affect how you sound (so you should smile!). Ashley also gives a few other […]

Aug 142014
 
Using the Tenga 3: Reading & Pleasuring Your Partner

In the final long and explicit clip in the series Miss Ali first talks about the various ways she “reads” her partner’s body so she can give him pleasure. This is a lot more than just watching his cock, and she also talks about the satisfaction that can be gotten from just giving. In the […]

Aug 102014
 
Phone Sex: Setting the Scene
This entry is part 5 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 5 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaPart of preparing for that hot phone sex session is making sure you’re in the right environment. Ashley Manta talks about how to set the scene not only in terms of distractions and privacy but also internally. She explains how to […]

Aug 082014
 
Amp It Up: Compliments
This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky often asks her audiences if anyone has ever received a compliment on their cock, their pussy, some intimate part. The reactions are often shocked, but there are a few people…and they always say it made them feel great. Ducky suggests in this […]

Jul 292014
 
Amp It Up: Asking for What You Want
This entry is part 7 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 7 of 12 in the series Amp it UpCommunication is both one of the most essential and most difficult parts of a sexual relationship. Asking for what you want – or explaining to a partner how what you want may have changed – can be a tricky process. Ducky has some […]

Jul 272014
 
Phone Sex: Establishing Boundaries
This entry is part 3 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 3 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaDo you like the word “moist”? How about your partner? Better figure it out before you have that hot phone sex session! Ashley talks in this clip about how important it can be to make sure you’re both aware of what […]

Jul 122014
 
Non-Sexual Cuddling, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual Cuddling

This entry is part 1 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingGraydancer and Poetic Desires demonstrate some of the finer points of cuddling when it’s for intimacy, not sex. Sometimes the closeness of cuddling gets overshadowed by awkward body mechanics, tiny discomforts, and even the idea that you might be “doing it wrong.” This series […]

Jul 102014
 
Phone Sex: Telling Your Partner You Want It
This entry is part 2 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 2 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaOnce you know that you want to have some hot phone sex, it can still be embarrassing to tell your partner. Ashley talks about some of the preconceptions and shame that can come along with the idea of phone sex, but […]

Jun 292014
 
Phone Sex: Don't Be Afraid to Try It!
This entry is part 1 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 1 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaAfter working as a phone sex operator, Ashley Manta is a big fan of the whole idea. Phone sex combines the hotness of intimacy with the wild abandon of imagination, all without ever having to get out of bed! She explains […]