Now that they’ve gone over the non-sexual version of cuddling, Gray and Poetic are going to show how to let cuddling be the start of a more sexual interaction. It’s based around communication, consent, and most importantly intent. This clip is about the female in the “little spoon” position.
In part 2 Graydancer and Poetic demonstrate how to play with hair when in a “blowjob position”. Aside from the enjoyable sensations of stroking, pulling the hair back can be both useful and enjoyable, whether it’s done lightly or forcefully. They go over several techniques on using hair to make sexy times even hotter.
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual TraumaIf your partner has had sexual trauma, what is the best way to support them? That’s what Ashley Manta tackles in this clip, starting with her own experience of not-so-supportive family members. She outlines more constructive strategies for giving partners what they need – [...]
In the final clip about non-sexual cuddling Gray and Poetic talk about how to enjoy one of the most intimate positions, with one partner or the other on top. They show how you can adjust your body weight and also some of the advantages of having the female body on the bottom of the snuggle [...]
Poetic and Gray talk in these videos about how to play with hair when you’re feeling sexy. Gray demonstrates how to avoid “Same-Damn-Spot” syndrome, and how having hair bound up tight in back can be a great way to communicate during a blowjob. They also talk about some of the ways you may have your [...]
Are you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal is “to feel good” and “to be close with my partner” [...]
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual TraumaIn this clip Ashley Manta shares her own past experiences of being molested and raped. It is a disturbing and important testimonial because she also shares how she moved past it. Ashley talks about both the internal struggles and the external reclaiming of her [...]
You don’t need to have a whole lot of props and a dungeon to be dominant, and Scotty proves it in this clip. He talks about how you can use any wall and some confident body language to convey the fantasy of control and dominance. He breaks it down step-by-step, covering position and how to [...]
In this clip Gray shows some of the ways the man receiving the double blowjob can give pleasure directly to the women. Rita and Naiia demonstrate how the body mechanics and feedback help Gray give them the kind of stimulation they desire, from fingering to oral sex. Over all, the focus is on the three [...]
If you don’t want to pay a couple of hundred dollars for a corset, Ivy Miller has a lower-cost alternative. In this clip she shows how a couple of different styles of vests can give you a similar body shape as a corset does, including having happy cleavage. She also shows how all it takes [...]
Andre Shakti finishes up her long series on erotic dance with a quick overview of the subject so far and then some ideas for continuing your exploration. Dance can be part of foreplay, it can be an intimate experience in and of itself – but most of all, it doesn’t have to be something that [...]
Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand [...]
Once the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here – tell them what words turned you on, what ones didn’t, and listen to [...]
Rita and Naiia show two more ways they do a double blowjob on Gray’s cock: kneeling in front of him and also having him lay on his back. They talk about how this becomes a more intimate experience for the two of them, taking turns as they go down on him and sharing his body [...]
This three-part series is an exercise in self-awareness that Graydancer and Poetic created in an unrehearsed shoot. This first part shows Gray talking bluntly about the parts of his body that he is sensitive about. Top to bottom he talks about what things make him feel unattractive and why. In part two Poetic does the [...]
In Part 3 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.
Ashley says it’s the most common thing she hears from people: “What if I don’t know what to say?” Luckily, she’s got a few different tactics for overcoming that kind of shyness. The first one involves masturbating, in fact! By the end of the video you’ll have no more fear of running out of things [...]
In this clip Gray, Naiia, and Rita give a realistic perspective on how to try out various positions for a double blow jobs. No tricky porn-style editing – you get to see exactly how bodies move, and how communication happens. Gray also talks about a trick from Reid Mihalko, called “I have an idea!” that [...]