Oct 122014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Standing Adaptive Techniques

In the clips with Scotty and Annie, a big part of the domination is in the size difference between the two. What happens to the techniques if there is not the same physical relationship? In this series of clips Scotty talks about how to adapt the dominant body mechanics with the voluptuous Alex. He begins [...]

Oct 092014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Kneeling Adaptive Techniques

In the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the situation when she’s on her knees. With a combination of safety and hotness [...]

Sep 252014
Male Domination & Female Submission: On the Bed

Got a bed handy? Enjoy the fantasy of power exchange with your partner? Scotty has some specific tips for safe and fun methods to “throw her on the bed with reckless abandon”. This grown-up version of jumping on the bed can add just the right physicality to a scene.

Sep 182014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Against the Wall

You don’t need to have a whole lot of props and a dungeon to be dominant, and Scotty proves it in this clip. He talks about how you can use any wall and some confident body language to convey the fantasy of control and dominance. He breaks it down step-by-step, covering position and how to [...]

Sep 122014
Erotic Dance: Where to Go From Here

Andre Shakti finishes up her long series on erotic dance with a quick overview of the subject so far and then some ideas for continuing your exploration. Dance can be part of foreplay, it can be an intimate experience in and of itself – but most of all, it doesn’t have to be something that [...]

Sep 092014
Male Domination & Female Submission: On the Couch

Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand [...]

Aug 282014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Touch

When playing with the role play of power exchange, the way you interact with each other nonverbally is just as important as what you say. In this clip Scotty draws on the principles of body language, sports, and fantasy to reinforce the power dynamic between the man and the woman.

Aug 212014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Responsibility

Scotty and Annie talk about the importance of remembering the “fantasy” part of dominant/submissive role play. While it’s fun to indulge in the idea of not having any say in what happens to you, the reality is that you are responsible for yourself on a very basic level. They explain how to engage that responsibility [...]

Aug 092014
How to Put On a Corset

The tight laces and hourglass shape of a corset is iconic when it comes to dressing sexy. In this clip Ivy Miller goes into some tips and tricks for putting on the corset, making sure it fits the way you want, and more. She models and demonstrates each part, and talks about why wearing a [...]

Jul 262014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Voice

Scotty demonstrates the power of words spoken in the right tone with this clip. He talks about how a dominant voice is different than the typical “command” voice, since it’s not just compliance you’re looking for – it’s also arousal and fantasy. Annie also tells about how it feels to be spoken to in that [...]

Jul 192014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Posture

Many of the cues when enjoying the fantasy role play of male/female power exchange come nonverbally. As a dominant, your posture says a lot about your confidence and comfort in your position of power. In this clip Scotty starts by showing what <em>not</em> to do, and then gives some solid and practical body mechanics for [...]

Jul 042014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Safewords

Scotty and Annie talk about role-playing the fantasy of “consensual nonconsent” in this clip, focusing on the most important tool for that kind of play: the safeword. That is a word used to let the other person know either that things are not ok, that they are ok, or both. Whether it’s some strange word [...]

Jun 072014
Rough Foreplay: On the Bed

 Scotty and Annie take the techniques from earlier rough foreplay clips into the horizontal plane. Scotty shows how the same ideas of body position and gripping the clothing can turn a simple cuddle session into the beginning of some great consensual role play with a strong power dynamic.

May 302014
Key Principles of Tantra: Taboo Breaking

In this clip Mark and Patricia talk about the value of going against the rules and customs that you may have internalized. Within tantra, the deliberate breaking of a taboo is meant to inspire an “aha” moment that you wouldn’t otherwise encounter. Mark and Patricia explain how to take this principle into the modern era [...]

May 252014
Key Principles of Tantra: Awareness

In this clip Mark and Patricia dispel the myth that you have to be “totally aware” in order to have good energetic sex. In fact, they say that’s crazy! They suggest instead that you work on “levels of awareness” so that you can enjoy the things you want to, that enhance your sexual experience and [...]

May 182014
Key Principles of Tantra: Breath

In this clip Mark and Patricia invite you to try changing up the way you breathe during sex. By first observing and then consciously breathing you can expand your pleasure. They also explain a few other fun ways you can play around with breathing, including the exciting and intimate “reciprocal breathing” technique.

May 032014
Rough Foreplay: Using Clothing

Scotty and Annie show some simple ways to use clothing as a tool of dominance. Scotty shows where and how you can use a firm grip and the body positions covered in earlier clips to make your play more “raw”. Of course, all of it is consensual and that makes it even hotter! Stay tuned [...]

May 012014
Changing Position Gracefully

Sex is all fun and games until, as Rain DeGrey puts it, “someone loses an eye from a stray elbow.” In this clip she and Mickey Mod show how to mix up the ways you have sex in a way that keeps things hot and sexy. The key is communication and a few applied principles [...]

Feb 112014
Boudoir Shoot: Laying Down Poses, Part 2

In the final segment of her boudoir shoot series, Andre Shakti shows how to create one final iconic pinup pose while laying down. She then goes over a quick review of all of the elements covered in the series, reminding you finally that it’s all about having fun. Take the pressure off, grab a camera, [...]

Feb 042014
Rough Foreplay: Restricting Movement

 Scotty and Annie demonstrate how the fantasy of control can be heightened with the use of a couple of simple physical techniques. They show the “two-on-one” hold as well as the “thumb” hold and talk about how it’s all in a context of fun and consensual role-play.

Jan 232014
Assertive Initiating

Dylan Ryan & Mickey Mod continue to talk about the ways you can initiate sex with your partner by taking it to a more assertive level. This can just be unmistakable cues of body language or go all the way to forcefully holding hands over the head. Dylan also points out that you can use [...]

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Jan 192014
Rough Foreplay: the Throat & Neck

 Scotty and Annie delve into the finer points of including the throat and neck in your consensual fantasy role-play. Starting with determining the “sensitive” spots, Scotty takes you step-by-step through different techniques with enthusiastic commentary by Annie.

Jan 172014
How to Handle Your Pregnant Partners Breasts: Breast Sex, Part 2

 For part two of her series on “titty fucking”, Sadie Lune shows how the pregnant partner on top can have access to some extra fun tricks. She also covers lesbian sex using the breasts with Poetic’s enthusiastic cooperation. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Login & Purchase

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Jan 072014
Rough Sex: the Kitty

Danarama shows how the simple “doggy style” position can be “roughed up” into what he calls “the Kitty”. It’s a face-down ass-up position that offers many ways to enjoy the roughness of fucking in a safe and consensual way. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.Login & Purchase

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