Dr. Heather Howard recommends ways to reduce sexual pain during this four-minute, part-one video. She outlines her series by stating the four Ps: prepare, protect, position, and pleasure. Dr. Howard focuses primarily on preparation – offering dozens of techniques – in this clip, and continues her suggestions in her upcoming clips.
Hugo Schwyzer explains in this clip that the idea that men are ruled by their sexual desire is no more true than the idea of female “hysteria” in Victorian times. He stresses how important it is to get to the truth behind arousal, lust, and the way they are viewed in culture in order to [...]
Just because you know it’s ok for your kids to know you have sex doesn’t make it very easy to actually communicate it. Dr. Ruthie helps you navigate the potentially awkward conversations as well as giving practical tips for maintaining boundaries and acknowledging that as parents you have multiple identities beyond simply being “mom” or [...]
Jacq addresses the one key ingredient that differentiates 50 Shades-type sex from abuse, and that is consent. She talks about how consent is created through negotiation and how it can change as people experience things together. She recommends working towards “radical consent”, that whole-hearted enthusiastic “yes!” to trying out this kind of play in the [...]
Rain DeGrey explains a great way to manage your multiple dildos (or other sex toys) after a fun and/or kinky date. She uses a food storage bag and paper-scrap system so that she always knows which of her toys are sterile and which ones need to be cleaned. This clip is full of practical advice [...]
In this clip, Dr. Charlie Glickman explains that the pleasures of using a strap-on dildo for prostate play has more benefits than simply pleasure. He has found that men and women tend to get a new appreciation and greater empathy for the other side of penetrative sex and this can lead to many more ways [...]
Dr. Heather Howard tackles the sometimes scary subject of erectile difficulty for men in this clip. She outlines what kinds of problems actually fall into the realm of E.D. and suggests several possible avenues to look for solutions. As always, while Dr. Howard is a clinical sexologist, only your own physician can know for sure [...]
Ducky Doolittle enthusiastically explains why your guy’s butt can be a huge source of pleasure, even if they are wary of it. She outlines a few different methods for how to approach the area with sensitivity and with respect for your man’s boundaries. Whether it’s just a touch or going inside for direct prostate stimulation, [...]
In this clip Kelly Shibari tackles a tricky situation: how can a couple get through the awkwardness that sometimes occurs when one partner gains significant weight? She talks about how attraction and arousal can change (or not) and brings it back around to the idea of communication and honesty being the best way to strengthen [...]
Sadie Lune shows one of the most comfortable positions for sex throughout pregnancy. “Spooning” with your partner is especially helpful later in pregnancy. Sadie also covers a few tricks in terms of angle, sexy action, and pillows to make sure that you can have as much fun as you like during pregnant sex.
Will Fredericks continues this series with a two-part video on techniques for increasing your awareness of your immediate surroundings and the present moment. When you can narrow your focus, you can begin to both appreciate and share the magic of skin-to-skin contact with your lover in new and surprising ways.
Evöe Thorne puts Harold Henry under their Trample Table for this video to show how feet can be used for some amazing cock and ball stimulation. She covers accessories like lube as well as showing various techniques for stroking, applying pressure, and (judging from Harold’s face) generally having a lot of fun teasing with soles, [...]
Dr. Charlie Glickman addresses a common question he gets when educating about prostate pleasure: “Does enjoying anal penetration make me gay?” He explains the difference between how you like to have sex and who you like to have it with, and how your sexual pleasure has nothing to do with orientations like gay, straight, or anything else.
Lucky Albatross continues her series on sensual wax play during this eight-minute video. She recommends what types of wax to use — and to avoid. Lucky offers a host of tips on such things as consistency, texture, temperature, handling, dripping, pouring, and much more. Stay tuned for her upcoming wax play demonstrations.
Sadie Lune shows more ways to use your pregnant body to add to your sexy fun. Using your belly to temporarily take your partner’s breath away or just playing with the heavier breasts can add a taste of dominance to your sensual lovemaking. You can see from the smiles that Sadie and Poetic both agree [...]
Will Fredericks continues to explain how the concept of conscious touch is related to other techniques such as tantra and carezza while at the same time being something unique. He gives examples of how intention is related to the method, and lays down the framework for the upcoming clips in this series.
Building on the concepts of part 1, Jacq Jones illustrates how several different toys can be used specifically for male anatomy to spice up your sex. She also talks frankly about the need to share your fantasies and even the way you masturbate with each other, so that you can better understand the ways sexual [...]
Jacq Jones offers a plethora of ideas for keeping the sexy magic going strong in your long-term relationship in part one of this series. As usual, it all starts with communication, but the way you tell your lover what you want can drastically improve your chances of making it happen. With ideas like the “compliment [...]
