Dec 312014
 
Sex & Disability: Accommodations & Substitutions
This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Sex & Disability

This entry is part 5 of 5 in the series Sex & DisabilityIn this clip Wintersong discusses various ways to get the same feeling of an activity with a partner without adverse effects by carefully selecting the right equipment. They give several examples of ways that creative exploration can work around the limitations of a […]

Dec 312014
 
Sex & Disability: Explaining Your Circumstances
This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series Sex & Disability

This entry is part 3 of 5 in the series Sex & DisabilityIn a previous clip Wintersong talked about various questions for a partner to ask a potential playmate with a disability. But what should the person with the disability be prepared to discuss? This clip covers how to address some of the specifics as […]

Nov 192014
 
Slippery When Sexy: Using Lube

Slippery When Sexy Lube is like wine. There are many different varieties with various characteristics you might like or not, and different brands are appropriate depending on what they’re being used for. A couple might have one kind of lube for anal sex, a different one for vaginal intercourse, and still a different one for […]

Oct 142014
 
Sexual Cuddling: Slow Oral

Gray and Poetic talk more in this clip about how cuddling can lead directly into sexual contact such as fellatio. They emphasize that communication and consent are essential, and also that there is no rush when you’re cudding. Whether it’s just an afternoon of stroking your partner or the beginning of some wild 69, cuddling […]

Oct 122014
 
Male Domination & Female Submission: Standing Adaptive Techniques
This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female SubmissionIn the clips with Scotty and Annie, a big part of the domination is in the size difference between the two. What happens to the techniques if there is not the same physical relationship? In this series of clips Scotty talks about […]

Oct 112014
 
Phone Sex: Your Survival Kit
This entry is part 4 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley Manta

This entry is part 4 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaPhone sex can be hard work! Ashley goes over some of the items you might want to have on hand when you’re getting it on with someone from a distance. She starts with practical things – a hands-free headset, a charged […]

Oct 102014
 
Sexual Cuddling: Communicating Intent for Her, Part 2

Now that she’s maneuvered her hand into a handjob-type situation, Poetic shows some of the techniques for dealing with clothing and increasing both intimacy and sensation. Again, the enjoyment for both Gray and Poetic is in the touching for it’s own sake, and the feeling of connection.

Oct 092014
 
Male Domination & Female Submission: Kneeling Adaptive Techniques
This entry is part 12 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

This entry is part 12 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female SubmissionIn the second video on adapting techniques when your physiques are similar Scotty and Alex move to the knees. Scotty shows how the back is the key to controlling the submissive’s position and how he uses his own body to dominate the […]

Oct 072014
 
Amp It Up: Orgasm From Penetration Alone
This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky starts this video by explaining that only about 20% of women can have an orgasm from penetration alone. At the same time it is one of the most common questions women ask her. She gives several suggestions about muscle control and exercises […]

Oct 052014
 
Sexual Cuddling: Communicating Intent for Her, Part 1

The next part of this series focuses on the woman initiating sex from a snuggly feeling. Poetic demonstrates several erotic techniques for caressing, touching, whispering dirty talk. She is working her way towards the cock, but that is covered – and uncovered – in part 2.

Oct 042014
 
Vulvar Pelvic Pain: Possible Treatments

Megan Andelloux continues her reflections on pelvic pain with this eight-minute video. In preparation for a physician’s (and/or therapist’s) care, Megan presents the wide range of treatment options – medical, physical, sexual, etc. – available to you.

Oct 042014
 
Sexy Sensations: Using Household Items
This entry is part 7 of 7 in the series Sexy Sensations

This entry is part 7 of 7 in the series Sexy SensationsScotty and Annie want you to go shopping, because there are a lot of simple items at the kitchen store that can be wonderfully stimulating. Scotty shows how car-washing mitts, a loofa sponge, and other items can be used in ways that may surprise […]

Oct 032014
 
Amp It Up: Spontaneity & Anticipation
This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it UpAnticipation and spontaneity can juice up your sex life in surprising ways. Looking forward to your lover’s touch, the sight of their body, the kinds of things you do together – that enriches what Ducky calls the “sexual imagination.” Spontaneity, on the other […]

Oct 022014
 
Sexual Cuddling, Part 1

Now that they’ve gone over the non-sexual version of cuddling, Gray and Poetic are going to show how to let cuddling be the start of a more sexual interaction. It’s based around communication, consent, and most importantly intent. This clip is about the female in the “little spoon” position.

Sep 282014
 
Sexy Hair Play, Part 2

In part 2 Graydancer and Poetic demonstrate how to play with hair when in a “blowjob position”. Aside from the enjoyable sensations of stroking, pulling the hair back can be both useful and enjoyable, whether it’s done lightly or forcefully. They go over several techniques on using hair to make sexy times even hotter.

Sep 272014
 
Sexual Trauma: Supporting a Survivor
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual Trauma

This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual TraumaIf your partner has had sexual trauma, what is the best way to support them? That’s what Ashley Manta tackles in this clip, starting with her own experience of not-so-supportive family members. She outlines more constructive strategies for giving partners what they need – […]

Sep 262014
 
Non-Sexual Cuddling, Part 4: On Top
This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual Cuddling

This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingIn the final clip about non-sexual cuddling Gray and Poetic talk about how to enjoy one of the most intimate positions, with one partner or the other on top. They show how you can adjust your body weight and also some of the advantages […]

Sep 252014
 
Male Domination & Female Submission: On the Bed
This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female SubmissionGot a bed handy? Enjoy the fantasy of power exchange with your partner? Scotty has some specific tips for safe and fun methods to “throw her on the bed with reckless abandon”. This grown-up version of jumping on the bed can add […]

Sep 232014
 
Sexy Hair Play, Part 1

Poetic and Gray talk in these videos about how to play with hair when you’re feeling sexy. Gray demonstrates how to avoid “Same-Damn-Spot” syndrome, and how having hair bound up tight in back can be a great way to communicate during a blowjob. They also talk about some of the ways you may have your […]

Sep 212014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Orgasm Every Time?
This entry is part 3 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 3 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingAre you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal […]

Sep 202014
 
Sexual Trauma: A Personal Experience
This entry is part 1 of 2 in the series Sexual Trauma

This entry is part 1 of 2 in the series Sexual TraumaIn this clip Ashley Manta shares her own past experiences of being molested and raped. It is a disturbing and important testimonial because she also shares how she moved past it. Ashley talks about both the internal struggles and the external reclaiming of her […]

Sep 192014
 
Body Image Part 3: What We Like About Each Other

This clip takes the body image topic in a more positive direction, as Graydancer and Poetic tell each other what parts of each other’s bodies they find sexy and beautiful. They are surprised by some of the results, and talk about how it feels to be this open and vulnerable with each other.

Sep 182014
 
Male Domination & Female Submission: Against the Wall
This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female Submission

This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Male Domination, Female SubmissionYou don’t need to have a whole lot of props and a dungeon to be dominant, and Scotty proves it in this clip. He talks about how you can use any wall and some confident body language to convey the fantasy of […]

Sep 162014
 
Body Image Part 2: What Poetic Doesn't Like

Now it’s Poetic’s turn to talk about her self-image and the parts of her body that make her feel self-conscious. She matter-of-factly talks about herself from head-to-toe in this psychologically demanding exercise.