Gray and Poetic talk more in this clip about how cuddling can lead directly into sexual contact such as fellatio. They emphasize that communication and consent are essential, and also that there is no rush when you’re cudding. Whether it’s just an afternoon of stroking your partner or the beginning of some wild 69, cuddling […]
Phone sex can be hard work! Ashley goes over some of the items you might want to have on hand when you’re getting it on with someone from a distance. She starts with practical things – a hands-free headset, a charged phone, water to keep your moans hydrated – but also goes into more esoteric […]
Ducky starts this video by explaining that only about 20% of women can have an orgasm from penetration alone. At the same time it is one of the most common questions women ask her. She gives several suggestions about muscle control and exercises that can increase your pleasure and the chances of an orgasm. Ducky […]
This entry is part 7 of 7 in the series Sexy SensationsScotty and Annie want you to go shopping, because there are a lot of simple items at the kitchen store that can be wonderfully stimulating. Scotty shows how car-washing mitts, a loofa sponge, and other items can be used in ways that may surprise […]
Anticipation and spontaneity can juice up your sex life in surprising ways. Looking forward to your lover’s touch, the sight of their body, the kinds of things you do together – that enriches what Ducky calls the “sexual imagination.” Spontaneity, on the other hand, is when you give in to your desire in unexpected ways […]
In part 2 Graydancer and Poetic demonstrate how to play with hair when in a “blowjob position”. Aside from the enjoyable sensations of stroking, pulling the hair back can be both useful and enjoyable, whether it’s done lightly or forcefully. They go over several techniques on using hair to make sexy times even hotter.
Poetic and Gray talk in these videos about how to play with hair when you’re feeling sexy. Gray demonstrates how to avoid “Same-Damn-Spot” syndrome, and how having hair bound up tight in back can be a great way to communicate during a blowjob. They also talk about some of the ways you may have your […]
Are you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal is “to feel good” and “to be close with my partner” […]
This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsIn this clip Gray shows some of the ways the man receiving the double blowjob can give pleasure directly to the women. Rita and Naiia demonstrate how the body mechanics and feedback help Gray give them the kind of stimulation they desire, from […]
Andre Shakti finishes up her long series on erotic dance with a quick overview of the subject so far and then some ideas for continuing your exploration. Dance can be part of foreplay, it can be an intimate experience in and of itself – but most of all, it doesn’t have to be something that […]
Once the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here – tell them what words turned you on, what ones didn’t, and listen to […]
This entry is part 3 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsRita and Naiia show two more ways they do a double blowjob on Gray’s cock: kneeling in front of him and also having him lay on his back. They talk about how this becomes a more intimate experience for the two of them, […]
In Part 3 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.
Ashley says it’s the most common thing she hears from people: “What if I don’t know what to say?” Luckily, she’s got a few different tactics for overcoming that kind of shyness. The first one involves masturbating, in fact! By the end of the video you’ll have no more fear of running out of things […]
This entry is part 2 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsIn this clip Gray, Naiia, and Rita give a realistic perspective on how to try out various positions for a double blow jobs. No tricky porn-style editing – you get to see exactly how bodies move, and how communication happens. Gray also talks […]
Andre Shakti starts out this clip by telling you that whether you dance or not you should be stretching every day. For an erotic dance in particular, though, there are some areas such as the legs, back, and neck that deserve some special attention. She demonstrates several stretches she uses, some modified from her yoga […]
In Part 2 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.
In this clip Ashley coaches you through one of the most important parts of phone sex: how you sound. She demonstrates how what you look like can affect how you sound (so you should smile!). Ashley also gives a few other tricks to use when you’re having your hot phone call. This text is available […]
Most people focus on the genitals and secondary areas like the nipples, according to Ducky, when they’re talking about sex. However, there are many more places that can turn you on, and she tries to get to each and every one in this clip! Starting from the pc muscles essential to everyone’s orgasm and working […]
This entry is part 1 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsGraydancer joins Naiia and Rita to explore a common fantasy: two women giving one man oral sex. Before they get into the act, though, they talk openly about some of their internal feelings about what they’re about to do. Not surprisingly communication helps […]
Costume designer Ivy Miller wants to share with you her passion for the empowering feeling of dressing up sexy! She explains how the culture’s idea of what is “sexy” changes a lot, and that means that there are a lot of possibilities for sexy play with your body and your closet. Illustrated with historical images […]