It’s both a big joke and also the most common insecurity for males in just about any culture. Ancient ukioy-e prints from Edo-era Japan show men with giant members, while the statue of David by Michelangelo has a tiny and almost withdrawn flaccid organ. Women can deflate the most bombastic man by just holding up […]
Gray and Poetic talk more in this clip about how cuddling can lead directly into sexual contact such as fellatio. They emphasize that communication and consent are essential, and also that there is no rush when you’re cudding. Whether it’s just an afternoon of stroking your partner or the beginning of some wild 69, cuddling […]
This entry is part 4 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaPhone sex can be hard work! Ashley goes over some of the items you might want to have on hand when you’re getting it on with someone from a distance. She starts with practical things – a hands-free headset, a charged […]
Now that she’s maneuvered her hand into a handjob-type situation, Poetic shows some of the techniques for dealing with clothing and increasing both intimacy and sensation. Again, the enjoyment for both Gray and Poetic is in the touching for it’s own sake, and the feeling of connection. This text is available for purchase but you […]
This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky starts this video by explaining that only about 20% of women can have an orgasm from penetration alone. At the same time it is one of the most common questions women ask her. She gives several suggestions about muscle control and exercises […]
The next part of this series focuses on the woman initiating sex from a snuggly feeling. Poetic demonstrates several erotic techniques for caressing, touching, whispering dirty talk. She is working her way towards the cock, but that is covered – and uncovered – in part 2. This text is available for purchase but you need […]
This entry is part 7 of 7 in the series Sexy SensationsScotty and Annie want you to go shopping, because there are a lot of simple items at the kitchen store that can be wonderfully stimulating. Scotty shows how car-washing mitts, a loofa sponge, and other items can be used in ways that may surprise […]
This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it UpAnticipation and spontaneity can juice up your sex life in surprising ways. Looking forward to your lover’s touch, the sight of their body, the kinds of things you do together – that enriches what Ducky calls the “sexual imagination.” Spontaneity, on the other […]
Now that they’ve gone over the non-sexual version of cuddling, Gray and Poetic are going to show how to let cuddling be the start of a more sexual interaction. It’s based around communication, consent, and most importantly intent. This clip is about the female in the “little spoon” position. This text is available for purchase […]
In part 2 Graydancer and Poetic demonstrate how to play with hair when in a “blowjob position”. Aside from the enjoyable sensations of stroking, pulling the hair back can be both useful and enjoyable, whether it’s done lightly or forcefully. They go over several techniques on using hair to make sexy times even hotter.
Poetic and Gray talk in these videos about how to play with hair when you’re feeling sexy. Gray demonstrates how to avoid “Same-Damn-Spot” syndrome, and how having hair bound up tight in back can be a great way to communicate during a blowjob. They also talk about some of the ways you may have your […]
This entry is part 3 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingAre you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal […]
This entry is part 4 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsIn this clip Gray shows some of the ways the man receiving the double blowjob can give pleasure directly to the women. Rita and Naiia demonstrate how the body mechanics and feedback help Gray give them the kind of stimulation they desire, from […]
This entry is part 13 of 13 in the series Erotic DancingAndre Shakti finishes up her long series on erotic dance with a quick overview of the subject so far and then some ideas for continuing your exploration. Dance can be part of foreplay, it can be an intimate experience in and of itself – […]
This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaOnce the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here […]
This entry is part 3 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsRita and Naiia show two more ways they do a double blowjob on Gray’s cock: kneeling in front of him and also having him lay on his back. They talk about how this becomes a more intimate experience for the two of them, […]
In Part 3 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.
This entry is part 7 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaAshley says it’s the most common thing she hears from people: “What if I don’t know what to say?” Luckily, she’s got a few different tactics for overcoming that kind of shyness. The first one involves masturbating, in fact! By the […]
This entry is part 2 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsIn this clip Gray, Naiia, and Rita give a realistic perspective on how to try out various positions for a double blow jobs. No tricky porn-style editing – you get to see exactly how bodies move, and how communication happens. Gray also talks […]
This entry is part 8 of 13 in the series Erotic DancingAndre Shakti starts out this clip by telling you that whether you dance or not you should be stretching every day. For an erotic dance in particular, though, there are some areas such as the legs, back, and neck that deserve some special attention. […]
In Part 2 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.
This entry is part 6 of 8 in the series Phone Sex with Ashley MantaIn this clip Ashley coaches you through one of the most important parts of phone sex: how you sound. She demonstrates how what you look like can affect how you sound (so you should smile!). Ashley also gives a few other […]
This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Amp it UpMost people focus on the genitals and secondary areas like the nipples, according to Ducky, when they’re talking about sex. However, there are many more places that can turn you on, and she tries to get to each and every one in this […]
This entry is part 1 of 4 in the series Double Blow JobsGraydancer joins Naiia and Rita to explore a common fantasy: two women giving one man oral sex. Before they get into the act, though, they talk openly about some of their internal feelings about what they’re about to do. Not surprisingly communication helps […]