Apr 152014
GirlGasm Mythbusting: Different Kinds of Orgasms

Vaginal, clitoral, g-spot, extended – there are many different kinds of orgasms talked about in popular culture. It brings up the question: how do I get these kinds of orgasms? Or even: Am I having the right orgasm? Ducky reassures you in this clip: yes, your orgasm is fine, because there is, in fact, only [...]

Apr 132014
The First-Timer's Butt Plug

Graydancer and Naiia begin a series on anal play for couples by starting small – using a soft silicone version of . Gray begins with some soft sensation play, drawing on some of the techniques described by Ducky Doolittle and Jaiya here in other clips on PassionateU. Naiia takes the plug into her when she’s [...]

Apr 112014
Key Principles of Tantra: Adventure

Patricia and Mark invite you in this clip to take on a more “experimental” view of your sex life. If you are looking to explore new things with your partner, they explain, there is a sense of play and fun. This keeps any possibility of disappointment from the experience, because it’s all in the idea [...]

Apr 062014
Just Say Yes: Being Open to New Experiences, Part 2

In part 2 Kim goes over some of the reasons that people might have closed their minds to certain experiences. It can be pain from the past, negative associations with the act, or even shame, but whatever it is, it’s worth figuring it out. Kim outlines several examples and methods of doing that and opening [...]

Apr 052014
GirlGasms: Kegel Toys

Ducky has explained in many clips that orgasms involve involuntary contractions of muscles, and that the stronger those muscles are, the better the orgasms get. In this clip she goes over several kinds of toys designed specifically to build those muscles – from the ben-wa balls made famous by “50 Shades of Grey” to silicone [...]

Apr 042014
Breast Sex: Foreplay

Rain Degrey brings out her breasts in this clip to show, with Mickey Mod, some techniques for arousal and foreplay. After a thorough demonstration by Mickey she explains how different areas of the breast and nipple respond to his various techniques, and also describes how different people can respond. Every woman is different, and there [...]

Apr 012014
The Sensual Blowjob, Part 2

As Naiia continues her sensual blowjob for Gray, the two of them talk (in voiceover) about the way the various techniques such as deep throat and long licks feel for both, with a few surprises for each other. Aside from showing off a variety of ways to use hands, tongue, lips and even teeth to [...]

Mar 302014
GirlGasms: Muscles & Breathing

In this very personal and passionate clip Ducky talks about one of the biggest and most important parts of a woman’s orgasmic potential: the muscles of the pelvic floor. Not only does she talk about them, she also gives a very personal example of why they are worth exercising through kegels and other techniques. Ducky [...]

Mar 292014
Giving & Receiving Sexual Energy

Often sex can be a kind of haphazard exchange of various activities between two people with just a hope that everyone will get what they want. Mark and Patricia suggest in this clip that by “isolating” the activities – that is, one person purely being the giver, the other solely the receiver – you can [...]

Mar 272014
Erotic Dancing: Confidence

One of the hardest parts of really getting into erotic dance is dealing with the common stereotypes and expectations of what “erotic dance” is. Andre helps bring you to the realization that the only expectations you have to meet are your own. Your erotic dance is an intimate moment between you and your partner, a [...]

Mar 232014
Spanking: Building Intensity

Scotty shows how to ramp things up in a spanking scene in this clip with the enthusiastic bottoming skills of Alex. They demonstrate how both sides improve the connection between spanker and spankee using variations in tempo, pressure, and impact. With all the work of teaching, both his hand and her ass are quite red, and [...]

Mar 222014
Just Say Yes: Being Open to New Experiences, Part 1

In this series Kim Airs of Grand Opening and KimAirs.com talks about the sad fact of people closing themselves off to sexual happiness. There are many reasons – bad experiences, social conditioning – but she explains how being open to the possibility of pleasure through things you haven’t tried can make your whole relationship better.

Mar 212014
The Clit Ain't Always It (Inspired by Ducky Doolittle)

While the clitoris is a wondrous part of the body, there are times it gets too much attention. Inspired by the similarly-titled clip by Ducky Doolittle, Gray and Naiia demonstrate how different parts of the vulva can give different sensations. Gray also illustrates various techniques for finding and stimulating the right spot, while Naiia models [...]

Mar 202014
GirlGasms: Lubricants

This clip helps cover two subjects that Ducky commonly talks to women about. First is the idea that how wet a woman is indicates how aroused she is (short answer: sometimes, not always). Second is about various kinds of lubricants that are good to have on hand to help make sex more fun and easy. [...]

Mar 182014
What is Karezza?

In this clip Mark and Patricia invite you to embrace a more “expansive” definition of heterosexual coupling. They explain the method of “karezza” (“soft embrace”) which can give couples a new insight into intimacy and pleasure. The technique was developed by a female gynecologist in the U.S. but has similarities to Taoist and tantric practices [...]

Mar 132014
Girl Gasms: Compliments on Your Pussy

Ducky takes a moment in this clip to talk about the relatively uncommon experience of having someone pay a compliment to your pussy. She describes how various women in the workshops have reacted to this, and uses it as an example of the importance of loving communication between partners.

Mar 112014
What Is Tantra?

There are a lot of questions and controversy about the practice of tantric sex, and Patricia and Mark join PassionateU to give their interpretation. They provide a succinct definition as well as breaking down the word to explain the roots. They also give a quick prelude of the rest of the series: how tantra can [...]

Mar 082014
The Sensual Blowjob, Part 1

In part one of this long and explicit video Naiia shows her technique for giving slow and sensuous blowjobs. After she and Gray discuss the reasons to add this skill to the fellatio repertoire, they begin the demonstration, with a “DVD commentary”-style narration explaining exactly what she’s doing and how it feels for both of [...]

Mar 062014
Girl Gasm: Squirting

Squirting, or “female ejaculation” as Ducky doesn’t like to call it, is a big deal in porn, in popular media, and sometimes between partners. However, there’s a lot of misinformation and misunderstanding about what it it, where it comes from, and how it happens. Using charts, toys, and her own cheerfully accessible way of explaining [...]

Mar 042014
Spontaneous Oral Sex Part 3: Tips & Tricks

In this final clip from the series Gray & Naiia use “reading” as a scenario to illustrate a few useful techniques when spontaneously enjoying fellatio. They talk about getting hair out of the way, safely undoing zippers, and more!

Feb 282014
Spontaneous Oral Sex: Blowjobs, Part 2

In this follow-up clip Gray & Naiia continue to demonstrate and talk about places around the house where you might have a sudden desire for fellatio. This clip covers both “watching TV” and the various aspects of sucking cock in the shower (both pros and cons). They end with some final thoughts about the whole [...]

Feb 272014
Spanking Over-the-Knee: Bent Over a Chair, Part 2

Scotty and Annie continue to demonstrate the classic kink, OTK spanking, in this clip. Annie gives some feedback on why her position is just right for her arousal, while Scotty illustrates the ways that variations in tempo and intensity can add a lot to the experience. They also touch on the “sweet spot” – literally [...]

Feb 252014
Talking Dirty: Getting Started

Kim Airs (of KimAirs.com and GrandOpening.com) is very enthusiastic about dirty talk – but she understands that different people have different definitions of what “dirty” means. In this clip she talks about how to find out where that fun place is for you and your lover, using practice and reading erotica and other techniques. She [...]





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