If you’re lucky enough to have a woman dancing for you, there are some positive ways to show your appreciation. You can also help reinforce her confidence through the simple acts of respect and communication. Andre lays it out for you with several specific examples to help that private dancer in your life know how [...]
Andre Shakti begins her series on getting your hot groove on with a simple message: you can do this! Erotic dancing can be a lot of things, but above all it is personal and fun, so Andre gives you some ways to consider what your own moves would be like? How can you incorporate this [...]
Jaiya, author of “Red Hot Touch”, uses this clip to give a thorough introduction to the idea of touch for sensuality. She uses the massage concept of “layers of palpation” and demonstrates how each can change the mood of the touch. She gives recommendations for figuring out what your partner likes, and gets you set [...]
Want an instant way to increase your lover’s sensitivity and awareness? Scotty has the answer in this clip. He and Annie explain just what a simple blindfold can add to your sexy sensations. Annie gives a firsthand and frank account of what it feels like, and Scotty offers several suggestions for various kinds of blindfolds [...]
Scotty and Annie show how safer sex can also be hot sensations when it comes to latex and nitrile gloves. He shows how the soft, strange texture can heighten the pleasure she takes from his touch. They also show how other, less clinical materials (like leather or velvet) can make gloves a fun toy to [...]
Find yourself a comfortable spot, shut off your beeping things, and take a few minutes to join Dr. Jenn in a guided meditation. It’s designed to help you become more aware of your five senses and of your environment. Practices like this translate into more enjoyment of sex as well, but you have to start [...]
Lady Cheeky describes how your awareness of your body and its inherent sensuality can change when you reach your forties. She explains a method that worked for her to rediscover her changing body and lead to pleasures she’d never imagined possible. This is an introduction to follow-up clips that will show the methods Lady Cheeky [...]
Scotty and Ammre go over some of the nicer ways to arouse and stimulate your partner’s nipples. He brings up some of the mistakes eager lovers sometimes make in their enthusiasm for nipples and suggests ways to use other parts of the hand and arm to make the sensation simultaneously pleasant and hot. More than [...]
Scotty and Ammre go into the finer points of using the hair as a sensual part of your sexual life in this first of two clips. With her hair up in a bun, Ammre has provided a secure focus of control for Scotty’s grip, and the two of them talk about both the physical technique [...]
Now that he’s explained the various principles and practices behind conscious touch, Will uses this clip to give a clear example of how to take it into your own bedroom through Betty Martin’s “Three-Minute Game.” Each partner gets three minutes of the kind of touch and attention they want, and also gets practice communicating that [...]
Having a busy day? That’s ok, this won’t take long. It’s just a quick sexy blog entry about one of the best ways to improve orgasms, increase intimacy, have hotter and longer sex with your partner and also help you live longer, happier, and more productive lives. Oh, so now you suddenly have time? Well, [...]
Will Fredericks continues to talk about how learning about your own pleasure and how to communicate about it with your partner can improve relationships. He uses examples like dancing, but really it is about the ability to identify what makes you feel good and then tell your partner about it that really shows why conscious self-pleasuring [...]
Evöe and Harold continue to show off their fun selection of toys for CBT. As they show a wide range, from simple pipe insulation and a homemade “CBT Mallet” to a barely-bearable electrical “little devil”, they talk about the sensations and safety considerations when using these kinds of sexy devices.
Lady Cheeky, with the help of Kelly Shibari, talks about exploring your own body surfaces to discover what kinds of sensations you like. She recommends several oils, lubes, as well as sex toys of various kinds to really get into a variety of pleasurable feelings. This practice can help you communicate with your partner later [...]
How does a different intention change the experience of pleasurable touch? Will Fredericks talks about exploring the various directions of focus as you’re caressing your partner. Referencing the work of Betty Martin and others, he outlines a couple of ways to change the perception of the touch and therefore enjoy it even more.
Yonilicious continues her series on biting with a focus on techniques and combinations during this five-minute, part-one video. She discusses intention and desire and then recommends numerous techniques to reach your goal(s). She shows nibbling, licking, sucking, biting, and chomping – as well as various combinations of each – on the back of the neck [...]