Mar 142014
 
Partners in Passion

A Guide to Great Sex, Emotional Intimacy, and Long-Term Love Partners in Passion by Patricia Johnson and Mark Michaels is the definitive book on how to build and sustain incredible sex and deep emotional connection for a lifetime. Partners in Passion themselves, authors Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson provide readers with a fun step-by-step [...]

Feb 242014
 
Sex & Disability: Finding the Positives

In this clip Wintersong talks about finding the positive aspects of playing with a disability. While the focus is on the more kinky aspects of sexuality, it’s easy to extrapolate to the simple act of sex. For example, a person with fibromyalgia was able to enjoy the heightened sensitivity, and another with an artificial limb [...]

Nov 242013
 
Mindful Communication

In this clip Dr. Jenn explains how the mindfulness she’s outlined before can be directly applied to communicating with your partner. It helps you identify automatic patterns, both in yourself and them. It can also give you the tools of presence and attention that can change the way you interact for the better.

Nov 032013
 
Easing Stress Together: Four Steps to More Sex

 Dr. Ruthie lays out four concrete steps towards getting past the stress and into the sex with this clip. She talks about communicating and acknowledging both the good and the hard parts of your sex lives, as well as the importance of individual identities while being part of a sexual team. This is the wrap [...]

Oct 242013
 
Talking to Your Partner About Kink: Don't

Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.

Oct 112013
 
Initiating Sex: for the Women

Sometimes it can be difficult for a woman to initiate sex in a relationship. Shay and Stefanos understand that, but they explain in this clip both why it’s a good idea to do it and also how to start changing your mindset around those kinds of typical gender roles.

Sep 292013
 
Sex Tips for Straight Men: Communication

Jacq Jones lays it out for straight men in terms of the best way to please their partner: learn to communicate. More than size, technique, or any fancy toys, learning how your partner is aroused and sexually satisfied is the one sure way to a better love life. Jacq recommends several ways to do this, [...]

Sep 222013
 
Tips for Talking to Your Partner About Porn

Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan talk frankly about the difficulties that can arise when you are trying to talk about pornography with your partner. They give many precious bits of advice on how to keep an open mind and a loving heart as you work to get past the cultural stigma and listen to what [...]

Sep 142013
 
Talking to Your Partner About Kink: Do

Having covered what not to do in a previous video, Kitty Stryker now suggests ways to talk with your partner about your kink during this nine-minute video. She covers approach, attitude, honesty, exploration, and compromise; as well as the many options available to experience your fantasies.

Sep 032013
 
Easing Stress Together: Facing Your Stressors

 Dr. Ruthie explains in this clip that many of the same stresses you face in everyday life can impact your sex life as well. She mentions examples like career and the kind of bickering that can develop in a relationship, then suggests several techniques for overcoming these stressors with your partner.

Aug 202013
 
Consent Within Monogamy

 In this clip Jacq Jones reminds you that monogamy does not automatically mean anything goes – in fact, consent is more important than ever! She goes on to encourage people to look for the areas of enthusiastic consent, and gives advice on how to honor that consent and create a safe space for a relationship to grow.

Jul 242013
 
Verbal Consent: Non-Verbal Consent

It can be hard to figure out how body language and physical cues affirm or deny the creation of consent. Kitty Stryker explains how to navigate this gray area more effectively by being sensitive to each other and also not being afraid to ask when in doubt. This clip is filled with a lot of [...]

Jun 292013
 
Talking About Porn: For the Women

 Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan use this clip to model an example of how a woman might tell her husband about her interest in porn. They show how using non-judgmental and supportive language can help create more intimacy. They also stress that being open about your own insecurities is a key way to deal with [...]

Jun 252013
 
Easing Stress Together: The Relationship Triangle

 While the idea of “two becoming one” is romantic, Dr. Ruthie explains that it may not be the most stable way to nurture a relationship. Instead, she suggests a “triangle” made up of the two individuals and the relationship itself, with all being nurtured and supported together. This gives you a team to make it [...]

Jun 222013
 
DOs & DON'Ts when your Partner Gains Weight

 Kelly Shibari makes a very clear list of the right and wrong things to do and say when your partner is gaining weight. These can be more subtle than you’d think, including the fact that the issue should be faced together as partners. Kelly gives concrete communication tools as well so that you can be [...]

Jun 212013
 
Talking About Porn: For the Men

 Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan model the way a conversation might go between a man and a woman about porn. They talk about a lot of the concerns and the insecurities that can come from watching actors have sex, and also show how these concerns can be relieved by open communication and supportive, loving openness. [...]

Jun 122013
 
The Principles of Seduction, Part 2

 In the second installment of this three-part interview Arden Leigh, seduction coach and author of “The New Rules of Attraction”, talks about why women can and should develop their own version of “the Game” in order to get what they want out of a relationship. She addresses the ethics of seduction and why at it’s [...]

Jun 082013
 
Dating Your Spouse: Unresolved Emotions, Part 2

 Dr. Ruthie continues to explain how couples can work through difficulties such as power imbalances and respect and esteem issues. She gives some concrete tools such as the “Awesome/Appreciation” technique for couples to share at the end of the day.

May 042013
 
When One Partner Gains Weight

 In this clip Kelly Shibari tackles a tricky situation: how can a couple get through the awkwardness that sometimes occurs when one partner gains significant weight? She talks about how attraction and arousal can change (or not) and brings it back around to the idea of communication and honesty being the best way to strengthen [...]

Apr 212013
 
Spicing Up Your Long-Term Relationship, Part 2

 Building on the concepts of part 1, Jacq Jones illustrates how several different toys can be used specifically for male anatomy to spice up your sex. She also talks frankly about the need to share your fantasies and even the way you masturbate with each other, so that you can better understand the ways sexual [...]

Apr 212013
 
Spicing Up Your Long-Term Relationship, Part 1

 Jacq Jones offers a plethora of ideas for keeping the sexy magic going strong in your long-term relationship in part one of this series. As usual, it all starts with communication, but the way you tell your lover what you want can drastically improve your chances of making it happen. With ideas like the “compliment [...]

Apr 132013
 
Rediscover Lovemaking: After Having Children

Dr. Ruthie concludes her series on rediscovering that intimate connection with your spouse with this message: think of the children! That is, think about the example you set if you pretend that being a parent means that your sexuality is somehow shut off or absent. It’s a radical idea for today’s culture, but for most of [...]

Mar 292013
 
Sex Tips for Straight Women: Fucking

Jacq Jones has some practical pleasure tips for women who like penis-in-vagina intercourse. She talks about the finer points of fucking such as the angle of penetration, using lube and other toys, and also explains how changing a position can help solve a lot of the common problems that keep intercourse from being as good [...]

Mar 242013
 
Negotiating to Have Needs Met, Part 2

 In Part 2 of the series on getting your needs met through negotiation, Sabrina Morgan models a few of the ways that tools of communication can help decipher the needs that are masked by fears and vice versa. She gives concrete examples, as well as general principles, for improving the way you and your partner [...]

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