In this short clip Ducky answers a question she hears a lot: why is there sometimes a stabbing pain during intercourse? With the help of a diagram she explains how a strong thrust inside might be hitting the cervix during ovulation, and that can cause some discomfort. Of course she adds that the best way [...]
For many years Kim Airs, along with many other sex educators, has cautioned against the use of glycerine-based sexual lubricants. The thought was that glycerine was a sugar, and sugars cause all kinds of upset in the vagina. In this clip Kim lays out some science that might call that idea into question. What do [...]
In this clip, Shay gives advice on buying a bra that not only looks good but feels good – and usually the two go hand in hand. She explains why it’s worth it to go get professionally “sized” and how brands differ even when the numbers may be the same. Shay also talks about bra [...]
Stefanos shares what he went through when he had his vasectomy, from the initial consultation through the post-operative healing process. The actual operation took only a few minutes, but there were other things that he felt were very important to remember – such as ICE! and taking it easy for 48 hours afterwards. He also [...]
While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it [...]
Dr. Heather Howard discusses sexual addiction during this five-minute video. She first discusses addiction generally and then poses a few important questions for reflection regarding sexuality. Dr. Howard offers some examples of sexually compulsive behaviors and comments on such things as self-soothing, distress, treatment, and more.
Dr. Derek Andelloux continues to address the issues facing patients with erectile dysfunction in this eight-minute clip on various treatments. While it is always possible that the condition can be psychological, there are three methods of treatment that are usually taken, in order of severity. Dr. Andelloux explains the processes and risks involved, and discusses [...]
Having a busy day? That’s ok, this won’t take long. It’s just a quick sexy blog entry about one of the best ways to improve orgasms, increase intimacy, have hotter and longer sex with your partner and also help you live longer, happier, and more productive lives. Oh, so now you suddenly have time? Well, [...]
Dr. Derek Andelloux shares his expertise about various medications that can have side effects for your sex life. He talks in-depth about the various classes of medications known to have certain sexually-related results and describes some of the solutions to cope with them. Dr. Andelloux’s clear and friendly style help take the sting out of the [...]
Dr. Derek Andelloux discusses in this clip the facts and myths around testosterone treatments for men. He explains what the hormone does for the body and the reasons a physician might prescribe it. Dr. Andelloux also covers various methods of treatment and some of the side effects. This clip can’t tell you if you need [...]
Lady Cheeky helps plus-sized women get better in touch with their “pleasure zones” in this video. She talks about how you can learn to feel more positively about your body, to the point of being able to walk around naked and have your lover enjoy all of you as a whole individual. Lady Cheeky explains [...]
Dr. Jenn talks about the three main parts of mindfulness in this clip: awareness, acceptance, and action. As she lays out just what each entails, she cautions you that becoming more mindful about anything, including sex, may not be fun at first – but she also explains why in the long run it is more [...]
Dr. Heather Howard discusses communication about sexually transmitted infections during this six-minute video. She recognizes that the conversation may not be an easy one, but she suggests various ways to prepare for – and know when to have – it. Dr. Howard also notes some statistics, perspectives on protection and risk reduction, and methods of [...]
Dr. Heather Howard recommends ways to reduce sexual pain during this four-minute, part-one video. She outlines her series by stating the four Ps: prepare, protect, position, and pleasure. Dr. Howard focuses primarily on preparation – offering dozens of techniques – in this clip, and continues her suggestions in her upcoming clips.
Dr. Heather Howard tackles the sometimes scary subject of erectile difficulty for men in this clip. She outlines what kinds of problems actually fall into the realm of E.D. and suggests several possible avenues to look for solutions. As always, while Dr. Howard is a clinical sexologist, only your own physician can know for sure [...]
Scotty continues his reflections on sensational safer sex during this five-minute video. He offers various practical and simple ways to prepare for an “away game,” or take your safer sex supplies on the go. He notes the essentials, suggests storage tips (and underscores where not to keep items), and recommends some creative shopping too. Stay [...]
Dr. Derek Andelloux introduces and explains a common problem among men: erectile dysfunction. After clarifying exactly when it is and isn’t a problem, he goes on to discuss some of the various physical and psychological causes. It all comes down to consulting a physician. However, in an upcoming clip, Dr. Andelloux will discuss some of the [...]
Pamela Madsen explains the field of therapeutic sex work in this clip. She explains how there is a professional association of certified sexological bodyworkers who can help women achieve their personal sexual goals. Pamela not only gives several resources but also describes what happens in these safe, consensual healing spaces.