Mar 102015
 
Does Penis Size Matter?

It’s both a big joke and also the most common insecurity for males in just about any culture. Ancient ukioy-e prints from Edo-era Japan show men with giant members, while the statue of David by Michelangelo has a tiny and almost withdrawn flaccid organ. Women can deflate the most bombastic man by just holding up […]

Sep 272014
 
Sexual Trauma: Supporting a Survivor
This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual Trauma

This entry is part 2 of 2 in the series Sexual TraumaIf your partner has had sexual trauma, what is the best way to support them? That’s what Ashley Manta tackles in this clip, starting with her own experience of not-so-supportive family members. She outlines more constructive strategies for giving partners what they need – […]

Sep 202014
 
Sexual Trauma: A Personal Experience
This entry is part 1 of 2 in the series Sexual Trauma

This entry is part 1 of 2 in the series Sexual TraumaIn this clip Ashley Manta shares her own past experiences of being molested and raped. It is a disturbing and important testimonial because she also shares how she moved past it. Ashley talks about both the internal struggles and the external reclaiming of her […]

Sep 192014
 
Body Image Part 3: What We Like About Each Other

This clip takes the body image topic in a more positive direction, as Graydancer and Poetic tell each other what parts of each other’s bodies they find sexy and beautiful. They are surprised by some of the results, and talk about how it feels to be this open and vulnerable with each other.

Sep 162014
 
Body Image Part 2: What Poetic Doesn't Like

Now it’s Poetic’s turn to talk about her self-image and the parts of her body that make her feel self-conscious. She matter-of-factly talks about herself from head-to-toe in this psychologically demanding exercise.

Sep 052014
 
Body Image Part 1: What Gray Doesn't Like

This three-part series is an exercise in self-awareness that Graydancer and Poetic created in an unrehearsed shoot. This first part shows Gray talking bluntly about the parts of his body that he is sensitive about. Top to bottom he talks about what things make him feel unattractive and why. In part two Poetic does the […]

Aug 232014
 
Bacterial Vaginosis

Megan Andelloux introduces bacterial vaginosis during this seven-minute video. She defines “BV” and then discusses the two main causes as well as several additional causes. Megan describes the symptoms of BV (and chronic BV) as well as the medical treatment options. She also recommends concrete ways to prevent bacterial vaginosis.

Aug 032014
 
Body Image & Feeling Sexy

“The mirror is a sneaky little fucker,” Ivy Miller tells us in this clip. She is talking about how we are often our own worst enemy when it comes to feeling sexy about our body’s. Ivy opens up about her own struggles with self-awareness of her body, and some of the ways she has managed […]

Jul 302014
 
Bruising Concerns

 Shay (with some enthusiastic manhandling help from Stefanos) explains what goes on with your body when your happy spanking, roughhousing, or just enthusiastic sex leads to contusions that mark the skin. She also shares the magic of RICE for curing what ails you, and encourages you to be careful but not stop the fun!

Jul 152014
 
The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion – Part 4

Anita Wagner completes her four-part series on sex addiction/compulsion with this four-minute video. She mostly discusses the role of the internet as it relates to sexual addiction and compulsion. Anita also suggests healthy personal and communal supports for anyone affected by sexual addiction and compulsion.

Jul 052014
 
The Shadow Side of Eros: Sex Addiction/Compulsion - Part 3

Anita Wagner continues her series on sex addiction and compulsion with this part-three, eight-minute video. In this video she provides a straightforward reflection on what it is like to be the partner of a sex addict/compulsive. Anita discusses the many ways that a partner may respond to the difficulties, and she suggests ways that may […]

Jun 242014
 
Living with an STI: Talking with a Prospective Partner
This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Living with an STI

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Living with an STIOne of the hardest parts of dealing with sexually transmitted infections is telling your partner about it. Ashley Manta tells about the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of communicating this vital information with her partners. She also lays out a […]

Jun 202014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Female Sexual Dysfunction
This entry is part 6 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 6 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingNow that she’s covered so many useful terms, Ducky uses this clip to talk about one that’s just made up: Female Sexual Dysfunction. She explains how this phrase has been created by pharmaceutical companies as a way to market pills. Ducky, on the other […]

Jun 062014
 
Living with an STI: Working Through Personal Shame
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Living with an STI

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Living with an STIIn this clip Ashley Manta talks more about her experience of contracting HSV-2 (genital herpes). She explains how it affected her sex life and dating life, and how it got better once she opened up about it. Refusing to accept the stigma […]

May 312014
 
Living with an STI: An Introduction
This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Living with an STI

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Living with an STIAshley Manta talks in this clip about the reality of living with a sexually transmitted infection. She briefly covers some very real statistics, but the focus of the series is about the feeling and process of dealing with being part of those […]

Apr 032014
 
Body Confidence: Think Sexy

In part 2, Dylan and Andre discuss how body image issues can affect how you feel about yourself sexually. They describe several techniques such as mantras and “becoming the story you want to be” to get the groove back and feel sexy and hot when you want to.

Mar 282014
 
Bra Tips for Assymetrical Breasts

It’s very common for one breast to be a different size than the other, and that can make it difficult to find a bra that really fits well. Shay knows this situation quite well, and gives some suggestions for both your body and for your bra that can make things fit much more comfortably.

Mar 162014
 
Body Confidence: Health

Andre Shakti and Dylan Ryan kick off a series of clips about dealing with body image issues. Everyone deals with it in some form, and they discuss both what kind of problems can arise and also about how you can deal with them. This particular clip addresses health.

Mar 152014
 
Sex After a Vasectomy

Wondering if there’s any difference before and after a vasectomy in terms of how sex feels? Stefanos frankly goes over his own experience, with some additional feedback from his wife Shay. They talk about the physical changes (if any) including the way ejaculate may change. Stefanos also talks about what he’s heard from other men […]

Mar 022014
 
Girl Gasm: Pain During Intercourse

In this short clip Ducky answers a question she hears a lot: why is there sometimes a stabbing pain during intercourse? With the help of a diagram she explains how a strong thrust inside might be hitting the cervix during ovulation, and that can cause some discomfort. Of course she adds that the best way […]

Jan 312014
 
Glycerine is Not a Sugar: The Sticky Situation of Lubricants

For many years Kim Airs, along with many other sex educators, has cautioned against the use of glycerine-based sexual lubricants. The thought was that glycerine was a sugar, and sugars cause all kinds of upset in the vagina. In this clip Kim lays out some science that might call that idea into question. What do […]

Jan 252014
 
Tips for Buying Bras

In this clip, Shay gives advice on buying a bra that not only looks good but feels good – and usually the two go hand in hand. She explains why it’s worth it to go get professionally “sized” and how brands differ even when the numbers may be the same. Shay also talks about bra […]

Dec 272013
 
A Personal Experience of a Vasectomy

Stefanos shares what he went through when he had his vasectomy, from the initial consultation through the post-operative healing process. The actual operation took only a few minutes, but there were other things that he felt were very important to remember – such as ICE! and taking it easy for 48 hours afterwards. He also […]

Dec 102013
 
Possible Health Benefits of Prostate Massage

While there haven’t been clinical studies, there is a lot of anecdotal evidence of benefits from prostate massage. Dr. Charlie Glickman explains some of the reported good things that came from this practice. Of course you should always consult your personal physician if there are problems relating to your own health. Meanwhile, though, isn’t it […]