Whether it’s massage, foreplay, or flat-out sexual intercourse, Stefanos and Shay have a strategy to share with you: take it easy! They point out (and demonstrate) that if you start out at the top of your game you have nowhere to go, whereas starting with subtle methods can give you a chance to adjust to [...]
Stefanos & Shay demonstrate in this clip how you can give your lover feedback during the act of sex in a hot and arousing way. “Talking Dirty” might seem a little difficult or awkward at first, but with a little practice it not only can get you more of what you want, it becomes a [...]
Stefanos and Shay give the other side of the fine art of face-fucking in this clip. Shay describes how she modifies her grip to her preference while still enjoying the sloppy-blowjob feeling, and also shows how she adds sound and movement to heighten the sensation for both of them. Stefanos also chimes in to talk [...]
Stefanos and Shay demonstrate how a couple can incorporate the fantasy of control into good old fashioned fellatio. Stefanos talks about how he communicates with Shay as she’s sucking his cock, and she shows how even with a mouth full she can let him know where she’s at as well. This is a great primer [...]
While the videos here at PassionateU are wonderful, sometimes you want to be able to raise your hand and talk back to the teacher. Shay and Stefanos are here to let you know that you can do just that if you find your local sex toy shoppe – places like Good Vibrations in San Francisco [...]
Shay talks in this clip about what to do when the man’s erection isn’t cooperating with your lovemaking plans. She talks about specific techniques like oral sex, but she and Stefanos emphasize that the most effective tool may be your mind. Change the focus of your sex, even redefine the concept entirely, and that can [...]
Shay and Stefanos draw on their experience in the adult industry to talk about how body language is important in communicating pleasure to your partner. Learning how to read the subtle – and not-so-subtle – cues for arousal can help you learn to be a better lover. Plus, knowing when to amplify – not fake [...]
Stefanos and Shay talk about one of the most common and least-talked-about questions in sexual relationships: when are you “done” having sex? Is it when both have an orgasm? Or when both are just too tired to continue? The answer, as usual, is “communication”. This happy couple explain some of the ways to make that [...]
Shay talks about how to better enjoy oral sex as a woman. She addresses the kinds of stigmas and rumors that can make a woman nervous about cunnilingus and how to find ways around them. She also demonstrates ways that you can “shape” your partner’s technique so as to make it even more pleasurable for [...]
In the final video of her shaving series, Shay goes more in depth into common problems with shaving women’s pussies. From varieties of skin irritation to the simple first aid needed for cuts, she offers explanations and solutions from both a medical perspective and also the fun of the simple solution of “going commando.” In [...]
Shay invites you into her bedroom for a discussion about the many elements that contribute to a sensual environment for sex. She goes over the basic layout and decor in terms of both style and function, then goes through ways that you can create your own love nest by taking each sense one-by-one and finding [...]
Shay, a former shy person herself, gives solid ideas for how to overcome the fear of meeting people and become more involved in your social circle. She explains many of the fears that she had and how (with the help of her Mom) she got through it, using goal setting and the “fake it til [...]
Shay continues her series on shaving women with a thorough demonstration of shaving her own pubic area. She discusses selecting blades and other shaving materials before demonstrating the actual technique for removing the hair. With a sure hand, Shay covers the parts of the body to be careful of, such as the labia, and even [...]
Shay discusses feminine hygiene during this seven-minute video. She covers female anatomy and recommends the most effective and safest normal self-care techniques from from clitoris to anus. Shay strongly discourages douching – and explains why – and offers a few other specific tips to keep your genitals healthy and happy!
Shay continues her series on sensual showering as a couple during this six-minute video. With the help of her partner Gabriel she demonstrates and discusses many ways to begin your sexy shower time: from compromising on water temperature to exploring your partner’s entire body. Shay also comments on sensation play, washing, lubrication, and more. She [...]
Shay shows how to get your partner to masturbate for you during this four-minute video. She starts with what not to do and then demonstrates effective techniques both to encourage your partner and subtly to observe how your partner self pleasures. Shay offers tips on body contact, lubrication, dirty talk, location, and more.