In part 3 of his series on how to be an “responsible slut” (that is, someone who manages the emotional side of playing around with others sexually) Reid explains why unprotected sex is a bad idea for sluts. Outside of pregnancy and STI’s, leaving biological traces of yourself on others is a way to really [...]
Reid is back with more suggestions for how to manage the emotions that can come along with being a “slut” – that is, unashamedly enthusiastic about sex. Just because you’re a slut doesn’t mean that you are immune to the same kinds of brain chemistry that everyone else has. However, he gives some suggestions about [...]
Reid Mihalko begins his discussion on tips for sluts – to help reduce emotional drama and upset – during this six-minute, part-one video. He suggests group sexual activities, carefully designed one-on-one experiences, clear communication, and more. Stay tuned for additional insights in Reid’s upcoming clips.
Reid Mihalko reflects on jealousy during this five-minute video. He suggests eight considerations – such as insecurity, loneliness, fairness, etc. – to help understand your own experience of jealousy. Reid also compares jealousy and envy and offers a host of additional resources on understanding jealousy.
Reid Mihalko discusses New Relationship Energy (NRE) during this four-minute video. He reflects on NRE from the vantage points of those who are falling in love and also of those who are witnessing others fall in love. Reid covers brain chemistry, emotions, communication and more as he offers various tips for all persons touched by [...]
Reid Mihalko discusses receptive sex for men during this four-minute video. He shares some of his personal story to encourage healthy, empowered, and safe sexual exploration. Reid comments on likes/dislikes, pleasure, fun, masculinity, and how such things are related to sexual identity and orientation.
Reid Mihalko continues his series on sexual ergodynamics with this five-minute demonstration. He shows various hand-fucking techniques meant to provide stability and increased stamina – so that you can give even more pleasure to your partner(s)! Reid gives pointers on posture, power, position, leverage, speed, strength, and more.
Reid Mihalko continues his series on sexual ergodynamics with a focus on cunnilingus during this five-minute video. He offers very practical tips – different twists, turns and muscle uses – to help ease the stress on one’s neck and jaw muscles during oral sex. Throughout the video Reid discusses anatomy and tantra too.
Reid Mihalko discusses and demonstrates the full-body kiss – by emphasizing pressure – during this five-minute video. With the help of Vanessa, Reid shows how to augment your make-outs with several different techniques and positions. Stay tuned for more on the full-body kiss as well. Next up, positions.
Reid Mihalko demonstrates how to deep throat during this energetic seven-minute video. He proposes one simple technique that has proven successful for many. Reid explains how to breathe, ready your throat muscles, and control your gag reflex. He also offers a multitude of tips from when to breathe to the natural bodily reactions to deep [...]
Reid Mihalko continues his series on threesomes with this five-minute video. He starts by noting the two greatest struggles for threesomes, and then addresses the first one. Reid offers a very simple, straightforward approach to help get the ideas and activities going. Be the change you want to be in the bedroom! Stay tuned for [...]
In this segment of his series on Energetic Sex, Reid Mihalko goes into greater detail on the sanskrit-rooted vocabulary most commonly used to describe energetic sex. With a healthy dose of humor and skepticism, Reid will take you through terms such as “Kundalini,” or life energy (sometimes represented by a coiled snake asleep at the [...]
Threesomes can be hot! Threesomes can be exciting! Threesomes can be…complicated…. In this video, Reid Mihalko goes over some of the important considerations you might want to mull over before launching into bed with two other people. Do you want to play with two other people in your circle of friends, or have a casual [...]