May 202014
Communicating About Sex & Trauma

Kitty Stryker talks very seriously about the difficulties that survivors of sexual trauma can have talking about their experience. She covers concepts such as triggers, nonverbal consent, and the ways that two people can find a place of shared understanding and pleasure.

Apr 272014
Practical Examples of Mixing Kinky Play with Sex, Part 2

Kitty Stryker continues to give examples of how common fetishes like dominance, submission, and public play can become a part of your life in this second part of the video series. She also explains how the key is getting ideas for yourself and recommends a few different ways to not only come up with ideas but […]

Mar 252014
Ideas for Aftercare

 Kitty Stryker covers aftercare during this four-minute video. She discusses various aspects of aftercare: the logistics, different desires, necessities, communication/negotiation, and more. Kitty offers many practical tips to help improve your post-sexual experiences with your partner(s).

Jan 212014
Practical Examples of Mixing Kinky Play with Sex, Part 1

Kitty Stryker takes kink out of the realm of fantasy and describes ways you can bring it into your relationships in this first of a two-part video series. She describes several common fantasies such as foot and shoe fetish, spanking, or bondage and puts a realistic twist on them, showing how easy it is to […]

Jan 042014
Verbal Consent: While You Play

 Kitty Stryker talks about ways you can use words to create consensual situations even when in the middle of it all. Using strategies like “non-attachment to outcome” and creative thinking you can respect limits and boundaries but still have a fun, hot time with your partner.

Oct 242013
Talking to Your Partner About Kink: Don't

Kitty Stryker begins her reflections on discussing kink with your partner(s) during this six-minute video. She underscores how NOT to talk about kink and recommends ways to help make your conversations safer, easier, and more effective. Kitty shares additional insights – the do’s – in her upcoming clip.

Sep 142013
Talking to Your Partner About Kink: Do

Having covered what not to do in a previous video, Kitty Stryker now suggests ways to talk with your partner about your kink during this nine-minute video. She covers approach, attitude, honesty, exploration, and compromise; as well as the many options available to experience your fantasies.

Aug 112013
Male Sexual Trauma

 Kitty Stryker discusses male sexual trauma during this three-minute video. She first comments on gender and then covers some of the common difficulties for male-bodied persons with sexual trauma history. Kitty also recommends what you can do to help your partner(s) feel safer.

Jul 242013
Verbal Consent: Non-Verbal Consent

It can be hard to figure out how body language and physical cues affirm or deny the creation of consent. Kitty Stryker explains how to navigate this gray area more effectively by being sensitive to each other and also not being afraid to ask when in doubt. This clip is filled with a lot of […]

Feb 122013
Safer Sex for Cunnilingus - Part 2

Kitty Stryker and Penny Barber continue their series on safer sex for cunnilingus during this five-minute, part-two video. They describe various practical safer sex methods for oral sex as well as harm reduction strategies for those who cannot or do not want to use barriers. Be sure to view Kitty and Penny’s cunnilingus demonstrations too.

Jan 242013
Plus Size Sex: Positions - Part 1

Kitty Stryker continues her series on plus size sex during this five-minute, part-one video. With the help of Mike, Kitty shows different variations of the missionary position during this clip. She also introduces some basic tools and furniture to increase comfort during sex. Stay tuned for much more in part two.

Jan 012013
Safer Sex for Cunnilingus - Part 1

Kitty Stryker and Penny Barber begin their discussion on safer sex for cunnilingus during this four-minute, part-one video. They initially highlight both personal attitudes about female genitalia and preferable anatomical terminology. Kitty and Penny recommend communication, negotiation, and awareness of the health risks of cunnilingus. Stay tuned for more in part two.

Nov 242012
Cunnilingus Positions

Penny Barber and Kitty Stryker demonstrate different positions for cunnilingus during this three-minute video. They show several sexy positions, note their benefits, and highlight variations as well.

Oct 202012
Plus Size Sex: Strap On - Part 2

Kitty Stryker completes her brief series on strap-on sex for those who identify as curvy, plus size, or BBW during this six-minute, part-two video. She shows off two particular harnesses and then discusses dildo sizes to help make your strap-on sex even more fun and enjoyable.

Sep 182012
Plus Size Sex: Strap On - Part 1

Kitty Stryker introduces strap-on sex for those who identify as curvy, plus size, or BBW during this four-minute, part-one video. She begins with some reasons why one may use a strap-on harness and then shows off one particular harness, noting its many beneficial features. Kitty demonstrates the use of two more harnesses in part two.

Sep 042012
Plus-Size Sex: Lingerie & Dressing Sexy

Kitty Stryker continues her series on plus-size sex during this eight-minute video. She demonstrates various types of lingerie – along with their pros and cons – for everyone from beginners to the more advanced and also discusses body image, shopping, sizes, comfort, confidence, and more.

Aug 162012
Introduction to Plus-Size Sex

Kitty Stryker introduces her experience of plus-size sex during this four-minute video. She touches on a wide variety of topics such as terminology, anatomy, attraction, objectification, acceptance, societal pressure, communication, and more. Kitty continues her reflections on plus-size sex in upcoming clips.

Jul 262012
Verbal Consent: Negotiation

Kitty Stryker continues her reflections on verbal consent during this six-minute video. She suggests creative and supportive ways to have important conversations about such topics as safer sex and past sexual experience. Kitty also recommends fun ways to share desires and fantasies. More to come in her upcoming clips.

Jun 172012
When Your Partner Has a Sexual Trauma History

Kitty Stryker discusses important considerations for the partner of a person with a sexual trauma history during this seven-minute video. Among other things, she covers consent, expectations, and communication (methods, locations, etc.) as well as nonverbal signs of problems and potential ways to engage your partner(s) safely and sensually.

Jun 102012
Oral Sex: Use Your Face! - Part 1

Kitty Stryker and Penny Barber discuss and demonstrate oral sex during this four-minute, part-one video. They suggest and show many different creative ways to have fun and increase sensations for both the giver and the receiver of oral sex. Stay tuned for more in part two.

Apr 212012
Verbal Consent: First Encounters

Kitty Stryker discusses negotiation and consent during this five-minute video. She recommends fun, flirtatious, and sexy ways both to move your chit-chat to pillow talk and cultivate a consent culture. She shares personal experiences and other ideas on tone of voice and body language as well as positive ways to respond to affirmative and negative […]

Apr 072012
Breast Play: Sensations - Part 2

Penny Barber and Kitty Stryker complete their demonstration of breast play sensations during this four-minute, part-two video. They primarily show various creative ways to do safe temperature play, but Penny and Kitty also include a few other activities and their accompanying enjoyable sensations. Stay tuned for much more on breast play in their future clips.

Apr 012012
Breast Play: Sensations - Part 1

Penny Barber and Kitty Stryker cover some breast play sensations during this five-minute, part-one video. They start by highlighting the aesthetics of and many different sensations from the use of feathers and then show ways to use clothespins for sensation (and not pain) play. Stay tuned for more breast play, worship, and sensations in part […]

Mar 252012
Sensual Touch for the Body: The Lower Body

Kitty Stryker completes her series on sensual touch with this seven-minute video. She focuses on the lower body – especially between the waist and knees – by highlighting areas and ways to touch your partner(s). Kitty shares numerous creative ideas to increase pleasure and intimacy, and Mike offers his experience of some of her ideas.





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