Dec 192013
 
Masturbating with the Hello Touch

Kelly Shibari has a new favorite toy! The “Hello Touch” from Jimmy Jane has two vibrating pads that go on the fingers, and Kelly shows the many advantages to having that much flexibility. She talks about using it on her partner as well as herself, and demonstrates a few different positions and techniques for using […]

Oct 192013
 
Exploring Touch: Nipples

Lady Cheeky & Kelly Shibari are happy to continue their exploration of the sensual body by discussing nipple stimulation. The arousal factor of the nipple can change a lot as a body changes due to age, and you can go from orgasming from breast stimulation alone to not wanting any touch there at all, or […]

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Sep 202013
 
Positions for Plus-Size Sex

 Kelly Shibari talks about the more practical aspects of plus-size sex in this clip. She explains how once again communication is key, but this time it’s about how your body works and what it is that turns you on. Don’t like missionary position? Tell your partner! Then you can try things like doggy-style or sideways […]

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Sep 082013
 
Exploring Touch: Genitals

Lady Cheeky and Kelly Shibari continue their demonstration of sensual self-touch by moving to the genitals. Kelly applies lotion generously to her legs, moving up to the vulva where she explores the pleasures she gets from touching herself there. They talk about how age, weight, and just plain differences in clitorises, labia, and other parts […]

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Aug 022013
 
Exploring Touch: Skin

Lady Cheeky, with the help of Kelly Shibari, talks about exploring your own body surfaces to discover what kinds of sensations you like. She recommends several oils, lubes, as well as sex toys of various kinds to really get into a variety of pleasurable feelings. This practice can help you communicate with your partner later […]

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Jun 222013
 
DOs & DON'Ts when your Partner Gains Weight

 Kelly Shibari makes a very clear list of the right and wrong things to do and say when your partner is gaining weight. These can be more subtle than you’d think, including the fact that the issue should be faced together as partners. Kelly gives concrete communication tools as well so that you can be […]

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May 042013
 
When One Partner Gains Weight

 In this clip Kelly Shibari tackles a tricky situation: how can a couple get through the awkwardness that sometimes occurs when one partner gains significant weight? She talks about how attraction and arousal can change (or not) and brings it back around to the idea of communication and honesty being the best way to strengthen […]

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Apr 202013
 
Expressing Yourself as a Plus-Size Person

 Kelly Shibari goes deeper into the language and feelings of plus-size sexuality. She focuses on the ways that larger people can communicate their comfort levels and desires with their partners, and how to give constructive feedback when a correction might be needed. Her friendly and open style of teaching makes this touchy subject accessible for […]

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Mar 212013
 
Language in Plus-Size Relationships

Kelly Shibari explains how the language you use in relationships with plus-size women (and, to some extent, men) can be triggering if done poorly. Some people are fine with words like “fat” and “chubby”, but not everyone. She recommends some alternatives (like the comedic “fluffy”) and also stresses that it’s important to interact with people […]

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