As she works on her upcoming book, Miss Jaiya is living 40 days as a dominant with her partner and 40 days as a submissive. They are exploring the various skills, experiences, and lessons learned through this experience, and using it to create a new book. You can learn about some of her conclusions right […]
Now that she’s covered loosening up and sensitizing the outside of the anus, Jaiya talks about how to take the next step. With the help of some lube and a lot of relaxation, you can open up both the inner and outer sphincter and use the opening to massage the prostate or g-spot of your […]
Jaiya has some suggestions for simple ways to improve your pleasure during penetrative sex…and all of them are pillows! With some simple stacking techniques you can adjust the “biomechanics” of sex so that both partners get more stimulation in all the right places. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or […]
It’s entirely possible for men to have non-ejaculatory orgasms! Jaiya has interviewed many men who have mastered this technique, and in this clip she outlines exactly how. It takes practice, relaxation, muscle control, and lots and lots of practice – but the rewards, Jaiya assures, are worth it! This text is available for purchase but […]
Jaiya goes over the first of her two anal massage clips by talking about how to warm up and pleasure the external anal sphincter. She talks about why this is a great source of pleasure regardless of sex and then shows several techniques for fingers and hands. Jaiya also talks frankly about the need for […]
Jaiya, author of “Red Hot Touch”, uses this clip to give a thorough introduction to the idea of touch for sensuality. She uses the massage concept of “layers of palpation” and demonstrates how each can change the mood of the touch. She gives recommendations for figuring out what your partner likes, and gets you set […]
Jaiya goes over some techniques for bringing pleasure to men’s genitals in this clip. She explains that the misconception that “men are easy” can let couples miss out on the many different sensations available on the shaft and balls. While showing the specific movements, Jaiya also goes over how the action can be pleasurable for […]
In this clip, Miss Jaiya explains that there are four common reasons why that latest Cosmo tip isn’t working. She covers biochemistry, biomechanics, your psyche, and also scar tissue from past trauma. Aside from examples, she also describes ways to turn these obstacles into pathways to greater pleasure. This text is available for purchase but […]
Sex educator Jaiya takes the time to talk in-depth about female ejaculation in this clip. She explores what it is, where it comes from, how to make it happen (or if you even want to) as well as some of the toys and techniques she’s found useful in her own sex life. This text is […]
Jaiya explains how to use the “pleasure wave” technique to improve your sexual experience. She talks about how the body’s neurochemicals – especially dopamine, prolactin, and oxytocin – can be regulated with specific sensual and sexual methods. This text is available for purchase but you need to login or register first.
Jaiya recommends you SLAB – that is, have a Sex Lab – at least once a week. It’s a time to explore and experiment with different aspects of your sexuality. She recommends videos, books, or just your imagination – but explains that it’s different than “making love” time. Jaiya lays out how to add this […]
Jaiya shows off her “Red Hot Touch” as she explains how massage can bring amazing pleasure to the female genitals. She goes over several techniques and also talks about pacing and how to move from the outside to the inside as you work to pleasure the labia, the clitoris, and the vaginal canal. This text […]
Fingering a clit is a fine art, and Miss Jaiya has a great technique for figuring out exactly what will bring your woman closer to orgasm. Give her choices – “this or that?” and bit by bit you’ll both figure out the best moves for maximum pleasure. This text is available for purchase but you […]
Jaiya expands on her framework of “sexual types” in this clip, talking about how the types mix and match. Sometimes this leads people to feel they are incompatible, but Jaiya explains how with a few minor changes you can find a shared place of hot arousal and connection. This text is available for purchase but […]
Jaiya uses this clip to start explaining the theory of “sex types” – different ways people are wired for arousal. You may be energetic, sensual, sexual, or kinky, and your partner may be something totally different. In upcoming clips she’ll explain how you can find the compatibilities to keep things hot.