While it’s not unique to monogamy, cheating can be an incredibly destructive force that is all too common. Jacq Jones lays out some of the ways that the damage can be minimized. She talks about techniques of communication as well as the things to ask each other about the why and what of cheating, as well as some [...]
Jacq addresses the one key ingredient that differentiates 50 Shades-type sex from abuse, and that is consent. She talks about how consent is created through negotiation and how it can change as people experience things together. She recommends working towards “radical consent”, that whole-hearted enthusiastic “yes!” to trying out this kind of play in the [...]
Building on the concepts of part 1, Jacq Jones illustrates how several different toys can be used specifically for male anatomy to spice up your sex. She also talks frankly about the need to share your fantasies and even the way you masturbate with each other, so that you can better understand the ways sexual [...]
Jacq Jones offers a plethora of ideas for keeping the sexy magic going strong in your long-term relationship in part one of this series. As usual, it all starts with communication, but the way you tell your lover what you want can drastically improve your chances of making it happen. With ideas like the “compliment [...]
Jacq Jones has some practical pleasure tips for women who like penis-in-vagina intercourse. She talks about the finer points of fucking such as the angle of penetration, using lube and other toys, and also explains how changing a position can help solve a lot of the common problems that keep intercourse from being as good [...]
Jacq Jones dispels the myth that porn watching is an unhealthy sign in a relationship. While there may be some concerns – such as when it hinders communication or fosters secrecy – pornography can also simply be a healthy part of a person’s fantasy and masturbatory life. Jacq also has some suggestions for how to find [...]
Jacq Jones of Sugar in Baltimore gives some very practical advice for keeping the passion alive in long term relationships. Identifying the things that bring people together in the first place, the fun sexy “new-relationship-energy”, she points out practical methods for re-igniting that feeling. Jacq emphasizes the necessity for things like one-on-one “fun” time, focus, [...]
If your relationship seems to be stuck in a rut, Jacq Jones is here to recommend a “Discovery Date” to bring some playfulness and a spirit of experimentation to the bedroom. Whether you’re curious about something you just read in an erotica story or want to use the “Discovery Date Form” to try some new [...]
Jacq Jones begins a series that explores the various sexual techniques used in the wildly popular “50 Shades” series with the most important question: What parts of the book should stay fantasy, and what can become a real part of your sex life? Jacq describes how to evaluate your own desires and also the best [...]
This is the clip where Jacq Jones reveals the “magic button” for great sex: communication. However, while it’s magic, it’s not easy. So Jacq takes the time to give some examples and techniques of how to both figure out what your partner wants and also how to let him know what you need for a happy [...]
Jacq Jones doesn’t subscribe to the idea that sex has to die out in a long-term committed relationship. In fact, she shares several ideas here for keeping it hotter than ever, through connection, open desire, and an exploratory attitude that the two of you can share. See how her ideas can help you heat up [...]
Jacq Jones continues her series of sexy techniques for straight couples with some tips for cunnilingus. The first thing: forget everything porn shows you about pussy licking. With that out of the way, Jacq demonstrates a wide variety of techniques and sensations with the help of her vulva puppet. Watch the video and you’ll be well [...]
Jacq Jones from Sugar the Shop in Baltimore gives some blowjob tips to straight women, starting with the most important factor: enthusiasm! If you don’t want to give a blowjob, then don’t – but if you do, she has several different techniques from adding lube to special tonguing methods that can take your oral sex [...]
Monogamy is not the end of sex, says Jacq Jones, it’s a chance to make it even better. Coming from Sugar the Shop, this sex educator and purveyor of sex toys explains the many benefits of being exclusive in your sexual relationships, from the pragmatics of safer sex to the deeper levels of trust and intimacy that can [...]
Jacq Jones gives couples advice on how to keep the excitement of dating during a long-term relationship. She starts with the essentials like prioritizing time and gives many examples of ways to let your partner know that they are important. Throughout the tips and suggestions Jacq emphasizes that it’s not important what you do or [...]
Jacq Jones takes you on a tour of the workings of ben-wa balls, a classic sex toy recently made popular by the book “Fifty Shades of Grey.” With a detailed description of the materials used and the way the balls work inside the body, Jacq makes it clear that for some people the addition of [...]
In the second clip on monogamy Jacq Jones walks you through defining the terms of your monogamy. She identifies several areas that couples need to communicate and formulate acceptable compromises around, such as ex-lovers, porn, masturbation, alone time, and even when it’s ok to answer the phone! Jacq emphasizes that well-negotiated monogamy can be a [...]
Jacq Jones from SugarTheShack.com introduces the finer points of monogamy in this clip. While it is often the default relationship style chosen by couples, she illustrates how making it an active choice can enrich your connection with your partner. She also goes over several different interpretations of what monogamy means, from talking to friends and [...]
