Jul 172014
Frottage: Non-Penetrative Sex, Part 3
This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series FrottageIn Part 3 it’s Graydancer’s turn to focus on his pleasure. He shows how a little lube and Naiia laying face-down can lead to some really enjoyable sliding of his cock between her ass cheeks. Naiia talks about the pleasure she gets out of it [...]

Jul 122014
Non-Sexual Cuddling, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Non-Sexual Cuddling

This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingGraydancer and Poetic Desires demonstrate some of the finer points of cuddling when it’s for intimacy, not sex. Sometimes the closeness of cuddling gets overshadowed by awkward body mechanics, tiny discomforts, and even the idea that you might be “doing it wrong.” This series [...]

Jul 082014
Frottage: Non-Penetrative Sex Part 2
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series FrottageGraydancer and Naiia flip things around in this video and show how frottage works with the man on top. Again you get to see both the practical side of how to do this kind of subtle lovemaking as well as the very real effects for [...]

Jul 012014
Frottage, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series FrottageNaiia and Graydancer talk about the fine art of “frottage”-non-penetrative sex. They talk about why it can be necessary, but also why it’s just fun sometimes, and Naiia shows just how fun with an orgasmic demonstration!

May 102014
Sex in Cars, Part 3

In this segment Kim Airs of GrandOpening.com talks about parking structures. She covers everything from best parking practices to dealing with cameras. She also shares some more stories of her own “sex in a car” experiences.

Apr 132014
The First-Timer's Butt Plug

Graydancer and Naiia begin a series on anal play for couples by starting small – using a soft silicone version of . Gray begins with some soft sensation play, drawing on some of the techniques described by Ducky Doolittle and Jaiya here in other clips on PassionateU. Naiia takes the plug into her when she’s [...]

Apr 012014
The Sensual Blowjob, Part 2

As Naiia continues her sensual blowjob for Gray, the two of them talk (in voiceover) about the way the various techniques such as deep throat and long licks feel for both, with a few surprises for each other. Aside from showing off a variety of ways to use hands, tongue, lips and even teeth to [...]

Mar 212014
The Clit Ain't Always It (Inspired by Ducky Doolittle)

While the clitoris is a wondrous part of the body, there are times it gets too much attention. Inspired by the similarly-titled clip by Ducky Doolittle, Gray and Naiia demonstrate how different parts of the vulva can give different sensations. Gray also illustrates various techniques for finding and stimulating the right spot, while Naiia models [...]

Mar 082014
The Sensual Blowjob, Part 1

In part one of this long and explicit video Naiia shows her technique for giving slow and sensuous blowjobs. After she and Gray discuss the reasons to add this skill to the fellatio repertoire, they begin the demonstration, with a “DVD commentary”-style narration explaining exactly what she’s doing and how it feels for both of [...]

Mar 042014
Spontaneous Oral Sex Part 3: Tips & Tricks

In this final clip from the series Gray & Naiia use “reading” as a scenario to illustrate a few useful techniques when spontaneously enjoying fellatio. They talk about getting hair out of the way, safely undoing zippers, and more!

Feb 282014
Spontaneous Oral Sex: Blowjobs, Part 2

In this follow-up clip Gray & Naiia continue to demonstrate and talk about places around the house where you might have a sudden desire for fellatio. This clip covers both “watching TV” and the various aspects of sucking cock in the shower (both pros and cons). They end with some final thoughts about the whole [...]

Feb 212014
Spontaneous Oral Sex: Blowjobs, Part 1

Graydancer and Naiia return with a new series about one of their favorite subjects: oral sex! In this series of three segments they talk about ways to enjoy spontaneous blow jobs in various places in the home. They talk about preparation and techniques for taking care of awkward moments with hair and zippers and even [...]

Feb 082014
The 69 Position: Queening & Kinging

When you totally cover your partner’s face with your genitals it is called “queening” or “kinging” (depending on what gender you choose). Gray and Naiia talk about why they enjoy this experience, what kinds of things you can do while you’re doing it, and the few safety and comfort concerns that come along with the [...]

Dec 312013
The 69 Position: Body Mechanics Part 3 - Man on Top

In this clip Graydancer goes over the perspective of the man (or woman) on top when doing 69. He shows how to use the arms and hands to comfortably get access to your partner’s yummy bits, and also goes over a few things not to do as well.

Nov 282013
The 69 Position: Body Mechanics Part 2 - Switching & Tit Fucking

Graydancer and Naiia continue to show the fun of 69 with a quick and easy lesson in how to change your position from top to bottom (and vice versa). Naiia also gives some tips about sliding his cock between the breasts, regardless of size, for even more enjoyment for both.

Nov 022013
The 69 Position: Body Mechanics, Part 1 - Initiating

Graydancer and Naiia get back into the 69 groove by talking about how to avoid awkward “knee-to-the-head” moments and make your mutual oral satisfaction more graceful. They also demonstrate how communication and spontaneity can be part of the experience.

Aug 062013
The 69 Position: Safer Sex, Part 2

Naiia takes the lead in this fun continuation of safer sex practices as they apply to 69. She shows how to turn a condom into a dental dam, and then they both show some tricks that makes it even more useful for all kinds of 69 fun. Closing out with some quick information about risk [...]

Jul 252013
The 69 Position: Safer Sex, Part 1

Gray and Naiia talk about a more serious subject in this clip: safer sex practices in 69. They cover several of the ways to negotiate what you’re comfortable with, including choosing what kinds of supplies to try. Gray even shows a “sexy” way to put a condom on that he learned right here on PassionateU!

Jun 162013
The 69 Position: Hygiene

 One of the things about doing “69″ is that you get very up close and personal with your partner’s genitalia. Keeping your naughty bits clean can be a fun way to start things out. Graydancer and Naiia demonstrate just how much fun showering together can be before moving on to talk about soaps, perfumes, deodorant, [...]

Jun 072013
The 69 Position: Why?

 Graydancer and Naiia kick off a series of videos about the legendary “69″ position, where two partners can give each other oral sex simultaneously. With explicit demonstration and thorough enthusiasm, both of them give their perspectives on why the position is one of their favorites.

Oct 042012
Receiving a Blowjob Gracefully: From the Other Side

Naiia finishes off the series with Graydancer by providing some insight from the other side of the blowjob. She emphasizes the preference for feedback, whether enthusiastically positive or tactfully negative, and explains a few of her other preferences from her partner when giving a blowjob.

Sep 252012
Receiving Blowjobs Gracefully: Cum
This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Receiving Blowjobs Gracefully

This entry is part 8 of 8 in the series Receiving Blowjobs GracefullyGraydancer finishes off the series on improving blow jobs from the receiving end with a discussion of the good old money shot: what happens when you cum? He covers the various kinds of negotiations, preferences, and communications skills necessary to bring things to [...]

Sep 132012
Receiving Blowjobs Gracefully: Communicating
This entry is part 7 of 8 in the series Receiving Blowjobs Gracefully

This entry is part 7 of 8 in the series Receiving Blowjobs GracefullyGraydancer continues his series on how to gracefully receive blowjobs by demonstrating various methods with his demo model Naiia. From subtle body language cues to verbal and non-verbal sounds, he illustrates the importance of making sure you and your partner are on the [...]

Aug 252012
Tie 'Em Up & Fuck 'Em Harness Part 3

GrayDancer shows another way to incorporate bondage into your sex life during this six-minute video. He creates a reverse hogtie on Ten – exposing her for some great sex. Gray offers insights on positions, safety, mobility/immobility, and much more.





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