Aug 312014
Kissing Beyond the Lips, Part 1

There are a lot of clips about kissing on PassionateU, but this one is particularly about kissing parts of the body other than the lips. Gray and Poetic demonstrate and talk about the ways that consent and communication can make a good make out session even better.

Aug 292014
Double Blowjobs Part 2: Positions

In this clip Gray, Naiia, and Rita give a realistic perspective on how to try out various positions for a double blow jobs. No tricky porn-style editing – you get to see exactly how bodies move, and how communication happens. Gray also talks about a trick from Reid Mihalko, called “I have an idea!” that [...]

Aug 222014
Kissing Beyond the Lips Part 2

In this clip Poetic talks about various ways of kissing the male body, dealing with more body hair (especially beards). She also talks about little love-bites and using the tongue on the neck and face. Gray also discusses how you can deal with hickeys in a mature and adult manner.

Aug 162014
Double Blowjobs Part 1: Things to Consider

Graydancer joins Naiia and Rita to explore a common fantasy: two women giving one man oral sex. Before they get into the act, though, they talk openly about some of their internal feelings about what they’re about to do. Not surprisingly communication helps get past some of the barriers that can keep a threesome from [...]

Jul 242014
Non-Sexual Cuddling, Part 2

What happens when the outside partner’s arm is “trapped”? In this clip Gray demonstrates how some strategic pillowing can make for a more comfortable snuggle. He and Poetic also talk about how the finer details of the body position and hands can make all the difference.

Jul 172014
Frottage: Non-Penetrative Sex, Part 3
This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series FrottageIn Part 3 it’s Graydancer’s turn to focus on his pleasure. He shows how a little lube and Naiia laying face-down can lead to some really enjoyable sliding of his cock between her ass cheeks. Naiia talks about the pleasure she gets out of it [...]

Jul 122014
Non-Sexual Cuddling, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Non-Sexual Cuddling

This entry is part 1 of 1 in the series Non-Sexual CuddlingGraydancer and Poetic Desires demonstrate some of the finer points of cuddling when it’s for intimacy, not sex. Sometimes the closeness of cuddling gets overshadowed by awkward body mechanics, tiny discomforts, and even the idea that you might be “doing it wrong.” This series [...]

Jul 082014
Frottage: Non-Penetrative Sex Part 2
This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 2 of 3 in the series FrottageGraydancer and Naiia flip things around in this video and show how frottage works with the man on top. Again you get to see both the practical side of how to do this kind of subtle lovemaking as well as the very real effects for [...]

Jul 012014
Frottage, Part 1
This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series Frottage

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series FrottageNaiia and Graydancer talk about the fine art of “frottage”-non-penetrative sex. They talk about why it can be necessary, but also why it’s just fun sometimes, and Naiia shows just how fun with an orgasmic demonstration!

May 102014
Sex in Cars, Part 3

In this segment Kim Airs of talks about parking structures. She covers everything from best parking practices to dealing with cameras. She also shares some more stories of her own “sex in a car” experiences.

Apr 132014
The First-Timer's Butt Plug

Graydancer and Naiia begin a series on anal play for couples by starting small – using a soft silicone version of . Gray begins with some soft sensation play, drawing on some of the techniques described by Ducky Doolittle and Jaiya here in other clips on PassionateU. Naiia takes the plug into her when she’s [...]

Apr 012014
The Sensual Blowjob, Part 2

As Naiia continues her sensual blowjob for Gray, the two of them talk (in voiceover) about the way the various techniques such as deep throat and long licks feel for both, with a few surprises for each other. Aside from showing off a variety of ways to use hands, tongue, lips and even teeth to [...]

Mar 212014
The Clit Ain't Always It (Inspired by Ducky Doolittle)

While the clitoris is a wondrous part of the body, there are times it gets too much attention. Inspired by the similarly-titled clip by Ducky Doolittle, Gray and Naiia demonstrate how different parts of the vulva can give different sensations. Gray also illustrates various techniques for finding and stimulating the right spot, while Naiia models [...]

Mar 082014
The Sensual Blowjob, Part 1

In part one of this long and explicit video Naiia shows her technique for giving slow and sensuous blowjobs. After she and Gray discuss the reasons to add this skill to the fellatio repertoire, they begin the demonstration, with a “DVD commentary”-style narration explaining exactly what she’s doing and how it feels for both of [...]

Mar 042014
Spontaneous Oral Sex Part 3: Tips & Tricks

In this final clip from the series Gray & Naiia use “reading” as a scenario to illustrate a few useful techniques when spontaneously enjoying fellatio. They talk about getting hair out of the way, safely undoing zippers, and more!

Feb 282014
Spontaneous Oral Sex: Blowjobs, Part 2

In this follow-up clip Gray & Naiia continue to demonstrate and talk about places around the house where you might have a sudden desire for fellatio. This clip covers both “watching TV” and the various aspects of sucking cock in the shower (both pros and cons). They end with some final thoughts about the whole [...]

Feb 212014
Spontaneous Oral Sex: Blowjobs, Part 1

Graydancer and Naiia return with a new series about one of their favorite subjects: oral sex! In this series of three segments they talk about ways to enjoy spontaneous blow jobs in various places in the home. They talk about preparation and techniques for taking care of awkward moments with hair and zippers and even [...]

Feb 082014
The 69 Position: Queening & Kinging

When you totally cover your partner’s face with your genitals it is called “queening” or “kinging” (depending on what gender you choose). Gray and Naiia talk about why they enjoy this experience, what kinds of things you can do while you’re doing it, and the few safety and comfort concerns that come along with the [...]

Dec 312013
The 69 Position: Body Mechanics Part 3 - Man on Top

In this clip Graydancer goes over the perspective of the man (or woman) on top when doing 69. He shows how to use the arms and hands to comfortably get access to your partner’s yummy bits, and also goes over a few things not to do as well.

Nov 282013
The 69 Position: Body Mechanics Part 2 - Switching & Tit Fucking

Graydancer and Naiia continue to show the fun of 69 with a quick and easy lesson in how to change your position from top to bottom (and vice versa). Naiia also gives some tips about sliding his cock between the breasts, regardless of size, for even more enjoyment for both.

Nov 022013
The 69 Position: Body Mechanics, Part 1 - Initiating

Graydancer and Naiia get back into the 69 groove by talking about how to avoid awkward “knee-to-the-head” moments and make your mutual oral satisfaction more graceful. They also demonstrate how communication and spontaneity can be part of the experience.

Aug 062013
The 69 Position: Safer Sex, Part 2

Naiia takes the lead in this fun continuation of safer sex practices as they apply to 69. She shows how to turn a condom into a dental dam, and then they both show some tricks that makes it even more useful for all kinds of 69 fun. Closing out with some quick information about risk [...]

Jul 252013
The 69 Position: Safer Sex, Part 1

Gray and Naiia talk about a more serious subject in this clip: safer sex practices in 69. They cover several of the ways to negotiate what you’re comfortable with, including choosing what kinds of supplies to try. Gray even shows a “sexy” way to put a condom on that he learned right here on PassionateU!

Jun 162013
The 69 Position: Hygiene

 One of the things about doing “69″ is that you get very up close and personal with your partner’s genitalia. Keeping your naughty bits clean can be a fun way to start things out. Graydancer and Naiia demonstrate just how much fun showering together can be before moving on to talk about soaps, perfumes, deodorant, [...]





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