Apr 132015
 
Both Sides of the Blowjob Equation

Oral sex is a strange part of the sexual landscape; it’s both the punchline for jokes and the holy grail of intimacy. It can be a great way to have a quickie, a part of foreplay before other sex, or a long and sensual end unto itself. If there’s one thing you can get from […]

Oct 072014
 
Amp It Up: Orgasm From Penetration Alone
This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 10 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky starts this video by explaining that only about 20% of women can have an orgasm from penetration alone. At the same time it is one of the most common questions women ask her. She gives several suggestions about muscle control and exercises […]

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Oct 032014
 
Amp It Up: Spontaneity & Anticipation
This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 9 of 12 in the series Amp it UpAnticipation and spontaneity can juice up your sex life in surprising ways. Looking forward to your lover’s touch, the sight of their body, the kinds of things you do together – that enriches what Ducky calls the “sexual imagination.” Spontaneity, on the other […]

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Sep 212014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Orgasm Every Time?
This entry is part 3 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 3 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingAre you supposed to have an orgasm every time you have sex? Ducky Doolittle answers this question with an emphatic “No!” in this clip. She talks about having a broader definition of what sex is and also what it is for. If the goal […]

Aug 262014
 
Erotic Dancing: Stretching
This entry is part 8 of 13 in the series Erotic Dancing

This entry is part 8 of 13 in the series Erotic DancingAndre Shakti starts out this clip by telling you that whether you dance or not you should be stretching every day. For an erotic dance in particular, though, there are some areas such as the legs, back, and neck that deserve some special attention. […]

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Aug 172014
 
Amp It Up: Erogenous Zones
This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 11 of 12 in the series Amp it UpMost people focus on the genitals and secondary areas like the nipples, according to Ducky, when they’re talking about sex. However, there are many more places that can turn you on, and she tries to get to each and every one in this […]

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Aug 082014
 
Amp It Up: Compliments
This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 8 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky often asks her audiences if anyone has ever received a compliment on their cock, their pussy, some intimate part. The reactions are often shocked, but there are a few people…and they always say it made them feel great. Ducky suggests in this […]

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Jul 312014
 
Girlgasms Mythbusting: Simultaneous Orgasms
This entry is part 4 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 4 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingYou know those beautiful love scenes in the movies where both partners cum at the same time and then bask in the afterglow? Ducky’s here to let you know that’s not the way it happens most of the time – and that’s ok. She […]

Jul 292014
 
Amp It Up: Asking for What You Want
This entry is part 7 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 7 of 12 in the series Amp it UpCommunication is both one of the most essential and most difficult parts of a sexual relationship. Asking for what you want – or explaining to a partner how what you want may have changed – can be a tricky process. Ducky has some […]

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Jul 182014
 
Amp It Up: Penetration is NOT the Definition of Sex
This entry is part 6 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 6 of 12 in the series Amp it UpThinking of sex as simply penis inserted in vagina is very limiting, in Ducky’s opinion. She explains in this clip how sex is more a state of mind and an attitude. It’s all in the way you connect first with yourself and then […]

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Jul 062014
 
Amp It Up: Oxytocin
This entry is part 5 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 5 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky explains about the “happy hormone”: oxytocin. She goes into how the body uses it for all sorts of things, from friendship to parenting but especially as part of sex. By understanding how oxytocin works Ducky thinks you can give yourself better orgasms […]

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Jun 262014
 
Amp It Up: Monthly Cycles
This entry is part 4 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 4 of 12 in the series Amp it UpMenstruation is often considered a taboo subject. Ducky doesn’t think it should be – and she uses this clip to explain how a good understanding of a woman’s monthly cycle can augment your sex life and give both partners more pleasure. This text […]

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Jun 202014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Female Sexual Dysfunction
This entry is part 6 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 6 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingNow that she’s covered so many useful terms, Ducky uses this clip to talk about one that’s just made up: Female Sexual Dysfunction. She explains how this phrase has been created by pharmaceutical companies as a way to market pills. Ducky, on the other […]

Jun 142014
 
Amp It Up: Sex Drive
This entry is part 3 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 3 of 12 in the series Amp it UpIn a hyper-connected and “quantified self” society it’s easy to try and judge our own sex drives by what we think other people are doing. Ducky’s here to say that’s not a good idea. Averages do not give a realistic picture of what […]

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May 292014
 
GirlGasms Mythbusting: Multiple Orgasms
This entry is part 5 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 5 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingDucky explains exactly what people mean when they talk about multiple orgasms in terms of physiology. The muscular contractions are basically only different in terms of rate, she says, and shares with you the results of her years of research into the subject.

May 142014
 
Amp It Up: Anatomical Differences
This entry is part 2 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 2 of 12 in the series Amp it UpDucky reminds you in this clip that men aren’t from Mars, women aren’t from Venus – we’re all right here on Earth, and there are fewer differences between us than you’d think. In fact, one out of every two thousand babies is born […]

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May 042014
 
Amp It Up: The Rut
This entry is part 1 of 12 in the series Amp it Up

This entry is part 1 of 12 in the series Amp it UpNext in her series Ducky tackles a common problem with long-term relationships: falling into the same old habits sexually. She explains the basic human psychology behind why we slip into a routine with our sexuality, even if that’s “tonight we’re going to do […]

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Apr 222014
 
GirlGasm Mythbusting: Orgasm from Penetration Alone
This entry is part 2 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 2 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingOne of the most common questions Ducky gets are from women who want to know how to orgasm solely from penetration of their vulva by a penis. The problem is that there is no magic bullet; 76% of women need more stimulation than simple […]

Apr 152014
 
GirlGasm Mythbusting: Different Kinds of Orgasms
This entry is part 1 of 6 in the series GirlGasm Mythbusting

This entry is part 1 of 6 in the series GirlGasm MythbustingVaginal, clitoral, g-spot, extended – there are many different kinds of orgasms talked about in popular culture. It brings up the question: how do I get these kinds of orgasms? Or even: Am I having the right orgasm? Ducky reassures you in this clip: […]

Apr 052014
 
GirlGasms: Kegel Toys

Ducky has explained in many clips that orgasms involve involuntary contractions of muscles, and that the stronger those muscles are, the better the orgasms get. In this clip she goes over several kinds of toys designed specifically to build those muscles – from the ben-wa balls made famous by “50 Shades of Grey” to silicone […]

Mar 302014
 
GirlGasms: Muscles & Breathing

In this very personal and passionate clip Ducky talks about one of the biggest and most important parts of a woman’s orgasmic potential: the muscles of the pelvic floor. Not only does she talk about them, she also gives a very personal example of why they are worth exercising through kegels and other techniques. Ducky […]

Mar 202014
 
GirlGasms: Lubricants

This clip helps cover two subjects that Ducky commonly talks to women about. First is the idea that how wet a woman is indicates how aroused she is (short answer: sometimes, not always). Second is about various kinds of lubricants that are good to have on hand to help make sex more fun and easy. […]

Mar 132014
 
Girl Gasms: Compliments on Your Pussy

Ducky takes a moment in this clip to talk about the relatively uncommon experience of having someone pay a compliment to your pussy. She describes how various women in the workshops have reacted to this, and uses it as an example of the importance of loving communication between partners.

Mar 062014
 
Girl Gasm: Squirting

Squirting, or “female ejaculation” as Ducky doesn’t like to call it, is a big deal in porn, in popular media, and sometimes between partners. However, there’s a lot of misinformation and misunderstanding about what it it, where it comes from, and how it happens. Using charts, toys, and her own cheerfully accessible way of explaining […]