Sep 192014
Body Image Part 3: What We Like About Each Other

This clip takes the body image topic in a more positive direction, as Graydancer and Poetic tell each other what parts of each other’s bodies they find sexy and beautiful. They are surprised by some of the results, and talk about how it feels to be this open and vulnerable with each other.

Sep 182014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Against the Wall

You don’t need to have a whole lot of props and a dungeon to be dominant, and Scotty proves it in this clip. He talks about how you can use any wall and some confident body language to convey the fantasy of control and dominance. He breaks it down step-by-step, covering position and how to [...]

Sep 162014
Body Image Part 2: What Poetic Doesn't Like

Now it’s Poetic’s turn to talk about her self-image and the parts of her body that make her feel self-conscious. She matter-of-factly talks about herself from head-to-toe in this psychologically demanding exercise.

Sep 142014
Double Blowjobs, Part 4: What the Man Can Do

In this clip Gray shows some of the ways the man receiving the double blowjob can give pleasure directly to the women. Rita and Naiia demonstrate how the body mechanics and feedback help Gray give them the kind of stimulation they desire, from fingering to oral sex. Over all, the focus is on the three [...]

Sep 132014
Vests: The Corset Alternative

If you don’t want to pay a couple of hundred dollars for a corset, Ivy Miller has a lower-cost alternative. In this clip she shows how a couple of different styles of vests can give you a similar body shape as a corset does, including having happy cleavage. She also shows how all it takes [...]

Sep 122014
Erotic Dance: Where to Go From Here

Andre Shakti finishes up her long series on erotic dance with a quick overview of the subject so far and then some ideas for continuing your exploration. Dance can be part of foreplay, it can be an intimate experience in and of itself – but most of all, it doesn’t have to be something that [...]

Sep 112014
Non-Sexual Cuddling, part 3: the Little Spoon

In this short clip Gray and Poetic demonstrate what it’s like when the larger partner is the “little spoon.” They also talk about communicating intent (sexual vs. non-sexual) and how to adjust your bodies for maximum intimacy and comfort.

Sep 092014
Male Domination & Female Submission: On the Couch

Scotty and Annie continue their series by showing some hot moves on the couch. Scotty breaks down all the body mechanics bit by bit to use posture to change Annie’s headspace from “relaxed” to “excited”. He also demonstrates some useful fingerholds for restraint, leg positioning for pressure, and comes out of it with one hand [...]

Sep 072014
Phone Sex: After the Call

Once the hot phone sex is done, there’s one more thing you owe your partner. Maybe not right after, but at some point you should have a conversation about how it went. Ashley believes firmly that absolute honesty is needed here – tell them what words turned you on, what ones didn’t, and listen to [...]

Sep 062014
Double Blowjobs, Part 3: More Positions

Rita and Naiia show two more ways they do a double blowjob on Gray’s cock: kneeling in front of him and also having him lay on his back. They talk about how this becomes a more intimate experience for the two of them, taking turns as they go down on him and sharing his body [...]

Sep 052014
Body Image Part 1: What Gray Doesn't Like

This three-part series is an exercise in self-awareness that Graydancer and Poetic created in an unrehearsed shoot. This first part shows Gray talking bluntly about the parts of his body that he is sensitive about. Top to bottom he talks about what things make him feel unattractive and why. In part two Poetic does the [...]

Sep 042014
Sexy Dress-Up: 5,000 Years of History in Your Closet, Pt. 3 - Using What You Have

In Part 3 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.

Sep 022014
Birth Control Methods

Yonilcious introduces birth control methods from a health care perspective during this five-minute, part-one video. She covers the pros and cons of several common methods such as condoms, diaphragms, Depo-Provera, and more. She continues her discussion in part two.

Aug 312014
Kissing Beyond the Lips, Part 1

There are a lot of clips about kissing on PassionateU, but this one is particularly about kissing parts of the body other than the lips. Gray and Poetic demonstrate and talk about the ways that consent and communication can make a good make out session even better.

Aug 302014
Phone Sex: What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say

Ashley says it’s the most common thing she hears from people: “What if I don’t know what to say?” Luckily, she’s got a few different tactics for overcoming that kind of shyness. The first one involves masturbating, in fact! By the end of the video you’ll have no more fear of running out of things [...]

Aug 292014
Double Blowjobs Part 2: Positions

In this clip Gray, Naiia, and Rita give a realistic perspective on how to try out various positions for a double blow jobs. No tricky porn-style editing – you get to see exactly how bodies move, and how communication happens. Gray also talks about a trick from Reid Mihalko, called “I have an idea!” that [...]

Aug 282014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Touch

When playing with the role play of power exchange, the way you interact with each other nonverbally is just as important as what you say. In this clip Scotty draws on the principles of body language, sports, and fantasy to reinforce the power dynamic between the man and the woman.

Aug 262014
Erotic Dancing: Stretching

Andre Shakti starts out this clip by telling you that whether you dance or not you should be stretching every day. For an erotic dance in particular, though, there are some areas such as the legs, back, and neck that deserve some special attention. She demonstrates several stretches she uses, some modified from her yoga [...]

Aug 242014
Sexy Dress-Up: 5,000 Years of History in Your Closet, Part 2

In Part 2 Ivy explains how your closet already likely has a lot of possibilities for sexy dress-up play. She explains first about how to think about your clothes differently, and then gives concrete examples of how t-shirts, old dresses, and many other unused clothes can give you inspiration and pleasure in the bedroom.

Aug 232014
Bacterial Vaginosis

Megan Andelloux introduces bacterial vaginosis during this seven-minute video. She defines “BV” and then discusses the two main causes as well as several additional causes. Megan describes the symptoms of BV (and chronic BV) as well as the medical treatment options. She also recommends concrete ways to prevent bacterial vaginosis.

Aug 222014
Kissing Beyond the Lips Part 2

In this clip Poetic talks about various ways of kissing the male body, dealing with more body hair (especially beards). She also talks about little love-bites and using the tongue on the neck and face. Gray also discusses how you can deal with hickeys in a mature and adult manner.

Aug 212014
Male Domination & Female Submission: Responsibility

Scotty and Annie talk about the importance of remembering the “fantasy” part of dominant/submissive role play. While it’s fun to indulge in the idea of not having any say in what happens to you, the reality is that you are responsible for yourself on a very basic level. They explain how to engage that responsibility [...]

Aug 192014
Phone Sex: Tone of Voice

In this clip Ashley coaches you through one of the most important parts of phone sex: how you sound. She demonstrates how what you look like can affect how you sound (so you should smile!). Ashley also gives a few other tricks to use when you’re having your hot phone call.

Aug 172014
Amp It Up: Erogenous Zones

Most people focus on the genitals and secondary areas like the nipples, according to Ducky, when they’re talking about sex. However, there are many more places that can turn you on, and she tries to get to each and every one in this clip! Starting from the pc muscles essential to everyone’s orgasm and working [...]

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