One of the tried and true ways to keep your sex life fresh is to try new things (or in this case, places!). Being willing to explore together will create a sense of intimacy & adventure. So throw out the conventional idea of only having sex in bed, and see where your erotic desires take [...]
It’s natural for sex to slow down in long term relationships but you can keep a sensual connection. It’s natural in any long term relationship to find lulls in your libidos. There are a lot of possible factors: to busy, to tired, focus on work, stress at home, body image issues and sometimes our libidos [...]
These are some of my favorite albums to enjoy S&M or good ol’ fashioned fucking…..either experience will be even hotter with a well chosen soundtrack. This album is so grindingly sexy, it’s hard not to feel like fucking! Portishead “Dummy” Pretty much any Enya CD will be great background music, but this “Best Of” collection [...]
I’ve heard many women say “What the deal with the male obsession with breasts?” and while I won’t get into any sort of scientific information, I do have some anecdotal thoughts to share. First of all, I’m a woman and even I can appreciate the many sizes, shapes, nipples and curves that breasts show off. [...]
There are 2 habits that should be prioritized when it comes to building an fulfilling, interesting sex life. The first is communication the second is a willingness to explore. Usually we have at least one of four responses to new sexual ideas: major interest, interest, not interested, or repulsed. It’s important that you figure out [...]
Spicy Subscriptions – A box of sexy goodies delivered to your door! I’ve reviewed this fun service before but this is the Valentine’s Day edition which includes a give-away! There are a few ways to enter: Twitter, Facebook and posting a comment on this blog post. So you have multiple ways of increasing the odds [...]
Talking about our sexual desires isn’t something that’s usually taught in communication classes. Finding a healthy, comfortable way to speak openly about your fantasies and sexual needs is a vital part of having a great sex life. Like anything, practice helps, you’ll get better the more you do it. But first you have to get [...]
Food can be an incredibly sensual experience if you slow down and let your taste buds have time to dance. Cooking a meal together can allow you to be playful and build intimacy. 1.) Have sex before the meal! When you’re both stuffed all full of that yummy food, sex might be the last thing [...]
There are a lot of reasons why couples are in long distance relationship, whether it’s meeting online, meeting on vacation or while you’re visiting someone, perhaps when they were visiting where you live. Jobs can frequently be the cause of a long distance relationship, for money’s sake you ‘go where the job goes’ but hopefully [...]
Even kissing can be boring if you let it become passionless, so a fun way to get back in the smoochy mood is by playing some kissing games. These are probably best enjoyed during ‘adult time’ although I have to admit I’m a believer in parents showing affection for one another in front of their [...]
There are still people who haven’t read the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy (with 5.3 billion copies sold, it’s swept the world) So I still get the question…What IS Fifty Shades of Grey about? As a long time kinkster I’ve become the go-to person with some of my friends for kinky questions. They were curious [...]
“Role-play” typically conjures up women in naughty nurse outfits or French maids uniforms, but this kind of sexy plan can be a lot more creative than that! Those classic roles can be a good place to start the exploration however don’t forget that there are a lot more options. Other classics include College Professor & [...]
One of my favorite things to do is take a sexy shower with my lover. The heat, the steam, the soapy washcloths and slippery hands… yup, it’s a guaranteed good time! Being in the shower or large bathtub together is best when it’s foreplay since it can be pretty hard to get any traction with [...]
Are you an ‘old hand’ at masturbation? Sorry, had to make the pun ;) Or maybe you don’t take much time for self-loving, but would like to. Either way, here are some suggestions to enjoy a little one-on-one time (or one –on-five time…ok, ok, I’ll stop!) because having a hand in your own pleasure is [...]
Sexy time can sometimes slip down the to-do list when life gets busy…so here are some tips to keep the sparks alive and your romantic motor revving. Sometimes it only takes a minute. With a sexy attitude a lot of tension can be built & expressed in only a minute or two. Run your hands [...]
“Dirty” talk is one of the easiest ways to spice up your sexual experiences. I put the word dirty in quotations because that’s the way that society treats sexual words or phrases that turn us on. But that’s a whole other ‘society is hypocritical’ soap box I won’t get up on right now J At [...]
